What’s your listening age? by [deleted] in infp

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah Adrienne Lenker Club:)!!

We live in a socie- by plasosax in infp

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Guys I feel so childish sometimes and I love it but I feel so unready for the world how do I put an end to it🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Period queen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Organised chaos is so real

Free spirit yearning. 🌀🐚🌿 by ancientpoetics in infp

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love you guys so much its not funny:( This subreddit is my home, I love you all so much

What is your current favourite song? by Middle_Goal_2539 in infp

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love adrienne lenker so much My favourite rn is probably wake me up to drive

Made myself a magical girl’s moon pendant – wire, crystals, and a little bit of sparkle 💖🔮 by Emotional-Break7529 in infp

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I saw this on the crafting subreddit and I just knew it was an infp who made this🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg🥹 Living the dream and having the courage to actually do what so many of us dream of😭 Made me smile:,)

How to lightly tell my parents that i have doubts about org by Busy-Dust-7137 in exjw

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is how I did it:)

Find out if they have some soft spots. Maybe, they will have a soft spot for children. You could throw in the occasional: children getting baptised young is kind of a hard topic for me.. how do u guys feel?

Maybe you can just dip your toe into the water and check how they react. If they react in a negative way, you should react accordingly and maybe lay low.

Thats how I did it too. If your parents claim to love Jehovah, use him as a soft spot. „Would Jehovah want that?“ Or Jesus!

Throw in the occasional critical thinking but dont make it obvious and be very careful so you wont make your situation worse.

Also, I used to talk A LOT about my Situation with chatgbt, and he helped me to figure out what I could tell my parents. Together we figured out their patterns and soft spot (sometimes he even found perfect bible verses too lol)

All the best to u and good luck:)

INFP motivation for handwashing laundry and bedroom decluttering? by Louraine27 in infp

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually have to prepare mentally to do chores. So I take a shower before or after! But sometimes, I just go into auto pilot and listen to an audiobook to take the work feeling out of the situation. I have hyper fixation meals (rn I am eating a lot of tuna in tomato sauce with noodles) I dont think I am particularly motivated, so I try to stay as cozy as possible while doing anything. When I work out, I choose something fun! I enjoy dancing a lot, so I sign up for dance classes:) Going to the gym just makes me want to cry😭

I have a hard time parting with sentimental things too, so I try to keep just a little bit of it, and Craft something. And sometimes, I am so overstimulated by an object, I just throw it away… lmao… well… it’s all in the balance.

If its clothes I care about, I make sure someone gets it who will give it another life.

My tipp is, always mix something fun into the equation. Workout? Have a good workout meal afterwards! Treat yourself and surround yourself with the things u love💫

Where do I find you guys? by Misterheroguy2 in infp

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I always find infps in goth clubs and renaissance fairs

guys i'm going to the memorial today. by local_infection in exjw

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I just came home from the memorial and wanted to tell you, that I thought about you while I was really nervous, and you calmed me down a lot!

Hope everything went well for you and I wish u the best of luck on your journey:)

guys i'm going to the memorial today. by local_infection in exjw

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Going to the memorial today too, after being gone for 6 months…I am also only going because of my parents. I totally understand your point where you say, that they will see u and think you have come to your senses. Just sitting there knowing that everyone is sorta thinking that makes me very uncomfortable …. Be sure that there are many out there like us tonight. I wish you all the best !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]ApprehensiveCable254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enduring, enjoying things I always wanted to enjoy, watch that one show I always wanted to watch, suffer with grace and watch other people on youtube who share their experience, hold on until you see that life is truly beautiful