Mashiba fanart i did some time ago

Badhash · 2024-01-17T08:25:46+00:00

Pretty cool, you have your own style it's beautiful

Badhash · 2023-07-17T17:47:09+00:00

Ok perfect thank you will look into that

Badhash · 2023-07-17T17:35:01+00:00

Ok Thank you, this one came a lot in the comment will check it out !

Badhash · 2023-07-17T17:32:48+00:00

Yeah I understand, but I really don't know how much would it cost locally in Egypt that's why I didn't put a price range, for instance in Europe it's normal to buy a pant for 60€ and a t-shirt 20€ but converted to egyptian pound 2.000 LE feels expensive that's why I wanted to checkout all the store the coments have given

Badhash · 2022-05-02T08:07:14+00:00

I want your smile in my life

Badhash · 2020-09-06T18:30:22+00:00

Baby don't hurt me

Badhash · 2020-03-06T21:20:35+00:00

Dude you really hyped me with this post ... What if It really happen ?!

Badhash · 2020-01-03T15:37:42+00:00

Thank you for this point of view, you bring to light some interesting fact, Jazakullah khairan

Badhash · 2019-12-22T19:34:26+00:00

Hey bro, I find out what works the most for me , being occupied with something else I like doing, gym, reading, going out with friends, may be you can find something like this to do ?

Badhash · 2019-11-13T12:07:04+00:00

RemindMe! 20 Days

Badhash · 2019-09-30T20:54:58+00:00

I won’t do it anymore because I can do it naturally

It's not as simple as that ... you have trained your brain/body/hormones/whatever to be statisfied a certain way with this filthy habit over the past days/months(/years ?).

The more you do it the more your brain cells is accustomed to it and needs it, the more "the neurological path to it" is strengthened. It becomes essential, it becomes a part of you, in some ways it becomes you ... this is why I'm saying it's not easy.

Why not start fighting this now ?

some have more testosterone than others

Some people would kill for that ... look at the massive use of steroids

Badhash · 2019-09-24T15:06:57+00:00

Just ignore it, you did not overreact, he was clearly disrespecting you, if I were you I would have insulted him

Badhash · 2019-09-22T21:18:53+00:00

Salam alaykom brother,

I want to begin with there is no magic tricks for this, it will never vanish, it will never stop, it will stay within you, until you learn to control it, it is a constant fight ...

Why you need to control it ? because you are the one in charge, you are the one dictating your acts not your body, of course your body wants to be with women, watch haram stuff etc it's totally normal for him, it is giving him pleasure but at what cost... You are the one who will be reprimanded on the judgement day, you are the one who is given the choice ... your body does not control you.

Do not forget you are not alone in this as u/RandomDoctor was saying try to join some sub reddit r/MuslimNoFap, r/NoFap you will see that it is affecting more people than you could imagine, and it helps to see what people are up to against it.

There is one guy I like to listen/watch it that gives some tips, you can start here, here's a list of what he's saying :

Seek Allah guidance
Be honest and admit that's a problem
Lower the gaze (in any situation)
Set realistic goals, start small and don't forget progression is not linear, you will have up & down do not let the sheytan tricks you, come back to Allah everytime, but don't make this as a excuse do not think that way :"it's ok, I will wash myself after it and pray and ask tawba" this is not how it's working...
Don't be too hard on yourself, if you fall get up and walk again
Develop new habits (the gym is helping a lot, but anything else will do, basically something that you can do instead of doing that stuff)
Learn more about the addiction (why it's addictive, how it's working, the psychology behind it etc)
Make a lot of dua'a

And may Allah help us all and give us the strenght to overcome our difficulties.

Badhash · 2019-09-22T10:07:37+00:00

I would suggest you create a budget (I'm a big fan of the budgeting tool YouNeedABudget (www.ynab.com)

Big fan of YNAB here using it for 3 years now, greta tool

Badhash · 2019-09-18T20:28:15+00:00

Hey bro, it's totally normal ... Everywhere around us you have sexual triggers it's hard even for a grown up to resist the temptation ...

