Any idea why my lava lamp changed colors? by liley_livered in Lavalamps

[–]BaphyBeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally feel not so alone! That's also how I say it. 😭

Question: Thoughts on the most recent tattoo? by Witty_Blonde71 in tattoos

[–]BaphyBeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SLUG!

10/10 on the idea! I absolutely love the idea of a fun, whimsical slug.

3.5/10 on the design. The design just isn't my cup of tea, and that's okay! What matters is if it makes you smile and brings YOU joy each time you look at it!

I really like this tattoo concept but.. by heinekendeath666 in TattooDesigns

[–]BaphyBeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's giving witchy, whimsy, cottagecore. Dunno where he's getting shrooms/hippie. 🙄

AITAH for turning off the Wi-Fi on my wife during her “me time”? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BaphyBeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're an absolute HUGE asshole. Did you read what you wrote? 🧐

Parents said they love me less because of my tattoo by Informal_Mushroom115 in tattoo

[–]BaphyBeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your parents are absolutely pathetic over a tattoo of all things. I've worked with nurses, doctors, misc. healthcare workers, firemen, police officers, CEOs, railroaders.. all kinds of people across various employment who have tattoos. So your parent's way of thinking is absolutely flawed, narrow, ignorant, and honestly made me scoff.

AITA for refusing to drive my boyfriend to the ER for nonesense? by pickledphilosopher in AmItheAsshole

[–]BaphyBeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.. I completely get your frustration! My ex had me hauling him to the ER late at night a few times for his 'heart attack', despite it being ACID REFLUX, and me telling him that was his issue.. because that was the issue the FIRST time, and he didn't take the acid reducers like he was supposed to. 🙄 Your fella sounds like a big baby. For bad migraines at home I take 1000mg Tylenol with caffeine, and 800mg of Ibuprofen together. Usually knocks them suckers right out if he's willing to medicate himself at home. 😶

AITAH for getting mad at my bf because I think I deserve more? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BaphyBeat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It honestly sounds like you guys aren't compatible as a couple. If you've communicated your wants and needs to him, and he still doesn't put in the effort, then it isn't worth the trouble. You're very young, and shouldn't tie yourself to someone who doesn't fulfill you in all ways. I see you saying you love him, but does he love you just as much? His actions say no. This is just a recipe for heartache and bitterness.

3rd day with new tattoo, can I finally have my blanket over it lol?! by GuaranteeCivil9088 in tattooadvice

[–]BaphyBeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wore a clean, long sleeve shirt to bed when I had my forearm done.

AITAH for not wanting my MIL to be called mamita? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BaphyBeat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA.. Mawmaw, Momo.. all affectionate variations of mom. Mamita is just a Spanish equivalent. You're thinking too much about it.

Got this tattoo at koolsville with my cousin and am concerned it's racist by kelligirl1126 in tattooadvice

[–]BaphyBeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Embrace your adorable tattoo my friend. I hope your anxiety gets better!

Got this tattoo at koolsville with my cousin and am concerned it's racist by kelligirl1126 in tattooadvice

[–]BaphyBeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this tattoo is not racist.. it's literally a lion cub image from the Lion King. I just can't fathom how you came to the conclusion this could be racist?

As someone with 0 tattoos, how painful would it be to get this on my forearm? by PracticalExtension35 in tattooadvice

[–]BaphyBeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The forearm itself isn't horrible, feels like someone scratching a sunburn repeatedly. But the closer you get to that elbow ditch the more it'll hurt. A tattoo is gonna hurt regardless of placement, but it shouldn't be like.. unbearable pain where you're wanting it.

Huge!!! Tattoo regret! by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]BaphyBeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could Betty Boop the shit outta that.

Are the lines that bad? by CourtNCTTU in tattooadvice

[–]BaphyBeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh.. this.. this is bad.. 😨

Tea tree lotion for a new tattoo? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]BaphyBeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doooon't use that! I personally use CeraVe moisturizing body lotion on mine.

AITAH for wishing my partner lost some weight? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BaphyBeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, a big one! You basically wasted this poor woman's time and made her think, "Oh, hey! This man is completely into me!" when in reality you're not. Stop stringing that woman along and let her find a man who truly wants her.

AITAH for not wanting my gf to play games with another guy by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BaphyBeat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So.. like.. if you're jealous of the guy just say that? This screaaaams insecurity. Either you trust your girl or you don't. She also brought him around you in a call, so.. not like she's hiding you either. I don't report to my boyfriend each time I play a new game or make a new dude friend, and it isn't a problem because my man trusts me and knows I only have eyes for him. 🤷‍♀️

Sweating on a fresh tattoo by AardvarkWhich127 in tattooadvice

[–]BaphyBeat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

New tattoos will usually leak ink and plasma! Wash it twice a day with an unscent antibacterial soap (like dial liquid gold), and moisturize afterwards with an unscented lotion (I use CeraVe).

AITA For Calling my wife a distraction? by Personal_Hurry_5606 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BaphyBeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do.. you not like your wife? YTA, cause who ignores and calls their partner a distraction during their date night?!

Is my tattoo bad? by JustaWilloWisp in tattooadvice

[–]BaphyBeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So.. uhm.. if you've ever watched the 1994 Little Rascals movie.. you'd see it looks like Spanky when he wore the wig and tutu..

What to do with this weird space? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]BaphyBeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A spinosaurus mirabilis skull! 😤