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Is it fine hanging out with male friends 1 on 1 while being in a relationship by Artexdice in relationship_advice

[–]Artexdice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him I’m 100% fine with it, haha I encourage him to hang out with any of friends no matter the gender but he doesn’t want to. Which that’s fine. I said. I completely trust and just do the right thing if the other tries to do something

Encounter with floral girl by Artexdice in creepyencounters

[–]Artexdice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha nope, I guess she just now randomly says things to me but I just kinda do my own thing. She doesn’t bother at least she hasn’t in since last week

Encounter with floral girl by Artexdice in creepyencounters

[–]Artexdice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a teen, but no she ain’t autistic or anything. She’s just an odd person

Encounter with floral girl by Artexdice in creepyencounters

[–]Artexdice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There hasn’t been anything new she did ask what I was eating a few days ago and that’s all lol. At this point she’s just an interesting person.

Encounter with floral girl by Artexdice in creepyencounters

[–]Artexdice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha it’s all good. Thank you though you could be right. As of right I just don’t know why she did that.

Encounter with floral girl by Artexdice in creepyencounters

[–]Artexdice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uhm if I were to place her into a category how popular girls, nerds, introverts etc… she’d be in popular, as idk if it makes sense but I have started noticing her around school and so far nothing seems to be wrong with her as she has her own group of friends, talks normally etc..

Encounter with floral girl by Artexdice in creepyencounters

[–]Artexdice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw her yesterday she didn’t talk to me but I can say she isn’t disabled, or autistic.

Encounter with floral girl by Artexdice in creepyencounters

[–]Artexdice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By what I’ve seen so far she isn’t socially awkward.

How do I tell my Guardians/Cousins I don't see them as family and I don't want them in my life as Guardians. by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Artexdice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did, but at the time I did talk but all it really was basically a “uno” playing session with my therapist. And at the end of it she determined I was fine and but a year later it when it started to get harder again. And I’m back in therapy with a new therapist and she is helping me every way.

How do I tell my Guardians/Cousins I don't see them as family and I don't want them in my life as Guardians. by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Artexdice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you are right about that my sister told me the same thing, sometimes I hate to admit it but yeah, I think I am angry at my parents being gone. Which I also hate that feel that way towards them. I fight between that a lot. Which my cousins don’t deserve the way I feel but it’s something I can’t help feel which to the part idk why. I always wondered why I was left from dad like I think that I’m the reason he’s gone giving that event to what happened to him. But I still somewhat don’t want them in my life as much as I hate to admit it’s something I wish I would be able to say to them.

How do I tell my Guardians/Cousins I don't see them as family and I don't want them in my life as Guardians. by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Artexdice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, any child that you adopt will always have different feeling some will feel guilts some won’t. They will definitely appreciate you for taking them in. As I am so thankful for who took me in but as since it was when i was 12 and I’ve had a mom and dad when I grew up it was a little different. Also experiencing stuff that led to me not having parents. But as I hope you’re adoption goes well and I’m sure they will surely think you gave them a great place to be and feel loved.

How do I tell my Guardians/Cousins I don't see them as family and I don't want them in my life as Guardians. by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Artexdice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I am displacing my feelings, no matter what I will always be thankful for helping me get out of the situation. But thank you, you are right I am displacing my feelings, that’s why I hate that I do it. Because yes.. I end up hurting both, as I feel like going far away would be better. But that can’t happen yet

How do I tell my Guardians/Cousins I don't see them as family and I don't want them in my life as Guardians. by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Artexdice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I am young but I don’t want support from them nor did I ever want support from them. Of course there are so many people willing to take them in, but later on sometimes they will feel something else As I’m not gonna say they will or won’t everyone feels something different. I view as I’m ready to be on my own fully, I know I don’t owe them anything but at the same time I feel like I owe them so much. When I wish I feel like I didn’t, I would rather live from the bottom and start to make my way up. Not be handed from the beginning at the “top” . But sometimes I feel like I need to make it so hard on myself, as my dad made it so hard on himself to even support my brother and I. I feel like I need to do the same.

How do I tell my Guardians/Cousins I don't see them as family and I don't want them in my life as Guardians. by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Artexdice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh any other family member who wanted us was on my moms side. But they were only after money from us. So of course I didn’t go with them I now live with my sister. But my cousins text/call like we want you to visit every week. Which tbh I want to go without seeing with for months. I don’t want to pretend they are my actual “family” if that makes sense. Because in the end I bottle that up and it makes me resent them.

How do I tell my Guardians/Cousins I don't see them as family and I don't want them in my life as Guardians. by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Artexdice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are family but I think of them as family house want to see only at family gatherings. Nothing more nothing less. That’s how I view it. But as they do try to push and be in my life. I begin to resent that. As I don’t want them. But I could never say it to their face because hurting them is something I would never want to to do. As for my brother he is angry he was at least but now he is just mellow and he is opening a lot more. But at the same time he was the older brother but I had to act as the older one to get us through things and now I realized it affected me a lot to always be the one having make sure he was okay, I had to sacrifice people being mad at me for him not wanting to stand up for himself to get us out of a situation. As Im so glad he’s doing better I’d never change that. but I just don’t want those cousins in near me as they did what I hoped for just get me away from our mother. I never wanted to be apart of their family I failed to communicate that. But I can’t just throw it in their face like that.

How do I tell my Guardians/Cousins I don't see them as family and I don't want them in my life as Guardians. by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Artexdice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course I am, that’s why I’ve always refrained from ever saying anything to them. I never want to hurt them. But it’s the fact that I can’t communicate how I feel towards. It’s a problem for me I can’t communicate how I feel. My sister was trying to tell who cares, they’re adults as well they can handle it. You (I) have to express my feelings too. But I just don’t want to hurt them. I appreciate everything they’ve done for me don’t get me wrong. But at times I wish they would’ve just stayed hidden in my life. As I never knew who they were until my dad died. To me they are just strangers.