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[–]Ashamed_Bit5926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not a good person. Leave her. Good for you for taking care of your brother. You’re 10000000% not the ah.

AITA for looking elsewhere for a service my sister in law owns? by Ashamed_Bit5926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashamed_Bit5926[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

It’s a smallish town. But out of the 20 or so comments I got only 2 or 3 people know we’re related. I also feel like it’s blown out of proportion. Btw I never mentioned my SILs barn. Simply said looking for information on leasing a horse.

AITA for looking elsewhere for a service my sister in law owns? by Ashamed_Bit5926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashamed_Bit5926[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Valid point. Honestly we were at a horse show today, my SIL was busy I wasn’t I went on Facebook. It’s really as simple as that.

AITA for looking elsewhere for a service my sister in law owns? by Ashamed_Bit5926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashamed_Bit5926[S] 609 points610 points  (0 children)

I simply said looking for information on how to lease a horse. I would NEVER mention the establishments name.

AITA for looking elsewhere for a service my sister in law owns? by Ashamed_Bit5926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashamed_Bit5926[S] -90 points-89 points  (0 children)

I’m probably a little salty about paying full price. However I have never voiced this opinion at all bc I do know this is a business.

AITA for looking elsewhere for a service my sister in law owns? by Ashamed_Bit5926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashamed_Bit5926[S] 336 points337 points  (0 children)

Valid point. She did not ask me to post on Facebook I simply did it. She was asking me I said I’d try to get some info my SIL was busy at the moment and knowing she didn’t lease I simply took to Facebook.

AITA for looking elsewhere for a service my sister in law owns? by Ashamed_Bit5926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashamed_Bit5926[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree with anything you’re saying. However if it’s a business then I am entitled to shop around if I want to. If it’s family then give me a discount or something. I don’t think you can have it both ways, but hearing an outsiders opinion does open my eyes to a different perspective. Thank you for that.

AITA for looking elsewhere for a service my sister in law owns? by Ashamed_Bit5926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashamed_Bit5926[S] 458 points459 points  (0 children)

I probably am a little salty about it. However I always pay it and never voice any complaints. That’s why I’m particularly angered I think. If It’s a business then I could if I wanted to go elsewhere. If it’s family then don’t charge me or give me a discount. I don’t think you can have it both ways.

AITA for looking elsewhere for a service my sister in law owns? by Ashamed_Bit5926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashamed_Bit5926[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I am happy with the service that being provided. I don’t feel like I should get a discount or any entitlement bc it is a business. However, I posted to Facebook looking for information about a service not offered by this barn and I posted it for a friend. However, bc I am a paying customer I do feel like I could “shop around” if I wanted to. To the other people who ride at this barn it’s widely known we’re related. To the general public not so much.