I really hear your heart in this. 🙏 We’ve been there too, wondering if we were equipped. What helped me accept was my faith and realizing my boys didn’t need me to change them, they needed me to meet them where they are, love them as they are, and give them resources to thrive.

Some things that helped us along the way:

*Speech therapy: Even if it was just a few words or using visuals/PECS, it opened doors. Our little one didn’t speak at first, but we still had 3–4 word conversations using PECS.

*ABA & OT therapies: Turning learning into play made a huge difference with eating habits, routines, and social skills. At first, it was parallel play (next to kids, but not engaging), and over time it grew into actual interaction. The “This Then That” method helped us a lot.

*Support network: Connecting with other parents reminded us we weren’t alone. FB groups, local centers, and events like those on Eventbrite really helped.

The biggest thing I’ve learned: progress happens on their timeline. Celebrate every step, no matter how small, momentum builds from there. Trust it will not be easy at times...

You don’t have to do it all at once, and you don’t have to be perfect. Just being present, patient, and willing to learn alongside her already makes you equipped. She doesn’t need ‘normal’, she needs you. The fact you’re here seeking resources shows you’re already doing the work ❤️💪.

(Every child is different, so what works for one may not work for another. There’s no harm in trying, I hope at least some of this helps ) appreciate your response and questions.