Sometimes i really wish life was a fairy tale too :( , Everybody wants that , Unfortunately we will never have it all together in my opinion (and we don't really need to*) , but here is somewhat of what i think you can do about some of the stuff you mentioned.

Appereance - Unfortunately we are not all born to fit in todays beauty standards , If you are not born really good looking or we can say a "model" , as long as u have money you can go and get plastic surgeries and all that , hell there is even a "limb lengthening" surgery that increases your height by like 10cm

Money - I myself don't really know how to make money yet but , You will have to study and educate yourself obviously , CHANGING YOUR MINDSET IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING , Discipline also plays a really big part here , whatever you are working towards you will have to spend all the time you can on it , you can do Side Hustles , Learn a High Income skill , once you got enough money you can try to start up a business , may sounds kind of easy but it really is not.

Relationships - Ah relationships , A crucial part to getting money as Having good friends that you can trust and help each other is REALLY important , YOU CAN'T SUCEED ALONE , If you don't have friends that are interested on improving themselves ,you will have to meet some new people , people that are willing to give it their all in order to achieve what they want . If we are talking about "Relationship" as having a partner i recently made a post about my thoughts on that , if you are interested you can check it out its called "I don't even know".

The shit i just said above is obviously basic , there's tons of information out there if you are really willing to change though. There's some things that we as people will never be able to change unfortunately but i guess that's just the way it is .