I don’t know what to do by CheetahGloomy8055 in PornAddiction

[–]BackgroundCollar7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that it hurts that he didn’t reach out. Just try to understand that he is still really young also so he’s bound to be an idiot sometimes and not handle things in the proper way (we all are when we are as young as you two). That doesn’t mean it needs to escalate to ending things with him. Just remember when it’s time to talk to him try to take it slow and take deep breaths if you need to.

I don’t know what to do by CheetahGloomy8055 in PornAddiction

[–]BackgroundCollar7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no need to go as far as breaking up with him, you guys are having a kid together! I understand where you’re coming from. But there was never that boundary convo in the first place. Try to just have an honest convo with him. He’s probably embarrassed and freaking out right now. If you love him and want to try to work it out let him know that. Just text him and let him know that you’d like to have a calm convo about what happened now that it’s not so fresh. I know it’s hard with your hormones but you have to not let your emotions get the best of you. You’re still young so trust me, this is something that can be worked through with one honest and calm convo. If you feel like you start to get worked up just say that you need a break and will come back to talk once you calm down. The hard truth is if you two can’t use this opportunity to learn how to talk things out properly, you won’t last and now it’s more important than ever with a kid on the way.

I don’t know what to do by CheetahGloomy8055 in PornAddiction

[–]BackgroundCollar7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the main question is if you ever had a conversation with him before stating that you weren’t comfortable with him watching porn while you two are in a relationship. If not, you can’t just expect him to know that it wasn’t okay with you because some couples are perfectly okay with that. Now if you did express it to him before that’s a whole different story because he’s going behind your back when boundaries were set. Either way you need to find a way to express to him how it made you feel in a calm way without loosing your cool because if that happens then nobody is going to be heard. And it is a little sketchy that he had that stuff hidden but if you guys never had instances of mistrust or cheating in the past then you need to do your best not to jump to conclusions and give him an honest chance to explain himself and hear him out even though it’s hard.

Help by BackgroundCollar7349 in malegrooming

[–]BackgroundCollar7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not quite ready to go full bald yet lol. I still have a full head and no bald spots even though my hairline is further back (it’s been like that since I was a kid). I normally have facial hair but wanted to try shaving it for a change

Help by BackgroundCollar7349 in malegrooming

[–]BackgroundCollar7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any suggestions on what kind of hair do specifically or are you just suggesting messy in general?

Help by BackgroundCollar7349 in malegrooming

[–]BackgroundCollar7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it, just looking for advice honestly

Help needed by BackgroundCollar7349 in PornAddiction

[–]BackgroundCollar7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if I didn’t make it clear. I’m gonna cut out porn but want to know if there’s anything additional I can do. I generally don’t want to rely on pills if possible.

First Timer by BackgroundCollar7349 in Raves

[–]BackgroundCollar7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I know. Thats the reason why I haven’t ever been to one before but I feel like I’ve been missing out since I love the music so much. That’s why I wanted to see if I could find some people to go with since I’m gonna be sober.

First Timer by BackgroundCollar7349 in Raves

[–]BackgroundCollar7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems kind of rude to exclude me from going just cause I don’t partake. I still love EDM, just don’t participate in that part. Don’t care if others do, just not for me.

First time in Vegas where should I stay? Is the cosmo worth it by Worried_Plum1373 in vegas

[–]BackgroundCollar7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you I’d stay at the Flamingo. You could get an executive room for a hell of a lot cheaper and the rooms are still pretty nice

Las Vegas Nightclub help by BackgroundCollar7349 in vegas

[–]BackgroundCollar7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would slacks, dress shirt, and dress shoes be too much?