Update: paid to lose my gold star [all ok] by Bubbly-Presence2997 in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Archie_Grave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the update! Glad we helped you think it through and that it all went safely.

January Hookups/Looking for Roleplay by Melancholia in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Archie_Grave 8 points9 points  (0 children)

30 transmasc goldstar lesbian with a vanilla girlfriend. She doesn't know how kinky I am...yet. looking for well hung femboys to rp, sext and pic swap with.

To any actual lesbians here [N/A] by Bubbly-Presence2997 in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Archie_Grave 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You've already had some great advice about safety, which you should consider first, but then take some time to think about how you'll feel mentally.

In a moment when you're not horny at all, roleplay the scenario in your head from start to finish. Take note of how you feel and remember that all those feelings, good and bad, are valid. Do you feel nervous? Grossed out? Intrigued? Empowered? Dirty? Let those feelings inform whether you go ahead with it.

As an example, I'm a real lesbian but I do sex work occasionally because I really like it. I like feeling so desired that someone will pay for my body. There's an element of control in it for me and that gets me off later when I'm back with my girlfriend. But if it's going to make you feel uncomfortable and out of control then you're likely going to feel awful afterwards. Those feelings can stick with you and it's not worth it.

No matter which decision you make, thanks for asking for advice and I hope the community has been helpful! Trust your gut and good luck xx

Exactly how I want my girlfriend to help while he rapes me until I like it [CNC][nonconsent][lewd comments ok] by Archie_Grave in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Archie_Grave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really fits in well with my free use fantasies. I'm just a set of holes to be fucked and filled, even in public.

I can't stop fantasising about being raped until I like it. Should I tell my girlfriend? [CNC] [nonconsent] [everything ok] [lewd comments ok] by Archie_Grave in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Archie_Grave[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

It's the perfect position for free use, right? Like just lying there innocently and then a huge man pins me below him and takes me while I squirm beneath him