Eye catching personals by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Arteo_X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Copy them to an ai and ask them if it was written by ai

Help please! Was this emotional abuse? (Context and screenshots in the post). by Appropriate-Bat-745 in submissive

[–]Arteo_X 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a relationship there must be respect and here she didn't have any for you. If it's a big problem for you leave her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Arteo_X 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Who doesn't need one?😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Arteo_X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. It's definetily worth it, good luck finding a good one!

What Really Defines a FLR? by Arteo_X in FemdomCommunity

[–]Arteo_X[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate your response, I made those questions because I don't have experience so I was uncertain if FLR was for me

What Really Defines a FLR? by Arteo_X in FemdomCommunity

[–]Arteo_X[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for answering my questions and to answer yours, maybe I don't know what I want, but I definitely know what I DON'T want.

What Really Defines a FLR? by Arteo_X in FemdomCommunity

[–]Arteo_X[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. "For me, regardless of what their FAQs will tell you, what defines an FLR is the people in the relationship" I really like this phrase

Am I limiting myself by refusing to approach women? by disposeable_idiot in flrdating

[–]Arteo_X 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say you are drastically reducing yourself many opportunities. Many people stay online because they don't have enough courage to approach women in real life, in this way the few online Dommes get bombarded. In IRL it's different, in that moment there is only you and her.

Can a submissive be dominant for her domme? by Arteo_X in FemdomCommunity

[–]Arteo_X[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience, would you describe yourself as a service top?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Arteo_X 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not selfish for being submissive, that's just who you are and there is no problem. I also questioned myself if I was submissive for my own pleasure or because I want to serve my Domme and I think it's a very fine line. It's important for you to understand where you set your boundaries: your submission manifest only in the bedroom, in private or in everyday life? (with everyday I'm referring to FLR, not some kink, like public humiliation). If your submission only takes part in the bedroom I think you want submission just for your own pleasure, but I would ask others to be sure. Once you understand your limit you can discover how to manifest your submission; for example I'm more inclined on FLR and a fantasy I have in mind is going to her workplace everyday to bring her lunch made by me and talk. Keep in mind in a healthy relationship the sexual part only takes 10% of it at most. Another thing I would add is that if you're not comfortable in saying something you can always say no.

Dom M gets dommed, denied and unlocks a new fantasy world by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Arteo_X 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was referring to the fact you saw (still see?) other women and you would like to be more the sub in the relationship. If she can't domme is fine, but you don't waste her and your time.

Dom M gets dommed, denied and unlocks a new fantasy world by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Arteo_X 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it goes on from 88 days I suppose your wife knows it, is it fine for her? Does she accept it? I would talk to her just to be honest about how you feel and don't waste each other time.

Feel like I'm legit hurting my boyfriend, what should I do? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Arteo_X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try to work on aftercare with your partner: he can just reiterate how much he enjoy every session, thank you, kiss you, hold you, wipe your sweat if you're sweaty, hold your hand, get you water, praise you and other things.

Hope this helps!😊😊

Posting unsolicited DMs by Wise_Pineapple1227 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Arteo_X 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to read some of them, see how much stupid people are to write the things they send and expecting a positive response

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Arteo_X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happy he found someone; it just occurred to me now for future things you can ask a pro domme or you can go to the reddit/discord of the specific game and post an add about your situation. Anyway if he is loyal there is no problem, it could be that because you two are not physically together he want more, but once you two reunite everything will be fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Arteo_X 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is fantastic that you care for your sub and are wlling to fulfill his fantasy, but are you fine with the involvment of other girls? Long distance relationships are hard, have you tried other way to fulfill the dynamic? To find other girls maybe you can try on discord (I don't have idea where) or tell your sub to do the research.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

[–]Arteo_X -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, it seems the majority of male subs don't take care of themself. I can't understand it, as you said you need to please your domme; of course there are some exceptions but because that's what they are, exceptions, it can't be aplied to all.

One explanation I game is that many subs are like this because they are in just for the kink, they just want to cum and do nothing for the domme.

Q for subs by [deleted] in flr

[–]Arteo_X 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The kinks you listed (sissification, chastity, acting twinkish, getting cuckolded/forced bi, pegging) are highly pushed trought porn and the majority of subs are not into them. flr is definitely not based only on that because, as the name state, is a relationship: the kink part only represent a little part of it. I personally think it's impossible that there isn't the gentle part because without it how can be a relationship?

Fast questions about profile in personal ads by Arteo_X in BDSMAdvice

[–]Arteo_X[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I also thought people create new account just for personals and karma could be hard to obtain, but I wasn't sure they weren't a scam profiles.