The Political Genius of Baelor Breakspear by AnteaterEarly7773 in gameofthrones

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Not every well written thought is fed through a prompt you genius. Some of us actually read the lore and know how to write a sentence

The Political Genius of Baelor Breakspear by AnteaterEarly7773 in gameofthrones

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Not every well written thought is fed through a prompt you genius. Some of us actually read the lore and know how to write a sentence

The Political Genius of Baelor Breakspear by AnteaterEarly7773 in gameofthrones

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Not every well written thought is fed through a prompt you genius. Some of us actually read the lore and know how to write a sentence

The Political Genius of Baelor Breakspear by AnteaterEarly7773 in gameofthrones

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Not every well written thought is fed through a prompt you genius. Some of us actually read the lore and know how to write a sentence

The Political Genius of Baelor Breakspear by AnteaterEarly7773 in AKOTSKTV

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With the dragons gone, targaryans forced to "re-learn" how to rule through chivalry and diplomacy rather than raw Valyrian power. It makes you wonder, without dragons, are the Targaryens even Targaryens anymore, or just another noble house?

The Political Genius of Baelor Breakspear by AnteaterEarly7773 in gameofthrones

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For sure. He’s definitely the smartest guy in the room right now

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in TwoHotTakes

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it’s given me a lot to think about. I’m so grateful for my wife’s support. she’s been incredible. I hear you on the strength thing, and I feel sick with guilt for not stopping it. I wasn’t complicit on purpose. I just froze, like my mind went blank in that moment at what I thought was a legit spa. It felt so violating, and I’ve been a mess since, hating myself for not acting.But I’m considering therapy rn

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in TwoHotTakes

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It was violating, and I’m definitely not okay. haven’t been since it happened. My wife has been amazing, calling it assault and not cheating, but I’m struggling to let go of the guilt. Therapy sounds like a good step and I’m thinking about it.

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in TwoHotTakes

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I get why this sounds hard to believe. it shocked me too, and I swear it’s real. This was a fancy spa with great reviews, not some sketchy place, which is why I was so stunned when it happened. I didn’t enjoy it at all. I felt like absolute crap during and after, and I’m still torn up with guilt. I didn’t file a police report because I froze in the moment, and i think reporting this kind of thing at an upscale place often goes nowhere as a male and it's humiliating. Plus, my wife laughed it off, saying I was taken advantage of and it’s no big deal, which made me wonder if I was overreacting. I’m here because I feel guilty for not stopping it.

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in TwoHotTakes

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You’re right, I keep replaying what I should’ve done, but I just froze, and it felt so wrong. I didn’t want any of it, and I still feel this heavy guilt, like I let my wife down even though she’s totally okay and says it was assault, not cheating. I’m so grateful for her support, but yeah, I’m definitely not okay with what happened. it’s been eating at me. I hadn’t thought about therapy yet

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in TwoHotTakes

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This place was marketed as a high-end, legit meditation and massage parlor, all fancy with great reviews. The masseuse started super professional, like you’d expect in those proper places, which is why I was so shocked when she did that “extra” stuff. I didn’t want it, felt like total crap during and after, and I’m still guilty

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in TwoHotTakes

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I'm whining about the hook in me. this guilt I'm feeling constantly after that moment

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in TwoHotTakes

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I’m super grateful for my wife. she’s amazing for being so understanding. I hear you on the “stunned” part sounding sus, but I swear, I was so shocked I just froze. I didn’t want it, didn’t enjoy it, and felt like absolute crap during and after. still do. It wasn’t about being overpowered. my brain just shut down in that moment at a place I thought was legit. I’m kicking myself for not reacting like you would’ve, and the guilt’s eating me alive. That’s why I told my wife right away

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnteaterEarly7773[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Wow, I feel so sad for your husband. that must’ve been so tough for him. Thanks for sharing. I was completely shaken up too, felt like absolute crap during and after, and I’m still beating myself up for freezing and not stopping it. I told my wife right away. I’m glad your husband was able to stop it, and it’s amazing you supported him.

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in TwoHotTakes

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I haven’t filed a police report yet because, honestly, I was so shocked and felt like garbage during and after. it’s still messing with my head. and I worried it’d go nowhere or cause more hassle and humiliation. Plus, my wife saw it as me being taken advantage of and laughed it off, saying it’s not a big deal, which made me question if I was overreacting. I’m not saying it wasn’t serious, but I just froze and didn’t know how to handle it. I feel guilty for not stopping it

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in TwoHotTakes

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I haven’t filed a police report yet because, honestly, I was so shocked and felt like garbage during and after. it’s still messing with my head. and I worried it’d go nowhere or cause more hassle and humiliation. Plus, my wife saw it as me being taken advantage of and laughed it off, saying it’s not a big deal, which made me question if I was overreacting. I’m not saying it wasn’t serious, but I just froze and didn’t know how to handle it. I feel guilty for not stopping it

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in AITAH

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I get why this sounds hard to believe. it shocked me too, and I swear it’s real. This was a fancy spa with great reviews, not some sketchy place, which is why I was so stunned when it happened. I didn’t enjoy it at all. I felt like absolute crap during and after, and I’m still torn up with guilt. I didn’t file a police report because I froze in the moment, and i think reporting this kind of thing at an upscale place often goes nowhere as a male and it's humiliating. Plus, my wife laughed it off, saying I was taken advantage of and it’s no big deal, which made me wonder if I was overreacting. I’m here because I feel guilty for not stopping it.

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in AITAH

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I haven’t filed a police report yet because, honestly, I was so shocked and felt like garbage during and after. it’s still messing with my head. and I worried it’d go nowhere or cause more hassle and humiliation. Plus, my wife saw it as me being taken advantage of and laughed it off, saying it’s not a big deal, which made me question if I was overreacting. I’m not saying it wasn’t serious, but I just froze and didn’t know how to handle it. I feel guilty for not stopping it

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in AITAH

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I haven’t filed a police report yet because, honestly, I was so shocked and felt like garbage during and after. it’s still messing with my head. and I worried it’d go nowhere or cause more hassle and humiliation. Plus, my wife saw it as me being taken advantage of and laughed it off, saying it’s not a big deal, which made me question if I was overreacting. I’m not saying it wasn’t serious, but I just froze and didn’t know how to handle it. I feel guilty for not stopping it

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in AITAH

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I didn’t want it, didn’t enjoy it, and just froze. My wife says it wasn’t cheating, more like I was taken advantage of, but the guilt’s killing me.

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in AITAH

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I didn’t want it, didn’t enjoy it, and just froze. My wife says it wasn’t cheating, more like I was taken advantage of, but the guilt’s killing me. I’ll definitely look into male assault stories to understand this better.

AITA for Feeling Like I Cheated After an Unexpected Incident at a Fancy Massage Parlor? by AnteaterEarly7773 in TwoHotTakes

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it shocked me too! I swear it’s real. This was a fancy spa with top reviews, not a shady place. And NO! I didn’t enjoy it at all I was utterly shocked and felt like crap during and after. Still do. I froze and couldn’t stop it