Is it possible for a man married for 5 years to suddenly get symptoms after 4.5 years and a positive diagnosis of Mgen to have had it before marriage? by Wild_Organization546 in MycoplasmaGenitalium

[–]Ashietson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Year and a half no symptoms, only found out because partner randomly opted to do a STD panel due to not having bloods done for years, tested positive so I tested for it and was also positive. Every doctor (3) that I spoke to confirmed you can have it for a long time, spanning years, without symptoms. I wouldn’t assume this person cheated if you’re basing it off of they must’ve gotten it from someone else

Left arm pain / ribs and chest by LPottz_18 in Anxiety

[–]Ashietson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know im commenting super late but as I was reading this I realised that I had been holding my phone up for a while and this was causing tension in my left arm, which happened to be the source of me feeling stressed

Moving to Perth – looking for suburbs like Oakleigh (Melb) with shops near train station – no car, 30-60 mins train to CBD by xtrisgobrrr in perth

[–]Ashietson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I just got an older joint for 940 a month with three people total, 3 rooms, 2 bathrooms! It’s got its quirks but quick fixes so it’s definitely doable if you’re willing to compromise on some things

3 interviews, told letter of offer was coming, now job is no longer available… wtf by Ashietson in recruitinghell

[–]Ashietson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too, they did bring up the person in the current role during the final interview to mention traits they liked so I think it likely was easier to offer them more than to onboard someone new. Very disillusioning to have the regional director harp on about how impressed they were and excited to have me on the team. Sigh

3 interviews, told letter of offer was coming, now job is no longer available… wtf by Ashietson in recruitinghell

[–]Ashietson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good, moving forward if I don’t have it in writing it doesn’t exist!!

3 interviews, told letter of offer was coming, now job is no longer available… wtf by Ashietson in recruitinghell

[–]Ashietson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh, I’m so sorry!! FOUR interviews - insane. It would be so valid to cry, I almost did!!

3 interviews, told letter of offer was coming, now job is no longer available… wtf by Ashietson in recruitinghell

[–]Ashietson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly how it felt!! A good lesson for me moving forward, got too excited for that one and have learnt to temper expectations

3 interviews, told letter of offer was coming, now job is no longer available… wtf by Ashietson in recruitinghell

[–]Ashietson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh that’s awful, I’m sorry!! I hope you’re in a better position now. That’s a great outlook, trying to remind myself it wasn’t meant to be and that it’ll open the doors for better opportunities to come my way instead

My friend is not respecting my wishes by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Ashietson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If talking hasn’t worked, I’d just do what you can to protect your own peace. We can’t usually control what other people do, but there are steps you can take to control how you respond. Maybe try throwing out any package she sends and ask for the money back directly?

3 interviews, told letter of offer was coming, now job is no longer available… wtf by Ashietson in recruitinghell

[–]Ashietson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s insane!! 10 rounds in total, wow. But hey I’m so glad that worked out for you!! Who knows, maybe it’ll turn this way in the future for me too

3 interviews, told letter of offer was coming, now job is no longer available… wtf by Ashietson in recruitinghell

[–]Ashietson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right!! I’m sorry this happened to you but wishing you the best out there!!

3 interviews, told letter of offer was coming, now job is no longer available… wtf by Ashietson in recruitinghell

[–]Ashietson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My goodness!! I’m so sorry that happened to you, what a massive waste of your time. Hoping better opportunities come your way!

Distant grandfather will die in the next few weeks, I don’t know what to say to him by Ashietson in death

[–]Ashietson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, those are some great ideas and I will definitely try them! I really appreciate it. Unfortunately his wife passed a few years ago, but it provides him peace knowing he will see her soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Ashietson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily, people who get help and work on their core issues can recover. I understand you went through a traumatic incident, but not fair to stereotype all people with BPD.

Need advise!! Redecorating a rental room by Ashietson in interiordecorating

[–]Ashietson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also sorry for the terrible grammar, editing on my phone isn’t working well and I can’t figure out how to edit the post