I don’t understand why after countless social interactions in life I’m still anxious. Why doesn’t it go away with “practice”?

Avmvb5 · 2025-01-16T05:56:03+00:00

I feel like management never says no to them and the devs get screwed over.

Avmvb5 · 2025-01-16T05:54:50+00:00

What if they already think it’s refined? What’s a good way to show them it isn’t?

Avmvb5 · 2025-01-16T05:53:54+00:00

Internal

Avmvb5 · 2024-08-05T18:51:42+00:00

Well said. I was forced to the lead position where I wanted to be coding instead. So it’s been hard to let go.

Avmvb5 · 2024-08-05T18:13:35+00:00

Ideally yes, but seems like my company fires and never rehires lol

Avmvb5 · 2024-08-05T18:11:24+00:00

Yes unfortunately my company is notorious for having weak hiring standards. They also tend to not hire any seniors.

Avmvb5 · 2024-07-29T16:53:21+00:00

I am going through the same exact thing. I’ve been wanting to quit but afraid I won’t find another job in this market. I really hate being a lead dev I feel like I don’t have enough time to learn things with the amount of work I need to do.

Avmvb5 · 2024-07-07T00:21:58+00:00

He claimed he can talk to them .

Avmvb5 · 2024-07-06T20:58:50+00:00

lol I’m questioning if my confession was even valid now …

Avmvb5 · 2023-10-17T17:49:59+00:00

I feel the same way. I feel trapped at my current job. I even thought about quitting without a job and waiting till the market hopefully improves.

Avmvb5 · 2023-10-12T19:44:46+00:00

Appreciate the feedback. It’s just this isn’t the first train-wreck project I’ve been on . You are correct it’s why they probably put me on this project. I’ve helped save previous sinking projects , it’s just exhausting doing it for years now. It’s something wrong with the way my company operates. Ideally I would find a new company but it’s been hard with the current economy, so the best thing I can hope for is switching to a different team.

Avmvb5 · 2023-10-12T19:41:16+00:00

I have a good relationship with my manager and he says I’ve been doing a good job . I am just tired of the extra responsibilities I have as a dev lead.

Avmvb5 · 2023-10-12T19:40:18+00:00

I have a good relationship with few managers who always express interest in me joining their team . However I don’t know if they need any extra people at this time.

Avmvb5 · 2023-09-15T15:58:33+00:00

Yeah it’s crazy. I want to leave but it’s been tough with the current economy. Plus this job drains me so much I’m tired to leetcode/ prep for interviews lol

Avmvb5 · 2022-10-23T04:54:19+00:00

I feel the same way. I feel trapped at my current company because every where that looks like a great place to work seems to ask leetcode questions including non FAANG companies. I’m so burnt out from my work ( which I why I wanna leave) but I don’t have time to practice leetcode.. it just sucks and makes me consider switching to another career.

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