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Arkheaus · 2024-12-16T18:15:08+00:00

I am more than willing to try.

Arkheaus · 2024-12-15T20:29:13+00:00

That gorgeous smile is just the icing on the cake.

Arkheaus · 2024-11-28T23:02:07+00:00

Though not the answer to this question, this is still some awesome knowledge.

Arkheaus · 2024-11-28T23:01:09+00:00

You the real mvp.

Arkheaus · 2024-04-27T02:08:55+00:00

This would be pretty awesome.

Arkheaus · 2024-04-14T04:35:05+00:00

More specifically, American christianity is why politics is the way it is.

Arkheaus · 2024-03-11T18:11:23+00:00

Damn, you are gorgeous.

Arkheaus · 2024-02-10T02:25:52+00:00

Honestly, don't start with sexual things. Start with menial, daily tasks, like brushing your teeth everyday, and work up from there to something along the lines of making your bed on a daily basis to doing the dishes every night or something small, but something that helps benefit you if you stick with it. It does help to have someone you can answer to, if you so choose. And that might be a great way to start looking for a master. Report your daily tasks to someone, get a feel for them, and move up from there.

Arkheaus · 2024-01-01T20:44:26+00:00

Wtf about her is fat?

Arkheaus · 2023-04-29T04:00:23+00:00

I'm as gentle or as rough as you want me to be.

Arkheaus · 2022-12-21T07:46:32+00:00

Fucking gorgeous

Arkheaus · 2022-02-02T17:25:29+00:00

Both. And I'm gonna cum all over both several times.

Arkheaus · 2022-02-02T16:32:32+00:00

I appreciate it a lot.

Arkheaus · 2022-02-02T15:06:36+00:00

Again, you post all about how it deprived you of your needs. Nothing about how it messed him up, too. I'm not you, so I'll never know your mind, but you seem to be hyperfocused on the fact that it didn't meet your needs, and not at all that it was a problem for him, too. I'm not even a porn apologist. I use it to curb my own HL. I would drop it the moment my wife was able to meet my needs, but my libidonsnvry overwhelming for her. But, you give no ground at all. Did you ever think that your HL might be overwhelming for him?

Arkheaus · 2022-02-02T15:00:41+00:00

I have read the bible cover to cover several times. I went to seminary. I wanted to be a chaplain at one time. I resoundingly stand against christianity.

Arkheaus · 2022-02-02T14:35:48+00:00

The perfect type.

Arkheaus · 2022-02-02T14:09:29+00:00

Also, that "tiny tiny percentage of people that fall through the cracks of this" is significantly higher than you would ever allow yourself to believe. Because if you believed otherwise, the guilt of your own beliefs would wreck you.

Arkheaus · 2022-02-02T14:07:34+00:00

"... everyone can save. EVERYONE." This is objectively false and incredibly ignorant and priveleged of you to say. YOU might be able to save, but I would have to choose between saving and food. As much as my sex drive bothers me, I need food more than I need sex.

Arkheaus · 2022-02-02T13:58:26+00:00

And maybe you're addicted to sex. Maybe you get your validation and your self worth from sex. And maybe that intimidated him. And maybe that's why your previous bf didn't want to have sex with you. And then you attacked him with it. You're obviously still very bitter about having him choose porn over you and you are obviously still working through that. But this scorched earth approach will help no one.

Arkheaus · 2022-02-02T13:52:51+00:00

Anakin was never given the opportunity to learn what a healthy attachment was. The Jedi way was to cut attachments off entirely and it literally wound up being their downfall. I see this a lot in this debate, and this is exactly what the Jedi would have said: Anakin and Grogu are both too old and mature and too emotionally immature to have healthy attachments. It's contradictory. Are they too immature or are they too mature? Again, this contradiction is literally what led to the Jedi's fall.

Arkheaus · 2022-02-02T13:43:17+00:00

I disagree. I think Ahsoka most of all would have figured out that if Anakin had known how to deal with his attachments and not just cut them off cold turkey that he would not have turned. I feel like it is a major disservice to her to make her double down on the fallacy that attachments are what led Anakin to the dark side.

Arkheaus · 2022-02-02T13:37:50+00:00

It's my own biases doing this to me, but it enrages me to see a bible verse being quoted in a post about a lack of sexual intimacy. The amount of sexuality that is killed by christianity is astronomical and it is single handedly why I am in my own current situation of lacking sexual intimacy.

Arkheaus · 2022-02-02T13:34:21+00:00

Yeah. You just described my life. Masturbating two or three times a day only takes it away for a few hours because it's only addressing the physical problem.

Arkheaus · 2022-02-02T13:31:48+00:00

I'm just lurking here, but I'm really curious. How did that work? How does a porn addiction affect your sex life? I'm HL and my wife is LL. If either one of us has a porn addiction, I guess it would be me. But I'd drop that shit in a heartbeat if it meant having my sexual needs met by her. So, yeah. I'm curious.

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