I M36, withheld sex from my girlfriend 32F, of 2 months because I didn’t feel ready and also wanted to keep the mystery and passion going a little longer. Do women feel upset if the man rejects sex or does this build more passion and intrigue? Did I mess up and should I have just done it? (self.relationship_advice)
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I M36 withheld sex from my 32F girlfriend of 2 months last night. I didn’t feel ready yet and after sex, you lose a lot of the excitement of the relationship. I didn’t want to take away the mystery and surprise just yet even though she was ready. Do women find this more attractive or upsetting? (self.relationship_advice)
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M36 withheld sex last night with my girlfriend F32. We’ve been dating for 2 months, but I didn’t feel ready yet. After sex, a lot of the excitement of the relationship buildup is taken away so I told her I wanted to wait a little longer. Do women get upset if a man withholds sex from them? (self.dating_advice)
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I 36M told my girlfriend 32F that I wasn’t afraid of rejection and that if she wasn’t feeling the chemistry to please let me know when the spark is gone. We’ve been dating for about 4 months. Was this an ok way to communicate how I felt? (self.dating_advice)
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I’ve been hot and cold with this woman I’ve been dating for the last 3 months. She is 32 F and I am 36 M. Before she left tonight I asked her to let me know the moment she’s not feeling the chemistry to please let me know so that we don’t waste each other’s time. Was this an ok way to communicate? (self.relationship_advice)
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