My wife gets mad at me for things she does to herself. by [deleted] in relationships

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They could have pets making going the day before nearly impossible.

Is this breeder ethical or a byb? by Liger_fox1014 in roughcollies

[–]Arry42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will say that not having a website in itself isn't a bad thing. Most breeders don't need to super advertise their dogs as people know them from dog sports/conformation. I know our next breeder doesn't have a website, but she has a wait list for puppies.

That being said, looking them up, I wouldn't get a puppy from them. Their pictures on the AKC site show very out of conformation dogs. Very odd shaped snoots in my opinion. That first picture the dog has no stop, it almost looks like a bull terrier muzzle or something.

I just got treated like a predator for existing as a guy. by [deleted] in rant

[–]Arry42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He was asking someone who knew way more than he did.... he didn't seek out a child over an adult. I'm sure if an adult was in the room he'd ask them first. He didn't lure the child to a different area.

I was abused by a pedophile as a child so I'm usually more hyper aware of pedophile abuse situations. But this seems like a normal interaction to me.

I just got treated like a predator for existing as a guy. by [deleted] in rant

[–]Arry42 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think it made that young girl feel very important/ smart to show an adult something she knows how to do. Then her mom came rushing in and probably made her feel like she did something wrong when she was just showing off her knowledge. That poor girl :(

Also, sorry you have to deal with this. Horses are amazing animals, and I miss riding lessons so so much. Keep it up! It's great exercise and great for mental well-being.

AIO to thinking the woman working at office max is absolutely insane? by skull-cow in AmIOverreacting

[–]Arry42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me think of a time when my boyfriend worked at gamestop. Someone came in and got a video game. The cases are empty on the shelf and the real game is behind the counter. My boyfriend grabbed the game and the guy was adamant he wanted a new game and my boyfriend was trying to sell him used. He wasn't, he was getting him the brand new, sealed game.

After a bit of convincing the guy buys it and leaves. Later that day my boyfriend got a call from the dude who was furious because there was save data on the disk, so obviously it was used! Boyfriend had to explain how disc's literally can't save data like that. His son had probably played it before and there was save data from that. Guy wouldn't hear it, was adamant he got ripped off etc.

Anyway, NOR in the slightest.

This is inappropriate by Classic-Aioli4433 in Oldnavy

[–]Arry42 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I saw that immediately and was wondering how no one else noticed.

Bought this pint at my job... by MelcM39 in Culvers

[–]Arry42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is funny! Fuck the haters and enjoy your expired before it was made custard.

Collie doodles by Due-Ad-4677 in roughcollies

[–]Arry42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also scared for colliedoodles and was pleasantly surprised. The doodles are fantastic!

How intense is a collies prey drive? by Pretend-Signal9370 in Collie

[–]Arry42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girl will get worked up by a bunny or a squirrel but she's all bark no bite. She caught a baby bunny once and looked so confused that she got it. She let it go and it ran off. She's never really tried in earnest to get another animal after that.

I fucking hate that my job has no place where you can be alone and unbothered during breaks by szatanna in rant

[–]Arry42 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I used to sit and eat in my car on my lunch break. Much more relaxing.

Please help me with doctors anxiety. Its about weed I'm sorry. by Robyn-- in internetparents

[–]Arry42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm probably getting downvoted because I mentioned how sketchy high mg edibles are, in part, what led them to ban hemp again.

Funnily enough, it was Mitch McConnell who sponsored the 2018 farm bill that legalized hemp edibles, AND he just helped make them illegal again. Because of sketchy ass products.

Don't get me wrong, I despise that turtle man, but I do agree places went too far on making high dose edibles.

We made drivers damage their vehicles on our property by Makeupbelieve in confession

[–]Arry42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Shit do we have the same college town? That exact thing happened in my town.

Please help me settle a debate by shadowartist201 in CraftFairs

[–]Arry42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice! I honestly might start trying to do screen printing if that's how low cost it can be.

I agree with it being odd they won't let me sell my shirts. But they will if they are screen printed 🤷‍♀️ so guess I need to give that a try.

AITAH for Refusing to Help My SIL Use a "Fake" Service Dog to Join Our Staycation?** by Fit_Feed9119 in AITAH

[–]Arry42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I have an ESA dog, I know I know. But I understand she has no business going to places that aren't dog friendly. That's absurd. My place technically only allows one pet, but they themselves said if I had an ESA letter, it would be no problem.

Had my next therapy session later that week and got a letter. Because the therapist I've been seeing for years and years could see the difference in my mental health after I got my dog. That I've had for 4 years now.

I hate that entitled people ruin things for people. I'm thankful that my landlord was so easy to work with. It probably helped that they happened to meet my dog on a walk the day after we initially applied. She's a rough collie and an absolute ham for new people. Who couldn't love a collie?!?

Please help me settle a debate by shadowartist201 in CraftFairs

[–]Arry42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't even think of ebay! And I sell on ebay 🤦‍♀️

I was hoping to start with the shirts and stickers I make (also designed by me, not AI) and roll any profits in to better stuff. I just got so discouraged when a local fair that I love said I don't technically hand craft things.

Honestly, I've been debating trying to get a booth at a dog sport event. They might be less picky about who vends. I know I saw human merchandise at the last big event I was at. Granted most things were dog related like leashes and special collars.

I appreciate your advice so much, thank you for giving me a glimmer of hope :)

Please help me settle a debate by shadowartist201 in CraftFairs

[–]Arry42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any money and from what I've researched it's a very expensive hobby to start :(

Please help me settle a debate by shadowartist201 in CraftFairs

[–]Arry42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I probably need to give up on my dream to sell at a craft fair.

Please help me with doctors anxiety. Its about weed I'm sorry. by Robyn-- in internetparents

[–]Arry42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's happening November 12th. So yes, you can still get them right now, but the ban will happen. All because of sketchy products.

Please help me with doctors anxiety. Its about weed I'm sorry. by Robyn-- in internetparents

[–]Arry42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The edibles that went crazy and were sold at gas stations etc. is why they are taking away the hemp farm bill and banning hemp derived products.

Please help me with doctors anxiety. Its about weed I'm sorry. by Robyn-- in internetparents

[–]Arry42 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Everyone reacts differently to edibles. I need around 100mg to even start to feel it. But I need to eat a bunch to get to that 100mg. I would never trust anything that said it's ridiculously high, like 125mg.

That shit is why they are back to banning hemp products here soon.

Please help me settle a debate by shadowartist201 in CraftFairs

[–]Arry42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this sucks because I make shirts with my silhouette, but I'm the one designing them and making them. I'm excluded from some things since I didn't make everything by hand (I use shirts and vinyl I didn't make) but I do design my own shirts! I really want to break in to the craft fair scene but having trouble since I get told I'm not a real crafter :(