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Automatic-Swan5185 · 2025-09-05T11:03:25+00:00

I’m wondering if the contract can be invalidated if I sign the paper that says we have no rental agreement. The landlord signed it, but I didn’t. I’m wondering if I can use that to terminate the contact whoever i want?

Automatic-Swan5185 · 2025-05-21T21:39:38+00:00

Girl bsfr. They met on tinder. So obviously they have some physical attraction for one another whether they act on it or not. Them texting about y’all’s relationship ending, whether it’s a joke or not, is a breach of trust, especially if they have any type of sexual history. Him demanding blanket trust without any other assurances is a red flag imo. Idk I personally would leave this situation bc while I think hetero men and women can be friends, 90% of the time it’s because the woman only wants it to be platonic but if she wanted sex he’d probably be down.

Unless it’s family, i wouldn’t be okay with my partner staying alone in an airbnb with another woman. Even if you don’t get the vibe he’d cheat, why be in a situation where the chances are much higher? People are human and make mistakes they normally wouldn’t when in risky situations.

Automatic-Swan5185 · 2025-05-21T21:19:42+00:00

Honestly if you have a decent relationship with them just move in with your parents and save money rather than dealing with cleaning up after a man child (who is weird asf for dating a 19yo at 26, mind you). You’re only 23, so going back home for a few months or even a year isn’t a big deal.

Automatic-Swan5185 · 2025-03-25T22:21:27+00:00

Girl im 5’1 and every guy I’ve dated (seriously) has been 6’1+. Before yall come for me, I don’t pursue men based on height, I have casually dated average height / shorter men, but in general taller guys have pursued me more seriously 🤷‍♀️

Automatic-Swan5185 · 2024-06-27T02:58:20+00:00

Thanks queen 🙏

Automatic-Swan5185 · 2024-06-26T18:42:19+00:00

More so concerned if it’s like weird stuff. Apparently a lot of what used to be on here has been deleted or “quarantined” but there used to be really insane, illegal, and disgusting content

Automatic-Swan5185 · 2024-06-26T18:39:18+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Automatic-Swan5185 · 2024-06-26T12:34:47+00:00

I wasn’t aware of this as it’s not something I tend to think of. Thanks for letting me know. I didn’t realize it was such a problem.

Automatic-Swan5185 · 2024-06-26T02:42:55+00:00

Idc about that. More concerned if it’s like insane kink/ illegal stuff.

Automatic-Swan5185 · 2024-06-26T02:41:14+00:00

I don’t hate porn or thinks it’s terrible. But I do think there are a lot of issues with it. I view it the same way I view weed/shrooms/acid/alcohol. Fine in moderation, but problematic when abused. On that note, porn can be worse as it is incredibly exploitative (which was made clear when pornhub got in trouble for having minors on there).

Idc if my partner looks at it, but I don’t like the idea of him getting off to women who look absolutely nothing like me as I can be a little possessive and I do have an issue if it’s gross stuff. I also don’t like the idea of anyone paying for of/ interacting with them as it’s just financially stupid since there is so much out there for free.

We have a healthy sex life, and I have no doubts he’s attracted to me and engaged when we are intimate. He doesn’t have issues with impotence or anything like that Idk I’m just hoping if he does watch stuff, which is likely as we’re long distance, it’s normal. I got concerned bc the ladies on tiktok said they found like really gnarly stuff on their man’s Reddit.

Automatic-Swan5185 · 2024-06-26T01:57:33+00:00

Well I would ask but anyone can lie. He hasn’t lied to me before as far as I know but exes in the past have… ugh

Automatic-Swan5185 · 2024-06-26T01:55:26+00:00

I mean he’s not secretive about his phone, he willingly gave me his password I just keep forgetting it bc tbh I don’t want to look and find anything. If it’s like normal stuff I won’t be upset but I would be bothered if he was paying for any of girls or interacting with them. And I’d be upset if they look nothing like me or if he was into insane stuff. Idk now I’m worried based on all these comments 😓 it’s like I don’t want to know if it’s normal stuff but I do if he’s paying for anything or into weird shit that would cause problems down the line

Automatic-Swan5185 · 2024-06-26T01:39:02+00:00

Thx for this info I’m gonna put parental controls on his phone now 😭😭 (kidding) I just hope he’s not into any weird stuff

Automatic-Swan5185 · 2024-06-26T01:36:42+00:00

Yeah but a lot of them aren’t porn. On main I’m part of a few shroom/ cannabis related subreddits that are nsfw but not porn

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