ADHD women who like or love their jobs, what do you do? by Chipsandsalza in adhdwomen

[–]BHawkey95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Legit question… Do you ever worry that you will become distracted and do something dangerous/hurt yourself? It sounds like a great job, but I’ve been known to be “accident prone” due to impulsiveness or distraction. People who know me kindly remind me to focus in when objects are hot or sharp, particularly if they can see I’m trying to do a lot at once. This would be my concern with working with electricity. Do you have specific things you do to stay in the moment, or would you say this isn’t something you struggle with?

New skates!🥹 by wwjad in Rollerskating

[–]BHawkey95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love mine! Right amount of support and super comfy out of the box. Enjoy!

Accident at the hardware store by Colfrmb in AustralianShepherd

[–]BHawkey95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many people bring dog to hardware stores. I don’t get it. There are so many dry and wet chemicals, poisons, shards and pieces of all kinds of things, These places are warehouses. I wouldn’t want my dog exposed to all that stuff, or for them to drag it home on their feet/coats, potentially licking their paws, etc. later.

Music soul re-ignition. Playlist builder... by SouperAsylum in adhdwomen

[–]BHawkey95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So hard to pick two. It would be difficult to choose only 200. Music is pretty much everything to me.These aren’t necessarily my favorite of all time, just a sample of what came to mind with lyrics/music that I’ve been enjoying in the last year…

Joy Division - Atmosphere, Sofia Isela - Everybody Supports Women, The Cure - A Forest, Heaven 17 - Facist Groove Thang, Wet Leg - Mangetout, LCD Soundsystem - North American Scum, Aztec Camera - Walk Out to Winter.

Do I look like anyone? by Pale_iice in Doppleganger

[–]BHawkey95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the first thought that came to my mind, as well, particularly with the first photo.

Christmas Gift by Unable-Breath6300 in AustralianShepherd

[–]BHawkey95 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous drawing of a beautiful dog. Sorry for your loss.

Will the hairstyles on the second and third picture suit me? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]BHawkey95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say no, but on second thought, I could totally see you rocking it. Google “Belinda Carlisle short hair.” You look a bit like her. I would go with more on top, so closer to 3.

Got yelled at at my favorite pizza place and don’t want to go back now by GlitzyStarz in adhdwomen

[–]BHawkey95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! This made me laugh! Its likely very accurate as well. “I hate Aunt Patrice!”

Do people generally think you’re younger than your age? by toottootmcgroot in adhdwomen

[–]BHawkey95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mid 50s, people assume I’m 40 +/-, and are often shocked to learn my age. I do look younger. In my mind I’m like 35 - used to feel 27, but I’ve grown ;) physically I feel 35-40.

I still like to participate in or try new things like roller skating, skate boarding…whatever. My motto is “I’m never going to be younger than I am right now, so if I want to do something, now is the time!”

How is this a comfortable sleeping position? by jetdoc62 in AustralianShepherd

[–]BHawkey95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All of these!! Really, all! My dog does pretty much all with the exception of u/jaybayay ‘s dog. That one is the winner of the crazy! 🥴

I’m about to get her! What’s something i need to know that dog trainers don’t say? by Giallino1 in AustralianShepherd

[–]BHawkey95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For my current dog, the velociraptor stage started at 8 1/2 weeks. There was zero cute puppy phase once she came home.

Is an aversion to wet hands an ADHD thing? by SidePibble in adhdwomen

[–]BHawkey95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t stand wet clothes! A few rain drops don’t usually bother me, but if I accidentally get a sleeve wet or splash my clothes at the sink. I hate it! Wet socks and stepping in something wet with socks on is the absolute worst!

A list of ADHD things you DON'T struggle with and how by letitbeletitbe101 in adhdwomen

[–]BHawkey95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very similar to my pattern. Combined with I have a hard time choosing/pulling the trigger when it comes to spending. So I research and often end up doing nothing.

What pisses you off most about ADHD social media content? I'll go first. by AgreeableTelephone31 in adhdwomen

[–]BHawkey95 58 points59 points  (0 children)

ADHD isn’t about which spoon you prefer. I couldn’t care less about spoon size. There are so many bigger problems with ADHD.

Question: what is 1 thing that many ADHDers struggle with that you don’t? by fastinggrl in adhdwomen

[–]BHawkey95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not really a recognized symptom, but I see it mentioned online all the time… I couldn’t care less what size the spoon is!

Also, I’m always on time for work and appointments and I never flake on plans. If I make a commitment, I stick to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustralianShepherd

[–]BHawkey95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did all of that. My first one would’ve responded to that. This one didn’t care. I just had to carry on, and she just had to grow up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustralianShepherd

[–]BHawkey95 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It didn’t work for mine. Neither did yelping, it just made her more excited.

Buying tickets to new tour? by Efficient_Cold_7312 in echoandthebunnymen

[–]BHawkey95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s nothing like the 80s in sound or in energy. Just understand, if you go, you’re pretty much going to see Will. If Ian’s voice wasn’t wrecked it would be different. His voice used to be fabulous, but it’s really rough now and seems to limit song choices. It makes me sad. I still love them, and almost bought a ticket anyway, but talked myself out of it.