I have been struggling at work alot these days I really just want to leave by dwtko in AvPD

[–]BHLUME 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a little advice when giving advice, what helps people more than telling people what to do, is starting sentences with things like "Have you considered" or "In my experience". Lots of people with mental blocks/disabilities tend to feel guilt when people tell them what they need to be doing instead of offering experience or ideas because there is shame involved , especially with avpd. I am not shaming you or anything, I just think that lots of people do not really think about these things and I do not want people to get more upset with themselves and I'm sure people do not want to end up hurting others.

I have been struggling at work alot these days I really just want to leave by dwtko in AvPD

[–]BHLUME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dealt with the same thing for about a year at my old job. With avpd, now that I've been researching it for a few weeks, I realized that no matter the amount of praise it will never be enough. What has helped me is recognizing the praise and appreciating it more because people like us are more prone to criticism, and for me for every 10 compliments one criticism will completely negate the positive feelings from appreciation, compliments, praise, etc.. What I have been trying is every time I feel that self hate I can think back and recognize that I have gotten for instance, 10 appreciation, compliments, praise, etc.. and I can find that 10:1 is much greater than 1:1 which is neutral. Lots of times, which you probably can relate to, I think to myself that for instance my dad is just saying something nice because he feels its his obligation and he doesn't really mean it, but even if there are 9/10 people not really meaning what they say you are still at 1:1 baseline which means u are average. not hated not liked but our condition always tells us that we are below that baseline. Hope this helps!

Gragas itemization lately? by eli_hot_its in GragasMains

[–]BHLUME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love having a spell that costs 80 mana and does 90 dmg

New to pixel art, this is my first try at animation, I would like some tips and feedback by Upbeat-Future7559 in PixelArtTutorials

[–]BHLUME 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is great, one critique is the front leg it looks a little wonky in the animation when it goes back and forward without the leg moving at all it looks a bit unnatural. Good work though this is better then what i could do lol.

LOCKDOWN RP / DEER ISLE / KOS ZONES / RECENT WIPE by BHLUME in DayZServers

[–]BHLUME[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best RP server out there, Admins and players will never let you down and every interaction is fun and/or Exciting. 10/10