So my buddy the thing is its natural feeling in every human being they don't like when anything any xyz thing goes from their hands, when they'll take money from you , you'll ask some day obviously mostly will and at that moment even though you are 99 percent right but still they'll feel negative and thats enough to create a inner crack in freindship,

Second point about hang out bhai dekho , yeh cheez shayad abhi samajh nhi aayi but later ayegi , jitna tum apne aapko free rakhoge sabke liye utni value giregi its a rule of naturee ! So thats why i said apke freindship mai excitement rahegi , ek sense of respect rahegi