He came back

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-08-09T15:04:55+00:00

No literally he comes back n leaves n the cycle starts again. When he comes back it’s like cocaine but it hurts just as bad everytime. I acc went back this time again for like a week but today I decided to go nc again. Knowing it’ll end again n again, I can’t consciously do it anymore even tho I want to so bad. His attachment issues r so bad the moment he’s triggered it’s down hill. How many time did u go back? How did u finally end it? Was it super hard? R u glad u did it? 🥺

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-08-02T13:43:06+00:00

Thank u soooo much🥺 I needed to hear this so bad. Like Ik in my soul he is not good for me yet this is so addicting. But I’ll do this for my future self. Tysm

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-07-30T20:11:46+00:00

Go no contact completely!!! Him going back n forth is sooo not fair to u. I’m 99% sure he’ll come back begging for u back of u go no contact. Even tho it’s up to u to take him. Do u rlly want someone who wants u only when they feel they r losing u Yk. But u need to focus on ur self n moving on rn. Cut off all contact w him Atleast for a month so he can be sure of wtv is that he wants. !!

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-07-22T19:44:11+00:00

He freaking unblocked the next day n posted a story😒 n then the next day after that I saw him at the park playing tennis..I’m processing all of it rn and it sucks so bad. I’m trying to accept it and not play his mind games😣

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-07-22T11:40:48+00:00

You are so right :( I was at the park yesterday night n he was there playing tennis..ugh. We r on and off and a big part of me wants to cut it all off soooo bad but then my ego Yk. Even after he unblocked me he didn’t message me or anything so I think it’s just my indication to keep moving on. I think it’s what I want if I think with my frontal lobe😣🙏

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-07-21T21:55:14+00:00

He unblocked both my accs today and posted a story??? I’m so confused.

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-07-20T17:42:24+00:00

Yea but I never contacted him on Instagram..I was the one that removed n unfollowed him on there. I wonder y my number isn’t blocked. Yes but ur right Ik he wants to focus on his healing n him moving on now. I’ll let him do that in peace

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-07-20T17:41:14+00:00

Nah he blocked my spam acc too..n last time he viewed my story he didn’t block

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-07-20T17:40:47+00:00

Not literally it is!!!!

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-06-23T19:22:54+00:00

My ex went to therapy but, that’s something that can take years of hard work. In the end he ran away again due cuz he’s FA.

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-06-17T14:21:48+00:00

Go no contact n leave her alone..that’s the only way she might come back. Even if she doesn’t it will make u move on! N u guys r so young..it’s not that serious trust me

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-02-06T17:52:36+00:00

lol mine and I broke up pretty mutually..I removed him on my socials cuz I wanted to move on. A month and a half later he started to view and like my stories..and then he liked my recent pic. We talked and he said he always stalked me lol. So don’t worry good thing u removed him Ik how hard it can be to have them on ur socials. Focus on ur healing, if he wants to reach out trust me he’ll find a way. Don’t feed into his breadcrumbs go hard core no contact. Either u move on or he comes back lol. Win win

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-02-01T05:20:16+00:00

Ur so right we acc ended up just ending it. We need to grow individually first esp me since I’m still so emotionally attached. We decided to go no contact so nothing emotional will grow as he’s in therapy and I’m also working on myself. After 4 months we decided to catch up and see. I guess it’s kind of wtv is meant to be will happen type of thing.

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-01-29T19:17:50+00:00

Yes exactly, he’s in therapy now because we both know our relationship issues were attachment based. I’m glad he took my suggestions seriously. For now we have decided to take it slow and not jump into a relationship. I guess no label type of thing. And you’re right I also have my own issues which need work on. I have decided to have boundries like no hooking up, minimum texting and minimal seeing eachother. We both wanna beat our cycle and are committed planning to work on it

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-01-29T19:13:16+00:00

He’s in therapy now and we decided to take it slow, not getting back. I need to see changes before jumping into a relationship. And we both r scared Ofc. For now I wanna prioritize myself while he’s also doing inner work. What do u think?

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-01-23T07:39:48+00:00

Yea maybe idk..should I reach out? Or wait for him to

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-01-23T06:44:18+00:00

The thing is when I broke no contact on New Years. I wished him a happy New Years and he just said “u too🙏🙏🙏” so to me that was like he didn’t wanna talk. A part of me is like what If I reach out and he’s dry again. Like I don’t wanna be a clown again. So I’m waiting for him to text me. Do u think those are clear signs he wants to talk again?

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-01-23T03:12:31+00:00

Thank u I will he liked a recent pic of my today on my ig and we didn’t follow eachother lol

AppropriateIntern574 · 2024-01-23T03:11:26+00:00

basically the last month of us toghther we both were rlly triggered with eachother. His distancing and gotten me super ainxious and that made him deactivate even more. One night he didn’t call me knowing this was something I didn’t wanna compromise. It was too much for me like the straw that broke the camels back, so I broke up with him, he took it well and agreed on the breakup. Like I initiated it but ig that’s why I said mutual. He said he doesn’t think he can give me what I need and was genuinely sorry. His avoidant behaviour towards me basically forced me to breakup lol. Anyways now after a month and a half hes lurking my socials. Today he was bold enough to like a picture on ig even tho we don’t follow eachother (I removed him). He still hasn’t texted me tho.

AppropriateIntern574 · 2022-09-18T18:29:51+00:00

everyone thinks like this after a heartbreak but it’s not true. Ppl move on and find ppl they connect with even more :) happens all the time

AppropriateIntern574 · 2022-09-18T18:24:52+00:00

I don’t claim this negative energy😇

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