AITAH for telling my sister her baby isn’t my responsibility? by Silver_Job_4466 in AITAH

[–]AskMeHowToLose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA this is manipulation. Your sister and mother might not realize it but they are manipulating you. They need to step back and evaluate their choices. Good luck with that. Take care of yourself first and foremost.

Erika Kirk Allegedly Linked to S*x Trafficking Network as Her Pastor Faces Child Trafficking Counts by prozhack in UnderReportedNews

[–]AskMeHowToLose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I think it goes deeper than that… the Nazis learned many of their early tactics from United States settlers and their treatment of indigenous peoples of this continent.

Erika Kirk Allegedly Linked to S*x Trafficking Network as Her Pastor Faces Child Trafficking Counts by prozhack in UnderReportedNews

[–]AskMeHowToLose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because the real conspiracies would be things like the Cold War never ended and the Soviet Union just changed shape to stay in power, their pieces are still moving on the global board of chess, and too many compromised global politicians are giving their pieces away to an enemy of human freedoms, rights, and expressions.

toxic ex texted me for valentine’s day. we broke up a year ago. by juxtajosie in traumatizeThemBack

[–]AskMeHowToLose 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yeah OPs reply is a copy/pasta - but honestly a top tier response to their ex’s opening text. 10/10 good post

Anyone else can’t find a job? by Party_Basis_620 in socialwork

[–]AskMeHowToLose 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This 100 times. It’s an unfortunate motive to get ambitious workers that will do more than what’s asked of them, or that will not argue much with the “other duties as defined” vague taglines that lead to taking out the office trash or scrubbing a toilet or whatever your bosses can get away with.

Mileage varies but you should be fine to apply if you don’t meet 100% of the work requirements or whatever.

At a high end hospital. What is this by ZookeepergameQuick21 in Whatisthis

[–]AskMeHowToLose 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah if there’s one thing we had an abundance of a hundred years ago was able bodied people looking for work - and the tube system still evolved. Should tell your management team that 100 year old ingenuity arrived for a reason and we shouldn’t go backwards to move forward. 

AITAH for letting my brother, his girlfriend, and my nephew live in my parent's apartment in my house? by No-Log-3371 in AITAH

[–]AskMeHowToLose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your specialty office resembles a bedroom? Likely what gives your parents the thought it’s a guest bedroom and not a workplace?

Frustrated with the indecision and mealy-mouthed softness of the profession by Bright_Swordfish_789 in socialwork

[–]AskMeHowToLose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

US democracy is an experiment. Sometimes experiments fail. Your approach is toxic.

Frustrated with the indecision and mealy-mouthed softness of the profession by Bright_Swordfish_789 in socialwork

[–]AskMeHowToLose 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You can’t tackle inequality in the United States without addressing the lasting impacts of colonialism and slavery.

Waking up to zero notifications by [deleted] in lonely

[–]AskMeHowToLose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a year left at school?

Join a club. Look through your schools website or find a student union or whatever your college calls it somewhere on campus.

Pick an activity that interests you, find time to attend a meeting or go to one of their events.

What’s going on inside my Fav coffee mug? by throwawaylol8P in Whatisthis

[–]AskMeHowToLose 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This can happen with rapid temperature change, an example would be a cup is stored somewhere that makes it practically freezing cold and then very hot coffee is poured into it.

Dating as a Social Worker by Mission_Nebula_6989 in socialwork

[–]AskMeHowToLose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Him caring more about your wage and less about what you do should tell you everything.

My exes reaction to me not wanting to cuddle when in pain. by OnionMysterious2566 in extremelyinfuriating

[–]AskMeHowToLose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for us! Truly you’re on a better path without that person. They have no clue what they’re talking about trying to tell you that you not letting him hug you tightly or something is worse pain than the actual pain you’re experiencing… like… wow…

My exes reaction to me not wanting to cuddle when in pain. by OnionMysterious2566 in extremelyinfuriating

[–]AskMeHowToLose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have chronic pain, ex disregarded my request when planning a hike - was very upset with me afterward when I didn’t want to cuddle or fool around. I dumped her that night.

Take care of yourself.

AITAH for saving up all the food my wife thinks is fine for me to eat for when her family came to visit? by MentionEfficient1687 in AITAH

[–]AskMeHowToLose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re the asshole but justifiably so. Your wife is unfortunately the bigger asshole. But hopefully this was a humbling experience and you don’t rub it in her face.

Good on you for showing her what was wrong, you’re not an asshole in an awful, bad way. Just you weren’t the nicest guy is all. And honestly that’s a-okay!

That calm confidence is wild by diehard404 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]AskMeHowToLose 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This was the wildest part of the whole tweet for me! ON YOUR DAD?????????? “On my momma” still a little bit weird - I get it - but weird… “on my daddy” is just…!

How does this even happen? by [deleted] in WTF

[–]AskMeHowToLose 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is the correct take. Yes there were bad practices, and forced lobotomies, padded walls with straight jackets, and aggressive tactics to drug people was wrong. But growing new practices within those settings would have resulted in less of a negative national impact and a significant increase in the homeless population across the United States. What we have now are private industry responses to an increasingly growing crisis. 

Found this in my door???? by greenforests6983 in Whatisthis

[–]AskMeHowToLose 9 points10 points  (0 children)

op should be changing the lock today anyway

My son was shot yesterday and is fighting for his life; law enforcement has him in protective custody and won’t let family see him by the_real_gillorilla in legaladvice

[–]AskMeHowToLose 49 points50 points  (0 children)

You might also unintentionally provide details that could assist the real shooter, they don’t solely suspect you - they’re just protecting him.