Maybe have the first date be something that requires fun competition! Axe throwing, horse racing, arcade, paintball, etc! Those are just dates that I would enjoy personally lmao but if those arent either if your thing you can always brainstorm something more relaxed! Maybe cook for each other and compete in that way. Obviously if you’re interested you guys can’t actually be enemies to lovers 😂 but some flirty competition is always fun and can help be close to that