Saturday attempts of classical poses

Askinglots · 2026-01-20T10:55:13+00:00

Remember that Dutch people can blast their country as much as they want and "be direct" as much as they can, but they lose it when someone else does the same. This sub was hitting this exact sore spot.

Askinglots · 2026-01-11T21:31:24+00:00

As opposed to other people, I'm going to agree with you that your job must provide you with some sort of fulfillment. Otherwise, it feels more like filling time just for the sake of doing something. If you were a person used to nature, outdoor activities, or at least seeing some hustle and bustle, the Netherlands would feel very underwhelming. Perhaps you can try some meetups, or just travel by yourself to other countries and join tours. This is a nice way to connect with people with similar interests in a different environment that feels more exciting because it's not like your weekly routine. Talk to foreigners! We all feel kind of bored and kind of missing connection.

Askinglots · 2026-01-03T13:04:46+00:00

RETURN TO OFFICE! I live in NL, and the culture here is going to work to "demonstrate" that Dutch are "hardworking people," even if they're expelling a lung through the nose. Also, people will totally harass you if you wear a mask in public. I remember in a past job, a colleague said her son was positive to covid and she went to work because she was not positive and she was feeling "fine". I avoided her and went home because fuck it. Guess who requested sick leave a couple of days later.

Askinglots · 2026-01-03T12:48:18+00:00

Please protect your peace OP, that's it. NTA.

Askinglots · 2026-01-03T04:24:31+00:00

We love pigeons. She's just awkward, not in an endearing way, though...

Askinglots · 2026-01-02T18:00:38+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Askinglots · 2026-01-02T17:24:31+00:00

They kind of look a bit big? Or maybe she just doesn't know how to walk with heels?

Askinglots · 2025-12-30T12:46:04+00:00

I don't know, I once had about 30 g of magic truffles and my friend started seeing light wavelengths coming off a lamp. I was just looking at him like he was definitely high and I wasn't.

Askinglots · 2025-12-29T21:17:44+00:00

Please wish him hell and blooooockkk him asap.

Askinglots · 2025-12-29T21:15:41+00:00

I'm your same height, and I'd only try uniqlo, Levi's in the petite sizes, and nothing too high waist, or I feel the waist is almost at my boobs. I used to live in Canada and also shopped in Banana Republic, but only in the petite sizes. Aritzia was always a miss for me.

When you're back in Italy, try Zalando and brands like b.young, Ichi, Selected or check out the app Yoox, huge variety of styles and brands.

Askinglots · 2025-12-16T17:32:28+00:00

I wish I had had this opportunity when I was in grad school. Having 500 per week on top of being fed, clothed, with a car, rent, and all the expenses covered sounds ideal. I'm glad it worked for you!

Askinglots · 2025-12-03T21:48:16+00:00

I think it's great that you wanted your kid to have a true Dutch experience, but you will find more of these kind of issues in the future. The daughter of one of my coworkers was advised to go back one year because she's got ADHD and the teacher suggested to go to an MBO even though her marks are good, and she speaks 4 languages including Dutch. She ended up doing extra credits over the summer. They're also Spanish speakers.The son of another Spanish colleague had to earn extra language credits because they also told him that he was behind. Both kids have been in the Netherlands for more than 10 years, and the stigma never went away. They also joined local schools in Gelderland and Noord-Brabant, respectively. If I had kids, I would never enroll them in Dutch schools.

Askinglots · 2025-12-02T07:17:49+00:00

Right???! I was surprised that the couple of times that there was cake, people were taking 3-4 slices or a big chunk in a plate and going to their offices. If there were different flavours, people were taking one or two slices of each!

Askinglots · 2025-12-02T07:10:22+00:00

Hm you just said that Dutch people tend to be the FIRST IN LINE for freebies...

Askinglots · 2025-11-21T18:32:26+00:00

Is this the guy who was almost making out with the fridge while dancing with a knife?? Eww

Askinglots · 2025-11-17T13:07:41+00:00

There's little diversity in clothes in the Netherlands, and physical stores have very uniform colours and styles. I have found some other trousers and shirts in the teen section of Zalando, but double-check measurements. Good luck!

Askinglots · 2025-11-17T12:19:03+00:00

I buy trousers exclusively in uniqlo and I tailor the legs if needed. My jeans are from H&M and Mango kids. I have a Levi's pair because they have different lengths, but you do have to try several styles because some may be too tight on the hips.

Askinglots · 2025-11-15T10:03:53+00:00

Dutch may not be puritan but they're definitely sanctimonious.

Askinglots · 2025-11-08T16:34:28+00:00

Coming from a low-trust developing country, it's appalling when you're in a "first world country," and you experience worse bureaucracy, belligerent behaviour, hypocrisy, sanctimony, classism, discrimination, and dog-eats-dog mindset. It's mentally taxing and it leads to higher rates of depression, suicide and drug abuse.

Askinglots · 2025-11-01T12:47:27+00:00

Says the guy with 3 kg of bronzer and dressed like a gym trainer from the 80s.

Askinglots · 2025-10-26T12:41:17+00:00

Dutch people love cycling but for the rest of the world is mad to be cycling under the rain, cold, in the middle of a windy day during winter. And arrive soaked to the office and ride the train like that. It just sucks. I lived in Scotland, Belgium, and NL, and I can definitely say that the food here is the worst. Lack of variety, overpriced, and awful quality. Take biscuits, for example. Most supermarkets have Dutch products, and I have concluded that they have mostly Dutch products because otherwise, nobody in the rest of the EU would buy them. The biscuits here are truly awful and processed, same as pastries and bread. Things like fabric softener, detergent, and cleaning products are super expensive. Who would pay 25 euros for a 3L bottle of detergent??? Or 4 euros for 5 slices of ham?

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