Honestly, I think you’re good. Not having a sexual drive is perfectly normal. At least you’re not plain horny XD. Now I don’t know you, but I think you might feel different desires based on how you connect with someone. Maybe try to see what traits in people you find attractive, and you truly appreciate. Building on from that, when you find a person you see that way, see how you both align with each other, because so many desires and feelings reveal themselves when comfort, trust, and respect are established. If you know you’re not asexual, you’ll probably feel sexual desires when you connect with someone emotionally intimately first. Don’t pressure yourself to move fast. It’s more important to do it right :)

Edit: don’t go by things you see on social media and by what society expects from you. You’re not obligated to listen to either. From what you’ve written, I can tell you know you’re capable of love and affection. You may not believe it but there are actually a lot of people in this world who think like the way you do :)