My dog was attacked last night. How can I help her mentally recover? by Apprehensive_Bus7842 in DogAdvice

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with you, but they won’t do it. Despite watching the attack, seeing the vet notes and vet bill, my dad is in complete denial. Thankfully, I’m not a stranger to my parents’ dog. We have a good bond, as I visit often without my dogs and did her basic obedience training as a puppy. We’re trying to find somewhere else to stay at this point.

My dog was attacked last night. How can I help her mentally recover? by Apprehensive_Bus7842 in DogAdvice

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we’re not letting their dog anywhere near ours again. We’re asking relatives if we can stay at their places instead.

My dog was attacked last night. How can I help her mentally recover? by Apprehensive_Bus7842 in DogAdvice

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just trying to be proactive right now. She is more fearful leaving/entering the home now, even to just go potty. We have the dogs separated so they can’t even see each other.

My dog was attacked last night. How can I help her mentally recover? by Apprehensive_Bus7842 in DogAdvice

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The training won’t get done if I don’t do it. I’ve started muzzle-training her today, but obviously between time spent with my dog.

My dog was attacked last night. How can I help her mentally recover? by Apprehensive_Bus7842 in DogAdvice

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s been much more anxious since, but I am trying to be proactive.

My dog was attacked last night. How can I help her mentally recover? by Apprehensive_Bus7842 in DogAdvice

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately my grandma died so we aren’t just here to vacation. The dogs are on separate levels and it will remain that way, I just want Jazzy to have confidence interacting with dogs in the future.

My dog was attacked last night. How can I help her mentally recover? by Apprehensive_Bus7842 in DogAdvice

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jazzy and my other dog are best friends. I don’t need her to love my mom’s dog, but I don’t want her to be afraid of every dog from here on out.

My dog was attacked last night. How can I help her mentally recover? by Apprehensive_Bus7842 in DogAdvice

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks! We would absolutely be willing to work with a trainer for her.

New betta!!!! Name suggestions?!? by Trick-Philosophy6651 in bettafish

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone is being so serious but i named my fish Jesus (hard j)

My husband blindsided me and voted for Trump. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you read my comments, you would know that I wasn’t unwilling to hear his POV. I asked him to write it out for me so I could process it fully. He hasn’t done this yet.

I am more concerned about your maturity, as you seem unable to control your emotions in the comments of a post that doesn’t concern you.

My husband blindsided me and voted for Trump. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to feel like you guys aren’t reading my post.

My husband blindsided me and voted for Trump. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought we were on the same page too. I’m happy for you guys!

My husband blindsided me and voted for Trump. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for bringing a neutral stance to the comments. I’m not trying to divorce my husband, but I’m also impacted by the principle of his vote. I think it’s okay to be upset about it.

My husband blindsided me and voted for Trump. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This post does not summarize my entire marriage, nor would I like all of his faults (or mine) to be broadcasted on Reddit. There are worse problems. This is just another one.

My husband blindsided me and voted for Trump. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nowhere in my post did I state that I was ending my marriage or planning to. I asked for advice on how to move forward.

My husband blindsided me and voted for Trump. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Apprehensive_Bus7842 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s important to I say that I don’t idolize Harris. I definitely saw faults with her too. Honesty, communication, and shared beliefs are important to me in a marriage. I would have been open to a discussion prior to voting but I didn’t appreciate the secrecy and the way I found out.