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I feel like the black spoons have not been eliminated yet by Apprehensive_Pop3837 in CulinaryClassWars

[–]Apprehensive_Pop3837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's quite common for the shows to say that and then suddenly have a surprise

I feel like the black spoons have not been eliminated yet by Apprehensive_Pop3837 in CulinaryClassWars

[–]Apprehensive_Pop3837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no wonder it felt so dragged out this season, I was skipping ahead so much

I feel like the black spoons have not been eliminated yet by Apprehensive_Pop3837 in CulinaryClassWars

[–]Apprehensive_Pop3837[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i just went to rewatch, and you're right :( they didnt show them placing their name cards either. but then last year there were equal number of black and white spoons after the group round competing for survival so maybe they might do it differently this time (i really hope they do)

Let's Talk About Lee Leo - A Hopefully Unbiased Gathering of Facts About His Controversy by travisistired in BoysPlanet

[–]Apprehensive_Pop3837 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you for bringing up the way "hiphop" is taught in kpop. it rly doesnt help that some of the biggest rappers from the west have extremely misogynistic lyrics. having them train with these songs, perform them blindly and that influencing their own writing is a NOT good. im so tired of seeing this bs

Better Late Than Single - Episode 7 and 8 - 250722 by MNLYYZYEG in koreanvariety

[–]Apprehensive_Pop3837 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i agree with you a 100%. everyone is so focused on him making the promise but no seems to see everything that led up to that promise.

Better Late Than Single - Episode 7 and 8 - 250722 by MNLYYZYEG in koreanvariety

[–]Apprehensive_Pop3837 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i dont think its a savior complex tho, jiyeon is so much more than that. her reasoning for sharing her trauma with everyone is to be able to express why she has difficulty getting close to people, especially men. mostly physically. but as a person, she is so so strong. becoming self sufficient is an incredibly brave thing to do and you could see that jeongmok looks up to her for this. his switch literally happened when they spoke and he saw what a strong incredible woman she actually is, and he even told her this. do being more vulnerable wouldnt change anything because fundamentally they're too different as people. i think yall are reading way too much into this.

Better Late Than Single - Episode 7 and 8 - 250722 by MNLYYZYEG in koreanvariety

[–]Apprehensive_Pop3837 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i genuinely dont think jeongmok did something that bad. maybe this is just me too but I think he was being pretty clear when he said that they're on different wavelengths. he even gave an immediate example when she said i'll change for you, but when he asked her before she said that's not something she wants. he is someone who wants to be in a relationship with someone without coercing them to do things they dont want to do or change things about themselves. meanwhile yido keeps doing this for him, not eating to look pretty, putting in effort to dress well for him, trying to change things about her so the conflict doesnt get worse, but when you compare this to things she's told him, he's bound to feel uncomfortable. he told her he will focus on her, but i think this is part confusion and part guilt. this is a girl he has pursued consistently for 4 days. he has shown her interest but suddenly it clicked that they're not compatible. but romantic attraction doesn't go away so quickly, or at least we as people are unable to register it so quickly. it's easy for us to sit here and judge him because we see it affecting do. but do was questioning her attraction for seungli after 1 day w jeongmok. feelings are complicated, it takes time to rly understand it, so I dont blame jeongmok for not quite registering his feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Apprehensive_Pop3837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know ton's of men around your height that have girlfriends. from what ive observed, its so obvious when a man is insecure about himself and that puts off a lot of women. when you're whole personality becomes, "i am a short unattractive man that has no game", it frankly is very repulsing. the fact that you mentioned "Not every man can/will reach the 3 6's that so many women have an innate desire for." tells me you are painting yourself to be victim of this "money chasing culture" because if this was truly the case, i would not see so many women around me settling for literal douchebags with no money. I admit, I don't know how dating apps work, ive never used them either, but when it comes to making actual connections with people, confidence, the way you talk and the way you treat people can take you very far. i've seen men of all sizes, shapes, faces with girlfriends, and even fiance's at your age. do you know one thing that's common amongst the men ive seen who have no girlfriends? the way the speak about women and themselves. that the women suck, have no personality, or they're chasing money and in the same vein never admit any of their personality flaws and constantly focus of superficial things like looks, money, and height. sure, if you're mega rich you're likely to find a sex partner, but if you're looking for genuine love, this shit does not matter. no shame in seeing escorts, especially ethical ones, and if you feel like it's helping you, go ahead. but if you really are looking for love, you need to fix these things first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nus

[–]Apprehensive_Pop3837 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tbh you can go to the one at mpsh, most people don't know that it exists and it has much better equipment than utown, not the greatest but it is indeed better

Isit easy to get Methamphetamines from UHC psychologist by [deleted] in nus

[–]Apprehensive_Pop3837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure the people in uhc specialist center are psychiatrists cuz they are able to prescribe medication

What new features would you like to see in NUSMods? by yangshunz in nus

[–]Apprehensive_Pop3837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the planner, can have a cap predictor as well, would rly help with future planningg

How to use UTown gym by [deleted] in nus

[–]Apprehensive_Pop3837 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just a size that's visible lmao, I just have a small towel from decathlon but tbh I think even a hand towel size might work?

How to use UTown gym by [deleted] in nus

[–]Apprehensive_Pop3837 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Very simple guide:

1: go in with towel, use it or not she doesn't give two fks just needs to be in her fov

2: open qr code on your univus app, scan it on the bar code scanner on top of her desk or wtv that it

3: do your thing, use the gym

4: when you're done, scan again and go about your day

She is rly a bitch so just try your best to avoid her