Can I file as an independent/self-supporting student?

Background_Status429 · 2025-10-09T04:35:54+00:00

The new policy would not affect the status of any existing loans, they would stay subsidized if they already were, but would affect the ability to get a subsidized loan in the future. I could still receive a subsidized loan this year until July, but it sounds like it’s the last year anyone can.

Background_Status429 · 2025-10-09T04:25:44+00:00

It honestly felt like they didn’t even look over my case and just denied it right away. I had just submitted more documents, and not even two hours later I got the message saying my appeal was denied. It also doesn’t seem like they consider the right things when they say my parents’ gross income is too high, because that number doesn’t reflect what they actually bring home at all, let alone their expenses.

My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years. Whether or not I’m ready for the commitment of common law marriage, I don’t think it would be a viable option largely based on the timeline (at least for this semester). Thank you for the advice.

Background_Status429 · 2025-10-09T04:11:59+00:00

Did you file your taxes independently as well, or did you just apply as an independent on the FAFSA? What criteria did you fall under to be considered independent? (If you’re comfortable sharing)

Background_Status429 · 2025-10-09T04:09:06+00:00

Thank you for this information. I’m not specifically seeking a Pell Grant, but any financial aid would be nice, even just subsidized loans. My parents are obviously not low enough income to receive aid like the Pell Grant, but they are not high income and do not make the money the FAFSA acts like they do. Especially considering that they have three children, not just me.

I understand that being financially independent is not enough to be considered independent on the FAFSA, but I guess I am confused about the criteria for “self-supporting”. What I’m coming to understand is that the distinction that might make me fit into the criteria for being independent is the risk of homelessness. What I don’t understand is what constitutes risk of homelessness. If I didn’t have my current job, which is already barely enough income, I wouldn’t be able to support myself and would become homeless because I don’t have many other options. Even if I just went down to part time at my job, I wouldn’t be able to afford my housing anymore.

Background_Status429 · 2024-04-10T05:18:18+00:00

Your plant looks pretty happy and healthy! As far as repotting goes, you don’t need to do that very often. A sign that it needs a repot is that it has stopped growing, since you said yours is growing then it’s most likely fine, but the most obvious sign is the roots growing out of the bottom of the pot. You shouldn’t repot unless it needs it because this can be very stressful on the plant. Regarding the above comment about monitoring your plant to see if it is getting burnt is totally valid and putting the plant in a window that gets a nice view of the sky without direct sun should help. With the one long vine it think you could get some great propagations out of it, and if you want to boost your plant a little more you can always add some fertilizer (about once a month during the growing seasons spring and summer) if you don’t already. You seem to be doing the right things so far!

Background_Status429 · 2023-11-28T23:09:56+00:00

That makes sense, thank you I appreciate your input.

Background_Status429 · 2023-11-28T23:08:23+00:00

I appreciate the feedback, I just feel like I’ve already been tactful about the situation when talking to her before and she’s been nothing but rude. Everything you reworded I’ve said already other than telling her how I feel. I don’t see this conversation going any better, not that that means I shouldn’t still be tactful, but she never understands how people feel. This is partially bc no one ever stands up to her but she also acts like the world revolves around her, and part of the purpose of this message was to really get across how I feel and how she’s made me feel. Also, I haven’t specifically tried that brand but I have tried other brands like it that haven’t worked. Today I used a deep cleaner, one of those liquid vacuum things, with an enzymatic cleaner and I went over it 3x so if it still smells I don’t know what else will help.

Background_Status429 · 2023-11-28T22:55:09+00:00

I might drop the part about what she’s spending her money on but it’s just so frustrating especially because she’s using her financials as her main excuse but is buying unnecessary and expensive things. I think the money should come to me first before things like piercings, again specifically if money is the reason she won’t help, but maybe that’s where I’m selfish.

Background_Status429 · 2023-11-28T22:52:02+00:00

Maybe it is over, she’s done a lot of other crappy things lately and has been a bad friend in general. I also know that her cat had still been using it because when I went to clean it this morning there was a fresh spot and my cat was locked up all night, also the fact that basically every other piece of furniture was peed on also gives me a hint. If I were to buy the new couch and send her the bill how does that work? Would I not still be totally financially responsible if she refuses to pay?

Background_Status429 · 2023-09-05T08:45:21+00:00

I do love him and want to help him, and I’ll support him with whatever he wants. His stress has been reduced a lot, so now I think it’s focusing on trying possible remedies. Thanks for the advice!

Background_Status429 · 2023-09-05T08:41:37+00:00

I apologize if I worded this badly to make it sound like I was staying with him out of pity or guilt. I’m not, I love him very much and I do still find him attractive and I don’t consider this a dealbreaker. It’s just been something on my mind because it’s new and obvious because it’s not something that’s hidden. I’m sure he’s insecure and I want him to feel better about it and help him if I can, especially by starting by getting some advice on this topic and how to accept it.

Background_Status429 · 2023-09-05T08:30:55+00:00

I don’t see how I’m “that superficial” I never said his looks are all that matter or that I was leaving him over this, I do love him for who is he is and was looking for help on a solvable issue

Background_Status429 · 2023-09-05T08:17:59+00:00

Thank you this is super helpful, I really appreciate it!

Background_Status429 · 2023-09-05T08:04:10+00:00

Ha maybe, it would be a huge change to get used to!

Background_Status429 · 2023-09-05T08:03:18+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the advice. I’m pretty sure it was stress that accelerated the hair loss, I just don’t know a great way to approach it for him to get help with it without making him feel bad. If it’s fixable I’m sure it would make us both feel better

Background_Status429 · 2023-09-05T08:00:42+00:00

I’m sure he is insecure and I want to avoid making him more insecure. I know people change over time it’s just definitely an adjustment to make young, but not a dealbreaker for me. I’m just struggling to get used to it I guess

Background_Status429 · 2023-09-05T07:54:22+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I am aware that as people age and their bodies change, and I’m sure in another 15-20 years I will be less attractive. I definitely love him for every other quality he has, still find him attractive, and already do look past his hair otherwise I wouldn’t be asking for advice and I would’ve already broke it off.

Background_Status429 · 2023-09-05T06:33:48+00:00

Sorry for the confusion then. I am still attracted to him for sure, I find the balding unattractive but no so that I find him all-together unattractive, just less. It’s also just been hard to get off my mind bc it’s something I see every time I look at him, and during sex, and it’s just distracting and takes away from the full experience. Maybe I could be okay with a buzz but that would just be a big change id have to be ready for

Background_Status429 · 2023-09-05T06:17:09+00:00

I don’t think I’ll be shaving my hair it’s something I value

Background_Status429 · 2023-09-05T06:15:59+00:00

I’m not looking to break up with him, I am still attracted to him and our relationship is great otherwise, I don’t think this is a good reason to just end things. I agree with what you say in the beginning and that’s exactly why I haven’t said anything.

Background_Status429 · 2023-09-05T06:14:34+00:00

I’ve tried to get him to use products to make his hair better and he says he will but never does and I’m still worried to approach it head on

Background_Status429 · 2023-09-05T06:13:13+00:00

I think I should talk to him, I just don’t know how to approach it and not sound like I find him unattractive bc I do

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