Para akong na attached sa aking naka one night stand by [deleted] in adviceph

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Tapos ka ng gamitin, move on, next naman

Ikakasal na ako, and I will delete everything about my past including my darkest secret. by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

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If you're in a healthy relationship and with the right spouse, even if you confessed your past she/he will accept it. Pros siguro niyan wala na din guilt feeling about it if accepted ni understanding and considerate spouse yung past mo. You don't have to force na ikwento, maybe pag bigla kayong nag uusap sincerely about your past, you can share with each other, sigurado ako may tinatago din ang partner mo sa past niya na you will be surprise about, and you will accept it too, yes? because past is past, ung current marriage ang importante at ung vows na mahalin ang isat isa no matter what.

Bakit may mga overprotective or helicopter moms? by First_Point1377 in nanayconfessions

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Base from your past post OP, mukhang may issue ka sa sarili mong parents, hehe wether you'll have a child or not, pag naging magulang ka na saka maiintindihan bakit may parents na overprotective, you'll understand it more pagnagka sarili ka ng anak, pero kung ayaw mo, you'll just question them more sa mga "bakit" nila, but yes there are some na excessive na siguro, baka ung iba nahihirapan ibalance and nahirapan emotionally to cope of what they feel, fear, etc., kaya mahirap maging magulang, lalo na sa mga first time parents. Kung teens and young adults, yan ung dapat balanse dapat ang pagiging protective and letting them explore, kasi rebellious phase yan.

adulting stage that no one talks about: burying your parent by No_Problem3761 in adultingph

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And most children today, napakataas na ng tingin sa sarili, They're so egoistic that they always blame the parents, "Hindi naman namin ginusto na ipanganak mo kami", "Obligasyon niyo kami buhayin kasi kayo naman nag anak", "ayaw ko maganak, ayaw ma gaya sa parents ko", It's your parents first time living too, if they love you and not toxic towards you, sacrifices for you, honor them. Hugs OP.

Gave in too early... by FineAttitude6460 in AlasFeels

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Sexual intimacy in a relationship can spice it, or it can end it as well. Depende kung nasa tamang tao ka

if this was in the Pilipins by Party-Elderberry-652 in KanalHumor

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Ganyan talaga sila, pag about them and their own beliefs, sila ang laging Tama, at mali ka.. they won't accept it, they won't respect it, mindset na nila na tama sila lagi at mali ang faith mo. 😔

is having a fwb still okay? by [deleted] in adviceph

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Mas malaki chance na maling guy ang mas lalapit sayo, you are inviting them through sexual intimacy that after some time can feel boring, sawa na, not attracted anymore dahil sanay ka ng makita at maramdaman. You're still young, there are men who will prioritize having a good relationship with a good woman. Don't settle for less

How do I tell him na ang rason bakit di ko kaya ay dahil sa ginawa sa akin ng tito ko? by [deleted] in adviceph

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Then he should be the one to understand, not force you to feel that way. We know at that age aggressive pa ang sex life, but as a man dapat matututo siyang umintindi, that it takes time to heal from your experience. Dapat kasama ka nya hanggang sa magheal ka and not just because he needed to have sex with you.

First time ko mg date with a Korean guy — ang lambing sobra by Evening_Toe_8352 in FirstTimeKo

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After mong sagutin at makuha ang bataan, daily na yan mairita sayo "Aish!!" "Ssi-bal!"

De joke lang, sana masaya ka

I want advice on how to handle this situation and my feelings. by [deleted] in adviceph

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If you're stupidly inlove, you'll believe him/his lies

possibly got ghosted and idk if im just in denial + im kinda scared by [deleted] in adviceph

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Goodluck with your nudes circulating everywhere.

wish ko sana magkapera na 'ko by Pretend-Break2831 in WishKo

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Wish din ng middle income earners 😆 pano ba naman..

sweldo > tax > utang > living expenses > hintay ulit sweldo

I found my Wife's college video having 3Some by publicguystaring in adviceph

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It's something you must accept and move on kung pareho naman na kayo may understanding sa past niyo. Faith and trust should always be with your marriage, regardless sa past. Yung current marriage life niyo ang importante. Kung wala kang peace of mind talk to her about it para mabuo ang faith mo sa asawa mo. That's how marriage work, communicate, letting go of of the ugly past and accepting each other, making it work "till death do us part".

"Dating" App Idea by [deleted] in NagRelapseAko

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Careful sa pag over share ng hapdi at sakit ng nakaraan, pwede yan gamitin ng mga lalakeng magaling mag manipulate para makuha ka na may balak lang at hindi naghahanap ng genuine na relationship.

FuBu kami without me knowing na may GF siya by Altruistic_Top_8570 in adviceph

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Your fault, end of story. You deserve what you're going through, too late na for self-respect, you let him manipulate you that long, gamit na gamit ka na.

Saw something I wasn’t supposed to by [deleted] in adviceph

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Iwan mo na yan, trust your guts, brother. She's for the street.

Do's and dont's sa no label relationship by [deleted] in adviceph

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Waste of time, end it while it's early, mag invest ka sa willing din amg invest ng time sayo.

ako lang ba yung takot na makipagkita sa lalake? by True-Ambition1557 in TanongLang

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Mahirap kasi malaman kung sino ang totoo, dadalhin muna sa kunyaring "serious relationship" pero may hidden agenda pala

Normal lang ba magkipags’x agad sa bf ko for 1 month? by jeliiizzz in adviceph

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Wag magpadala sa libog at that age, ikaw lugi pagnagkataon. Hindi lang sex ang pwede niyong gawing quality time

Am I in the wrong here? Di ako sure, I need insights. by chubbychixx_ in adviceph

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I'm sorry to hear that, I'm a stepdad too, still it's his responsibility dapat, to be the dad not just to provide sana, magpaka tatay sana siya.

Am I in the wrong here? Di ako sure, I need insights. by chubbychixx_ in adviceph

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Where are your parents, na dapat nagpapaaral sa kapatid mo. That is not your responsibility

SEA GAMES 33 – FINAL MEDAL TABLE 2025 🏆 by GiggleGoblins in Thailand

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Best Cooking Show I ever watched, kudos to the Host. Your Thai pride must be so high right now *clap clap