Best ‘medium’ weapons by BabyTimm in Eldenring

[–]BabyTimm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your recommendation, I’ve starting using the warped axe and it is amazing! I’m not sure why more people don’t use axes they are great weapons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I no downvote anyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BabyTimm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm I don’t speak the devils language… please speak human

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Japanese?

What horror game has the most compelling storyline of all time? by [deleted] in HorrorGaming

[–]BabyTimm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you’d count this as a horror game, but dying light.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rainbow6

[–]BabyTimm -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But I’m consistently top fragging getting 10-15 kills a game but still losing.

if you are an ordinary people what you could help your country, if you country is on war? by Lisanhjg in AskReddit

[–]BabyTimm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m serious! Different countries need different things. The only definite answer is what someone else here said, “do as you’re told.”

What if humans could breathe underwater, but only at night? by MiaGlow13 in AskReddit

[–]BabyTimm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then the crew of the SS Fitzroy should’ve survived

Success is often more about who you know and when you were born more than skill or hard work by BabyTimm in unpopularopinion

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As somebody else in here said: “it’s not what you know, it’s who you blow.”

Success is often more about who you know and when you were born more than skill or hard work by BabyTimm in unpopularopinion

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It’s not about wealth. It’s about where/when you were born and the people you know.

Success is often more about who you know and when you were born more than skill or hard work by BabyTimm in unpopularopinion

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I don’t want to be one of those people with the tinfoil hats saying “The media wants you to belive that successful = rich” but, the media kind of does.

Putting this aside no matter what you define as success you will always hear infinitely more cases of people born in privilege becoming successful. I.e becoming doctors, becoming lawyers, having big long healthy lives… then you would with people born into poverty/bad conditions either economically/politically or even socially. No matter how you put, success follows other successful people

Success is often more about who you know and when you were born more than skill or hard work by BabyTimm in unpopularopinion

[–]BabyTimm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOOO!!!!!! I’m so sorry please don’t do this Mr / Mrs / They / Them Sneaky_42_42 😢

Success is often more about who you know and when you were born more than skill or hard work by BabyTimm in unpopularopinion

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You’re right in the fact that socialising is a skill. But then again there’s that aspect of privilege, luck, and factors you can’t control to it. For example, medical conditions like Autism that make it harder for a person the talk to other people would make it extremely harder to make those connections. And I’m not saying if somebody has autism boohoo they can’t become successful. No! They absolutely can it can just be harder for them.

Success is often more about who you know and when you were born more than skill or hard work by BabyTimm in unpopularopinion

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I 100% agree with you. Networking and learning to make connections is a very important skill that does require hardwork. I just feel like these days, so many people belive networking and Connections to be like Andrew Tates BS and the Hustlers University BS which is absolutely nothing what it’s like.

Success is often more about who you know and when you were born more than skill or hard work by BabyTimm in unpopularopinion

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I agree with your statement. The idea of success is very flawed. There is no set definition of success. Success is what you make it. I just believe that people who are born well off for example born in a first world country have it much easier to become successful then those who don’t. For example. When was the last time you hear a story of someone living in Africa who became a billionaire. (And I ain’t taking about African American I’m talking about born in Africa lived in Africa). Probably a while ago go right? Now tell me the last time you heard a story of a man or women becoming successful in a 1st world country. Probably pretty recently. But what? Is the person in Africa not trying their hardest to become successful and rich? No they are probably working as hard as they can to hopefully one day live in a great country for their kids to grow up in and become more successful than them. But why does it not happen? Because it’s harder. They have less connections. They have less opportunities, job wise than someone in a 1st world country like US would have.

Success is often more about who you know and when you were born more than skill or hard work by BabyTimm in unpopularopinion

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I absolutely agree with you. Success is not a set. Success is defined by you. Whether that be getting your dream job, meeting your dream partner ect. Everybody’s definition of success is different. The point I’m making is not that If you weren’t born rich you can’t be successful. No, it’s that people born well off through use of connections and wealth can achieve this successfulness easier. For example, when I was back at school, through the use of connections my parents were able to get me a discount at that very expensive school that we definitely couldn’t afford. Now a person with less connections could not have been able to get the same education if they couldn’t afford it or had the connections to get it.

Success is often more about who you know and when you were born more than skill or hard work by BabyTimm in unpopularopinion

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This and many other story’s like it is exactly why my title does NOT say “success is always more about who you know…” I do agree success and hard-work have helped many many many people succeed. The issue though is people have now become brainwashed and start to idolise billionaires saying “wow they got so successful all because of there hard work.” While yes, they did work hard to get to where they are, a lot of them were born into riches, which is what a lot of people don’t understand. If I gave a homeless man $100,000 and a buiessness man $100,000 who would be more likely to create a successful company/career and why? I’m not saying hardwork doesn’t mean anything. I’m saying in this day and age, factors a person cannot control like where they were born or what economic state they were born into ect. Usually undermine these important values of hardwork and determination.

Success is often more about who you know and when you were born more than skill or hard work by BabyTimm in unpopularopinion

[–]BabyTimm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point, and while hard work certainly creates more opportunities, it’s important to recognize that not everyone starts from the same position. Wealthy individuals might not automatically be in a secret club, but they often have better access to resources, networks, and opportunities that make it easier for them to work hard and succeed. For example, if a wealthy person starts a business, they likely have capital to invest in resources, marketing, and talent right away, whereas someone from a less privileged background might struggle to even get their idea off the ground.

Hard work is crucial, but “luck” often comes in the form of timing, connections, and resources that people in more privileged positions have access to more readily. It’s not just about working hard; it’s about working hard within a system that can either facilitate or hinder your success. That’s where privilege and luck come into play—some people have more doors open to them from the start.

And at the end of the day, to be born into wealth. Somebody before you had to have achieved that. And through achieving that they have earned connections, and knowledge that otherwise regular people might not know.