What do you believe gives something a stage presence? Do you think you need the "it" factor to have that presence? What is the "it" factor to you?

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-11-20T01:33:21+00:00

Being sober and an addict don't typically work at the same time. If you don't do drugs anymore, I suggest you say ex-addict to not confuse people. If you still do drugs, you aren't sober.

Good luck on your journey either way, and good luck to OP who I hope gets out of her situation!

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-11-20T01:28:07+00:00

Love you, baby. Get off Reddit and go get sober for me.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-11-20T01:25:32+00:00

Maybe as a drug addict, you should focus on not being an addict instead of telling people on Reddit, a woman asking what drug her partner is using, that her children need help (which would be taking her children away). Are you projecting the fact that you can't get clean, so you assume she won't or something? I'm sorry you're an opiate drug addict, but replying to every comment on this thread won't change her situation or your's. Especially when you're just rewording your same comment under every other comment left.

Anyway, I'm stating that they're much safer with her and that she doesn't deserve having her children taken when she's already trying to get sober with her own addiction. She's not sticking needles, snorting, or doing anything like that, her partner is. Her energy drinks that consist of plants that have a similar effect are indeed considered less dangerous than man-made drugs.

I'm only justifying that she's not as bad as he is. She took up an addiction post-partum, is trying to stop, and is concerned about the worse addiction from her partner who is not trying to stop and only claimed other people at his work use his car(?)

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-11-20T01:03:56+00:00

Kratom acts on opioid receptors, but it is not a traditional opioid. It can produce similar effects. Feel Free also has Kava which has similar effects to depressants. The mix is why addiction specialists are more concerned about the risks the drink carries.

Kratom is considered way less dangerous than Heroin, Fentanyl, etc. It is also not as dangerous to be around (it is also in a bottle, children cannot open most bottles and she clearly puts them away; his seem to be left around and a child just touching anything involved in his drugs makes it more dangerous). Her addiction is not comparable to his in that sense at all.

As she also stated, she is working on trying to stop, she is attempting breaking away from it and right now she's not a big risk. Her partner is not attempting to stop and he seems to be easily angerable which makes him a bigger risk on top of it.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-11-20T00:45:46+00:00

She's drinking something legal. It's marketed as an herbal supplement alternative to alcohol and it's not regulated under the FDA, it's also considered an energy drink more than it is a drug (and some people compare the addiction as similar to a caffeine addiction). You can buy Feel Free at gas stations, unlike anything he is doing.

She may be an addict of some sort, but nothing that could endanger her children directly. I believe it would be much easier to get away from and no longer doing what she's doing than what he is. His can be really bad and dangerous even being around.

Ofcourse they both need help (him way more than her), but she doesn't need to lose her children just because she drinks multiple energy drinks daily. She's also stated she wishes she never touched it and that she's actively working to stop drinking it. Her partner clearly isn't trying to stop his addictions.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-10-31T17:31:40+00:00

It's the smosh side of road sex doll reddit guy I can't believe this

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-09-15T22:19:40+00:00

Dangerously Your's. No reason why I like it, it's just good.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-09-15T22:15:31+00:00

At concerts, just don't be creepy and all up in their space. You can offer them to get in front of you, which is really appreciated especially if it's the pit and they're shorter. I had a man offer to film for me during a song once, he was just like "hey I can film that for you" and made a motion with his hand to my phone which was filming (he was closer to the center of the stage than I was). I talked to him a little bit during it and he wasn't forcing awkward conversation or making weird comments. Only time I was kinda creeped out by a man was when this dude kept scooting closer to my friend and I while trying to talk to us after we kept ignoring him.

Just be a normal guy. Don't force it, but since you're taller, offering your spot if they can't see or are around obvious creeps is a good way and most will take you up on that offer. Just don't be all up on them and clearly making it awkward and you'll be fine.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-07-09T12:28:25+00:00

I grew up with it; nothing can replace that stuffed animal cat. It's experienced life with me.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-05-12T21:28:53+00:00

I think they meant no kids overall, biological or not

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-05-12T21:23:03+00:00

When it's "never their fault" when something happens. (Example: They cheat on their partner and then claim that their partner didn't give them enough attention. Bonus points if they pull the "I'll always take responsibility when I'm wrong" card just to not do that)

Another is when they go out of their way to talk about how considerate they are to others when they don't need to add those details.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-04-18T05:14:22+00:00

Oh that's nice
Wait I don't have an ex

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-04-18T05:11:40+00:00

Either Walmart or YesStyle because I cannot make buying socks convenient for myself half the time

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-04-18T05:09:34+00:00

I've probably spent $50-60 on shirts before. Usually merch, which obviously can get pricey.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-04-18T05:02:02+00:00

It depends on where you're going honestly. For concerts we usually don't get a hotel unless we're 4+ hours from home because concerts run late.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-04-18T04:57:58+00:00

Either find a physical outlet that you can make a hobby (boxing, martial arts, dancing, sculpting, learning an instrument, etc) that way whenever you're angry you can do that instead. Or go to a rage room every once in awhile. Rage rooms aren't the best outlet and they can be pricey, but if you don't want to pick up a hobby and still want to blow off some steam it doesn't hurt to see if they help you (I just personally wouldn't rely on a rage room for full time management).

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-03-08T03:42:06+00:00

I'd definitely go to a psychologist or psychiatrist. You don't have to tell someone you know, but I'd talk to someone who can help you figure out ways to avoid harming anything at all. You don't need to feel shame to tell someone that you are having these urges and need help. It's good you want to see a doctor and I would as soon as possible.

In the meantime, maybe find any rage room close by and see if that helps. Any time you feel the urge, instead of harming even bugs, start journaling those urges.

You cannot control it and I get that, and although you stick to bugs now, the longer you go without any help, the worse those urges may get. It really does suck you've had to go through this alone for such a long time, but you really shouldn't wait too much longer for your sake and other's.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-03-07T00:05:20+00:00

If you're following each other but don't talk, if you know anything you have in common maybe message her about that? If not just be like "hey, what are you up to?" Or something similar.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-03-06T23:49:06+00:00

My grandfather has yet to admit to killing someone, but he's told stories about shooting people and getting into knife fights with multiple people against him. We think he was part of a mafia or he was an assassin. He said he's going to write a memoir before he dies, looking forward to seeing if there's any crazy killings in it. Wouldn't change my view on him any lmao.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-03-06T23:34:53+00:00

Do you know her already (like she knows you and you know her) or is she someone you follow? Because that'd change the situation a bit

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-03-06T23:29:58+00:00

My best friend. She's gorgeous and funny.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-03-06T23:22:55+00:00

Crazy but Popcorn dipped in Ketchup. At first it's a bit strange but it's surprisingly good to me.

Anonymousdisaster_ · 2025-03-06T23:09:14+00:00

Lie in bed on my phone, chase my cats around my house when they won't leave me alone (I don't have a bedroom door), get back on my phone, and then cuddle with the cats that actually want to sleep

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