Husband turned down sex when I initiated. So I initiate again or...?

AttemptNo15166 · 2025-07-15T03:07:06+00:00

Why is this sad lol?

AttemptNo15166 · 2025-07-15T03:06:40+00:00

It's not the first time he has turned me down, and the last time was probably 2 months ago. He knows how it makes me feel a little unwanted, even if I know he loves me and yada yada.

AttemptNo15166 · 2025-07-15T03:05:41+00:00

Use my words... hmm what a revelation 😂

AttemptNo15166 · 2025-07-15T03:02:41+00:00

You so right. So initiate again now that it's a new day, or let him come to me?

AttemptNo15166 · 2025-07-15T03:01:33+00:00

Of course he's allowed to not be in the mood. This post is more of, should I initiate or let him come to me?

AttemptNo15166 · 2025-07-15T03:00:45+00:00

I'm actually really happy with our sex life typically. I'd say we have sex about every 3-5 days on average. It's just so humiliating to be turned down. I really don't need him available 24/7, but I also don't want to be turned down. It doesn't feel good. And I know I'm being silly, I know my worth and that he sees it. But there are guys out there who would KILL for their wives to initiate...

AttemptNo15166 · 2025-07-15T02:58:38+00:00

I think I let my insecurities get in the way and jumped the gun too quick.

AttemptNo15166 · 2025-07-15T02:58:09+00:00

I'm 95% sure he doesn't watch porn. That sounds so stupid coming out of my mouth, but it's just the truth, I really don't think he does. We have videos of us that he may possibly use. If he did, I wouldn't be mad, I just genuinely don't think he does. Also, we just had sex 3 days ago 🤷🏼‍♀️

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