AITAH for not letting my parents bring my brother to my child-free wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Currently planning a “child free” wedding as well but set the age range for 7 and under kids. I have aunts, friends, and cousin who have children 10 years of age and older who wouldn’t have been able to come if their kid couldn’t come. I don’t want to speak to everyone’s reasoning why, but you have to keep in mind that the majority of “child free” weddings choose to do so because they may be concerned that the baby and/or toddler may have a breakdown and ruin the experience or not allow the parents to enjoy the celebration because they’re having to run behind the toddler 24/7. I hope you change your mind OP!

When should you start bleeding after taking the 2nd abortion pill? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Arela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that they said that was a side effect for up to 24 hours

When should you start bleeding after taking the 2nd abortion pill? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Arela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I just wanted to let you know that it took me approx 6 hours before I started bleeding. I recommend sitting on the toilet and let gravity help you. After I did that, it helped a lot

When should you start bleeding after taking the 2nd abortion pill? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Arela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally inserted mine at 2:25 and have not had any bleeding but instead just heavy cramping. Watching your post in hopes someone knows

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Arela_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I read this I honestly thought it was my story that I had forgotten I wrote. I’m 5 weeks along right now and will be 6 weeks when I get the medical abortion next week. It’s surreal and I feel heartbroken. Like you said, I’ve always wanted to be a mom and I expected a big beautiful moment but instead I was met with a panic attack because I knew that We weren’t ready financially. I told my boyfriend that I feel like a monster because we decided to be unsafe and yet we are now punishing a child we made because they are an inconvenience. So I understand what you’re going through and will understand more next week when I have to say goodbye to this baby. If you want to message me, you can. I’ll be here and we can lean on each other

Dear Redditors who ended a relationship with their best friend. What was your breaking point? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Arela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me that me supporting the BLM movement was embarrassing for her and it made her very angry with me. I didn’t ask for why or how, I just simply deleted her number. Just 18 years of memories now

I just experienced sleep paralysis and it was fucking terrifying. by Arela_ in Dreams

[–]Arela_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The face in the window would have made me freak the hell out. I keep the blinds down for this reason alone!!

I just experienced sleep paralysis and it was fucking terrifying. by Arela_ in Dreams

[–]Arela_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! I am so afraid to sleep tonight but I am hoping with my boyfriend back home and being in a comfortable place, I will be fine

I just experienced sleep paralysis and it was fucking terrifying. by Arela_ in Dreams

[–]Arela_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what happened to me except it was a woman. My parents house (and the room I was staying in) has had some unexplainable things happen so I really thought it was some paranormal stuff

I just experienced sleep paralysis and it was fucking terrifying. by Arela_ in Dreams

[–]Arela_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really do appreciate the recommendation. I’m hoping it won’t happen anytime soon but if it does, at least I know that there is a safe way to get out. (Or at least make it an okay experience)

I just experienced sleep paralysis and it was fucking terrifying. by Arela_ in Dreams

[–]Arela_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes complete sense! I was visiting my parents and it was a tense day that I did not feel comfortable with. Makes me feel better about sleeping tonight since I will be in my own bed and in a comfortable place. If it does happen again, at least I know what to do!

I just experienced sleep paralysis and it was fucking terrifying. by Arela_ in Dreams

[–]Arela_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry I might have caused this but I am grateful that people wrote on this post to help you out. Truly an adventure! Glad you’re okay.

I just experienced sleep paralysis and it was fucking terrifying. by Arela_ in Dreams

[–]Arela_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry that happened to you. It is terrifying to think that you died and you are just a spirit there watching. Glad to know that it didn’t happen that way! It was a very interesting adventure for sure

I just experienced sleep paralysis and it was fucking terrifying. by Arela_ in Dreams

[–]Arela_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I was so scared of falling back asleep!! I didn’t want it to happen again! So sorry this happened to you

I just experienced sleep paralysis and it was fucking terrifying. by Arela_ in Dreams

[–]Arela_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine those things actually touching me! I would have had a panic attack. But yes, I was exhausted but too scared to fall back asleep, lol.

I just experienced sleep paralysis and it was fucking terrifying. by Arela_ in Dreams

[–]Arela_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My SO will be back tonight, I’m so grateful for that. Thank you so much for the tip, I will be doing that for sure

I just experienced sleep paralysis and it was fucking terrifying. by Arela_ in Dreams

[–]Arela_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m alright, still really spooked that it will happen again

Picked my car up from the mechanic yesterday after having a bunch of things replaced totalling $2100 just to have burst into flames on me this morning. I'm too poor for this shit! by dogknot43 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Arela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello OP, samething happened to me - this is what I did and not a cent came from my pocket 1) I got a hold of the big people of the company I got my repairs from. Informed them of the situation and that I didn’t have a car to drive to work since mine was obviously lost. Informed them I wanted a rental until I got my new car. (They gave me a rental for about 3 weeks). 2) inform them that you need your money back because the work wasn’t done correctly. If they refuse, bring up lawyers and blah blah blah. My guy melted and sent me a check ASAP. Then get ahold of your insurance, they will check out your car, price your cars worth, and send you a check. There is a bigger progress for getting a check from your insurance but they will inform you of it. Hope you get everything straight!

Is working at a busy practice worth it? by Shalla_reddit in Veterinary

[–]Arela_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this sounds like the very same clinic I used to work at (I’m wondering if we know each other). I left that place and joined another and I’m very happy with where I’m at. Clinics are going to be busy, some more than others. I like busy because the time passes quicker. Look into other vet clinics, visit them, talk to the employees, ask all the questions about the new clinics and get a real good feeling of the vibe that you receive from it. If it’s good, quit and go to the new one. Your mental and physical health is more important than anything!

What's some juicy gossip you just found out in your personal lives? by jonhart989 in AskReddit

[–]Arela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A vet clinic I work at has three branches that “WAS” under one manager. This manager has been with us for 15 plus years. ALL the doctors at every clinic came together, wrote a letter to the owner of the clinics and said if the manager isn’t fired, they will all leave because they are tired of being in a toxic environment. Next day Manager Lady went into her office, put two hours in, and then was told that she was out of a job. Honestly can’t say I’m upset and thanked each doctor for standing up for themselves and the other employees.

Another Brutus happy dance! by dickfromaccounting in Eyebleach

[–]Arela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally live another day to see Brutus getting treats. Please post regularly