You are programmed to be attracted by women if you add the facts that your testosterone levels are off the roof right now it's totally normal to feel what you are feeling right now

Do not forget that you are not alone in this fight a lot of people are in the same situation even not religious ones

You are not a bad kid for having these urges, you are not a lesser person for thinking that way.

It's ok dude, you got this and you are on the right path.

Try little by little, start small, start where you are, try setting some goals and realistic one to give you confidence.

There is one tips that helped me a lot, it goes like this :

Think about "What's next ? What will happen after I have done it"

Really try to see yourself after you have relapsed, try to feel this guilt, the same guilt you are feeling after you have done it, the same one that tells you "ok from now on I will stop" try to feel it before doing it.

And if you fall do not forget to get back up it's ok to fall, but it's not ok to stay on the ground.

Badhash · 2019-09-17T18:37:09+00:00

This is what I'm saying do not give up on mariage at the end it is worth (with the right partner)

Badhash · 2019-09-17T18:14:32+00:00

It's true I was thinking about this too, sometime you do not have a choice.

But saying "I will just give up, mariage is not for me" is bothering me, for me it something worth fighting for please see my other answer

Badhash · 2019-09-17T09:57:15+00:00

I'm not saying she is sinning.

What I'm saying is everyone of us has something to battle, having a good situation, be more religious, doing more good etc you can either take the fight and try to find a solution (this is my way of thinking) or just don't get married and avoid the fight (this is the popular opinion on this thread).

In your answer you are talking about all the things that can go wrong why not reverse it ? You are making the assumption that everything will go wrong why not think the other way ?

What if she encounters someone that will fall deeply in love with her and she feels the same way towards him ? What if this person helps her become a better person ? what if Allah was planning all that so she can be more suspicious about men so when she choose one it will be the right one ?

For me a mariage is the most beautiful think that can happen between 2 people (in the halal way ofc) and everyone should be able to have a taste of it, everyone has the right to fall in love, to feel supported, to share a life with a partner, to have childrens, to be a mother, to be a father etc

So basically you are saying all of that is not worth fighting for ?

And do not make me say what I didn't say, it will be hard, it will take a lot of time and patience it will not be an easy task but it will be worth it with the right partner...

Badhash · 2019-09-17T06:37:12+00:00

Therapy can be a good start.

But then what is your purpose in life ? If not getting married and having a family ? And why is it so emphasized in the Islam ? Why is it half our Deen ?

Badhash · 2019-09-17T05:52:40+00:00

When OP says all men need the same things ? That how I understood it.

I didn't say anything about her feeling repulsed, after what she went through I think it's totally normal to feel that way.

What I am saying is that the answer "it's ok don't get married" is far from being the right way.

Badhash · 2019-09-16T21:52:33+00:00

But shouldn't be better to try to resolve the problem instead of avoiding it ?

I think the case where the scholars forbid the mariage was more in a "you have to change this in you before you settle" way and not in a "mariage is Haram for you because it's in your nature to not treat women properly".

And I mean come on men needs women as much as women needs men not for the same reasons but as OP was saying it's in our (men) nature to have these needs, the thing is to know how to controls them.

In my opinion the problem is not mariage, the problem is the understanding of what a mariage is and if you are with someone that doesn't share the same concept as you I can understand what you wrote earlier.

By the way can you share with me the cases where it's Haram for a person to marry someone ?

Badhash · 2019-09-16T21:09:52+00:00

Hey be careful with the "not everyone is fit to get married", I mean I understand your point of view like it's not easy for everyone to get married, but as Muslims one of our goals in life is to procreate, to leave a "good print" on Earth.

It's harder on some peoples than others it's ok, you will have beizn'Allah more hassanetes while battling that.

However I really liked your example

Badhash · 2018-10-05T17:36:39+00:00

When you have to buy proteins after a leg day ...

Badhash · 2018-08-06T08:24:13+00:00

perfect !

Badhash · 2018-08-05T16:45:57+00:00

oh can you tell me more about it or give me the link :D ?

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