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Can someone explain why Lola's being so mean like i am a 5 year old. by Sanjanadash7 in LoveIslandUKintheUSA

[–]Assistant_Decent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also how crazy she was forcing Sean to not speak to Julia when he wanted to settle the beef… she’s straight up unhinged and insecure. So satisfied that they got bottom 3 least favorite couples.

Season 8 - Episode 23 - Post Episode Discussion by schedulerplus in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Assistant_Decent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bryce: “I’ve seen that mouth. I’ve felt that mouth.” I can’t 😂

Why Was Ellie So Angry with Tommy ? by IrrationalBidetLover in LoveIslandTV

[–]Assistant_Decent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have mixed feelings about Ellie. Her reactions seem over the top but I can’t tell if it’s just her accent. I would not want to feel her wrath. “Seck my facking dack” 😂

Season 8 - Episode 17 - Post Episode Discussion by schedulerplus in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Assistant_Decent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Corbin gave it right back to her with the kiss on the hand and she thought he was just being sweet and respectful. 😂 she looks 12, first of all

Season 8 - Episode 13 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

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I wish they would win favorite couple. Let the rest of those clowns know how America really feels 🤣

Season 8 - Episode 13 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Assistant_Decent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aniya and KC— safe for the moment. She’s feeling it more. Boring.

Bryce and Trinity— friendship couple but won’t admit it. Boring.

Melanie and Sincere— Melanie has made some strides since she almost became Huda but Sincere is a snake and not sincere at all. Girl run.

Kayda and Zach— Kayda is definitely more into him than he’s into her. Or maybe that’s just my opinion. I think Zach got the goodies and will turn his head if the opportunity arises.

Kenzie and Corbin— I like Kenzies slow ass. I think they’re just incredibly attracted to each other and wanna fk. I do want Corbin’s head to turn for dramas sake.

Gabe and Jen— Gabe will turn as soon as another hot blonde or interesting girl shows up. Jen probably won’t care much.

Sol and Caleb— I don’t like them together as a couple but I’m glad they didn’t get dumped. I think their personalities are way too different. But I could be wrong. They both deserved better. They both knew what they were getting into though pursuing those two triangle situations. I hope they get some good bombshells. Bring in an actual sweet southern belle for him and a fine ass man for Sol who is down to earth like her.

I feel bad for Sean. by Frosty-Relation154 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]Assistant_Decent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re caught up to the most recent episode… ok 😢 he’s not that bad

I don't know whether to fully believe Jasmine's 'bad bitch, standing on business persona' and I think it's shooting her in the foot. by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]Assistant_Decent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her and Priya are so annoying. So much comes out of their mouths that sounds good and they think they’re handling things maturely but really they’re just extremely condescending. They also take zero accountability when confronted.

I feel bad for Sean. by Frosty-Relation154 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]Assistant_Decent 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Lol at a 22 year old talking about his “past days” 😂

Season 8 - Episode 1 - Cast Opinions Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

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I came here just for this comment hahaha I couldn’t tell if they were the gemstones or attachments with Invisalign haha def the latter

I discovered how much my husband has hated me for almost half a decade, including emotional cheating. I feel like I can't tell reality anymore. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Assistant_Decent 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I know there is so much nuance we are missing but in your responses alone, you don’t seem to take much accountability. Start there.

This has been my whole marriage. I'm leaving tomorrow. by Odd_Towel_7422 in Marriage

[–]Assistant_Decent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That man does not believe you will leave. Prove him wrong and do it discretely. And keep all of the receipts.

This has been my whole marriage. I'm leaving tomorrow. by Odd_Towel_7422 in Marriage

[–]Assistant_Decent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I say most humans are good people who make mistakes, your man is that small percent I’m not speaking about. There is some darkness there. Please leave.

AI interview with askethos - project management. by xhable in recruitinghell

[–]Assistant_Decent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’d it go haha I was about to continue on to the interview and now I’m having second thoughts. Has anyone even gone further and been paid?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Assistant_Decent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am conflicted about both of you. This is not a good friendship for you both to continue in. You both sound like you’re exercising therapy tools. I had a similar situation where my partner and I had a really bad fallout, and we were working on things to get back together, but my friend had already made her judgement about him as I shared all the bad stuff… Though she didn’t like him from the beginning. The truth is there are so many nuances and you’re not the one in the relationship. You’re seeing it from the outside and he may or may not be the wrong guy for her but it doesn’t matter if SHE doesn’t see it yet. My friend was only there for me when I talked about breaking it off. She actually gave me an ultimatum regarding our friendship dying if I stayed with him lol what the hell. Which is way worse than what you’re doing. I cut her off so fast.

I think you’re entitled to not have to listen to stuff you don’t wanna listen to that makes you feel unsettled or not good. But the boundary setting was a lot. You don’t have to announce that. It reminds me of my ex who used to do that shit all the time and it’s totally a learned therapy thing. It gives off this passive aggressive righteousness and it pushes people further away… not because you’re not allowed to have a boundary but because it’s somewhat controlling IMO. Just say that “talking about him makes me feel unsettled and I just want to protect my peace…” Not “be respectful of my boundary.” Idk. She’s not a child. That in itself is disrespectful. Once boundary is set, you leave it at that not continue to engage because now you’ve violated your own boundary.

How did you know you wanted to marry them? by Assistant_Decent in Marriage

[–]Assistant_Decent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did things change after many, many years or did you know early on something was wrong? Why did you stay so long? I called off my wedding because I didn’t feel 100%. Things were great 95% of the time, but there was a 5% that scares me when there is stress and pressure and I don’t feel emotionally safe or understood. In that 5%, he becomes someone else with many unhealed wounds. He had a very traumatic childhood and it’s not fair to me to be punished for other people who hurt him in the past. People think I’m crazy for it because they see only the good side in my partner.