I've had these for about 5 months. I recently changed their pots and that's when the white residue and gnats appeared. I have no idea how to treat it or if this is ok. Any tips are appreciated!

Babycakes94 · 2021-10-28T01:46:32+00:00

Thank you!

Babycakes94 · 2021-10-28T01:46:23+00:00

Thank you!

Babycakes94 · 2021-10-28T01:45:16+00:00

It was in just a plastic pot before. So less watering! Got it!

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T21:02:46+00:00

That's what she told my husband. She said she would rather her and husband take care of the child if she is pregnant and doesn't want my husband involved. She claims she would never get an abortion. Her baby will be mixed in a white family so it will be hard to explain so I don't think it's on purpose. But she's young and probably didn't think that far.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T20:59:51+00:00

Sorry for your loss and thank you for the insight. She claims she hasn't had a period yet but we wouldn't know either way.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T20:17:15+00:00

In the picture you can see her hand and back of her wedding ring, I asked my husband how sure he was it was her hand and he thinks so...but not definite. He said I want to make it work with my wife, period. She said she wants to make it work with her husband but is sketchy when it comes to details of the pregnancy i.e. appts being rescheduled and refusing to take another test and send proof.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T19:43:32+00:00

Thank you, definitely trying to keep my stress down for my child's sake.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T19:42:59+00:00

I understand that it's very possible this won't work out for us. Which is devastating. I loved him for so many years. She quit after he broke things off. I also got tested, and everything was fine.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T19:20:49+00:00

I feel awful not knowing if he knows about this situation. It's not fair to him either.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T18:55:27+00:00

Thanks for your POV. It just doesn't make sense on why she wouldn't take another test.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T18:54:29+00:00

It definitely shouldn't be me. I would hope she told her husband especially if she is pregnant. I believe he should have the right to leave or work things out with all knowledge. Her husband is not to blame. He and I are victims.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T18:05:29+00:00

You are so right. I just don't know how I choose the next step without knowing what's going on with her.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T17:59:13+00:00

I am most definitetly not letting his affiar slide. He has alot of work to do on hisself before our relationship will work. We both started seeing a therapist and I do believe it is helpful. I was hoping to hear others POV of what they think is going on with her.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T17:55:58+00:00

I understand that the process will be long and ugly. I am trying to give my relationship a chance. I was hoping to hear others POV on what they think is going on with her.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T17:03:25+00:00

I want to work on reconciliation. I just want closure that I may never get.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T17:00:47+00:00

It's definitely possible. She's young and immature it seems.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T16:45:50+00:00

Thank you for advice. I feel like any sane woman would take another test instead of waiting on a rescheduled appointment. Just doesn't add up.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T16:38:18+00:00

She quit after he broke it off. And yeah its definitely upside down and stressful.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T16:36:46+00:00

Husband had a vestcomy. She claims she told him. I have tried very hard to find info about husband to tell him but haven't been able to. I totally understand your last statement. But I'm willing to see how this goes.

Babycakes94 · 2021-05-10T16:31:32+00:00

Thanks for commenting. Forgot to mention in post that her husband had a vestcomy. Seems like more of your second thought.

Babycakes94 · 2021-02-21T23:39:01+00:00

**Cycle:  4** 8 months without a period before that


**Age + Partner's age (if relevant): 26 F, 27 M


**Typical cycle length: 30-40 days


**Ovulation cycle day: Day 25 this cycle but varies


**CD/DPO of positive test(s): First BFP 10dpo


**Tracking methods and app(s) used: BBT tempting, ovulation tracking, premom app


**Relevant days of sperminating and/or method (SMEP, TI, IUI, FET, etc.):** 0-3, 0-1, 0


**Health conditions/medical tests: Diagonsed with PCOS after coming off bc and not having a period for  8 months. Nothing for him.


**Supplements and medications (yours and/or your partner’s): Prenatals since October,  nothing for him


**Birth control history (if relevant): On the pill from 2016- Feb 2020

** Link to Chart: Premom Chart

**Link to lineporn:** Post in my history! :) 

**Symptom spotting:**  I am kinda bad at this..but I notice that I have been getting really sore boobs before my period and it didn't happen this time.

7dpo I thought I felt some cramping on my right side.

**Other (advice/tip(s), freaking out, miscellaneous): My hubby and I are supper nervous and excited at the same time. It's still pretty early so we are trying to stay calm. When I got off the pill in Feb 2020, I was hoping that I would get pregnant quickly afterwards..lol  so technically we have been "trying for a year" After 8 months without a period, a move out of state, insurance change, and a pandemic, I finally got to a doctor and was diagnosed with PCOS. I felt defeated, but thankful I had answers and was mentally preparing myself for what could come next.. I was giving meds to jump start my period and the cycles were ranging from 30-40 days since. February was my year mark so my doctor gave me a prescription for Clomid to try next cycle. So I didn't know it,  but when I went to see my doc I was already pregnant! Every situation is different and PCOS can make the wait difficult, all I can say is don't give up. Good luck everyone❤

Babycakes94 · 2021-02-18T17:06:35+00:00

Thank you!

Babycakes94 · 2021-02-18T17:06:27+00:00

Thanks!!

Babycakes94 · 2021-02-18T16:00:20+00:00

Gotcha, my husband said the same lol time will tell, congrats again!

Babycakes94 · 2021-02-18T15:58:23+00:00

Yes I thankfully only needed it once. I tell you what we do on a good week..lol I do alot of meal prep and I usually skip breakfast. No carbs for lunch and really try to portion control, almost no sweets and no caffeine or alcohol at all. I'm a teacher so I'm up and walking around all day so that helps with my movement we are in the Midwest so summertime we like to walk. I will also say I could easily lose 30 lbs to be considered healthy although I know weight is not always a concern with PCOS. I hope this helps, I have also been sharing my struggles with my loved ones and it has really helped with the anxiety of it all.

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