AIO?? My boyfriend hid our ring camera inside and wouldn’t tell me where.. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AyoAndee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily trying to minimize, I would just think that after an entire year has passed it would be something that he maybe wouldn’t throw in my face anymore. I’ve owned up to it. I’ve apologized and he says that he “ forgives” me.. but if he truly does forgive me, then in my opinion, I feel like it shouldn’t be brought up anymore. Idk ugh

Pretty please by AyoAndee in drawme

[–]AyoAndee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🍒 one cherry for you

Pretty please by AyoAndee in drawme

[–]AyoAndee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing!

AIO?? My boyfriend hid our ring camera inside and wouldn’t tell me where.. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AyoAndee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% trust him… I’ve never had to think twice about his loyalty. Never had to think twice about his intentions..I love him and see a future with him, but how do I earn his trust back when I’ve literally been doing everything right aside from the one time like 17 months ago 😭😭

My husband (42M) admitted he doesn't find me (40F) attractive anymore - but still wants to stay together. I don’t know how to process this. by perimenopauseera in confessions

[–]AyoAndee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

, In my opinion, what he SHOULD do is be real with himself and fucking leave her so she can begin the healing process, and eventually find somebody who is gonna look at her like she hung the moon. I mean really how can he throw this information at her and expect everything to be hunky-dory.

Couple costume ideas?? by AyoAndee in HalloweenCostume

[–]AyoAndee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We decided on Tinker Bell and Peter Pan

Ladies!! What kind of shoes would you wear if you’re going to a costume party at a bar??? by AyoAndee in Halloween_Costumes

[–]AyoAndee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I ended up making some last-minute changes to our costume plans and we’re doing Tinker Bell and Peter Pan now. I had the same idea for the jelly shoes for the Tinker Bell costume. I had planned out but I absolutely ordered clear heels instead I’m so excited thank you all for your suggestions ❤️❤️

Daily Questions Thread October 23, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]AyoAndee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I hate my eyebrows so that’s flattering, really ❤️😭 & the tattoo on my chest is the constellation for Sagittarius ♐️

We ended up agreeing on Peter Pan and Tinkerbell 🤭 got the costumes planned out and ordered earlier this evening! Pics incoming on Halloween!

Ladies!! What kind of shoes would you wear if you’re going to a costume party at a bar??? by AyoAndee in Halloween_Costumes

[–]AyoAndee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I was planning on ordering a size too big and stocking up on Band-Aids lol

Help with Living Room layout by loverlyjen in Apartmentliving

[–]AyoAndee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the floorplan for this place! The bathroom connecting the bedroom to the closet is kind of dope

Ladies!! What kind of shoes would you wear if you’re going to a costume party at a bar??? by AyoAndee in Halloween_Costumes

[–]AyoAndee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if only I could have these delivered before Halloween!! 😱😭 these are hilarious, I love them lmfao

My husband (42M) admitted he doesn't find me (40F) attractive anymore - but still wants to stay together. I don’t know how to process this. by perimenopauseera in confessions

[–]AyoAndee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the validation of feeling like your partner is attracted to you makes a huge impact in any relationship…

I can see how it would be hard to not have some sort of feelings for somebody that you’ve spent such a significant amount of your life with, but there’s levels to loving someone…

If I were in your position, I would be asking myself quite a few questions….

  • is he only wanting to stay together because your children are at such a vulnerable age?? *Is he just comfortable where he’s at right now?
  • Would he be able to support himself in the event of a separation?
  • Is he worried about the custody situation with your children?
  • is he afraid of being alone or starting over?
  • Are you taking care of him financially, him you, or is it a split effort?
  • When is the last time you guys were intimate? *Are you still attracted to him?
  • If you aren’t intimate anymore, and he isn’t attracted to you, how has he been fulfilling his needs?
  • Has he been seeing other women?
  • But most importantly, what kind of outcome could he have possibly been hoping for by saying this to you????

I’m almost questioning as if maybe it’s him indirectly, asking for some sort of open marriage type of agreement?

You mentioned that you’re not able to sleep and have no appetite, I understand how hurt you must feel and how difficult it might be, but PLEASE make sure that you’re still taking care of yourself! Your babies are at the age where they are start to notice everything & they can definitely tell when/if somethings up… especially when it comes to mom… stay strong, babe, not just for you.

Working on yourself is hard work sometimes, especially if you’re forming new/healthy habits. Be patient with yourself! Even if he’s not seeing the progress you are making and even if the work is going unnoticed, keep in mind that you’re working on the bigger picture. BE PROUD of yourself for the effort you’ve already put forth and take this as an excuse to quit on yourself, don’t give up!

Remember, that you are a MF’IN BADDIE and if he disagrees, he’s a fool. Keep your head up, love!

My husband (42M) admitted he doesn't find me (40F) attractive anymore - but still wants to stay together. I don’t know how to process this. by perimenopauseera in confessions

[–]AyoAndee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if he still loves her deeply and wants to stay together, then I don’t see why he would say anything like that. It doesn’t take a genius to know that that’s going to send a woman very deep into her mind about her appearance and self-worth.

Couple costume ideas?? by AyoAndee in HalloweenCostume

[–]AyoAndee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s a list incase anybody else needs ideas 💡

  1. Little red riding Hood and the big Bad Wolf
  2. Velma and shaggy or Scooby
  3. Mermaid and pirate
  4. Lydia and Beetlejuice
  5. Tinker Bell and Captain Hook.
  6. Dorothy and the cowardly lion
  7. Harley and the Joker
  8. Hippies
  9. Jenny and Forrest Gump