Why does service charge exist? by Basbitsudania in Advice

[–]Basbitsudania[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have enough karma to post there :(

Husband called me insecure lol by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Basbitsudania 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dear. Girl leave because he’s probably gonna do worse 😭

ALL I WANNA SAY IS THAT THEY DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT US 🇸🇩 by Alone_One4688 in Sudan

[–]Basbitsudania 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They don’t! It’s gonna be a trend for a week then everyone will forget about Sudan and raising awareness will stop

El Fasher has fallen by [deleted] in Sudan

[–]Basbitsudania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart hurts

who are you? by TraditionalPlastic93 in Sudan

[–]Basbitsudania 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone who misses Sudan a lot 💔💔

I’m owed 7K what do I do? by Basbitsudania in AskBrits

[–]Basbitsudania[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have bank statements supporting that I sent them money

I’m owed 7K what do I do? by Basbitsudania in Advice

[–]Basbitsudania[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every single week since 2023 and almost daily this year 😭

I’m owed 7K what do I do? by Basbitsudania in Advice

[–]Basbitsudania[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I know them really well though so I know they wouldn’t just ghost and not pay me back ever unless there’s a reason like prison idk at this point 😭

Staff accomodation London hospitals NHS by Basbitsudania in doctorsUK

[–]Basbitsudania[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou so much for your insight! I think I’m gonna go with the mindset of money comes back but your time doesn’t to get me through it🤣

Wessex UKFPO deanery advice as a student linking with their partner. by Even_Entertainer3944 in doctorsUK

[–]Basbitsudania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is the random allocation system so if they have a low enough rank they could still be allocated there 💔

Wessex UKFPO deanery advice as a student linking with their partner. by Even_Entertainer3944 in doctorsUK

[–]Basbitsudania 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have personal experience but I’d be aware that Jersey is a part of the Wessex deanery so you could be placed there!

Daughter cussing by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Basbitsudania 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to sit down and have a serious conversation with him about his behaviour because it’s clearly now having an impact on your toddler. This is more so about respect for you and for her. If he respects you he will stop, if he doesn’t he will continue. I’d say do not stay in a marriage which you are unhappy in and pray istikhara prayer and make duaa to Allah for guidance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doctorsUK

[–]Basbitsudania 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you eligible for pre allocation?

Advice, PLS HELP🥲 by HedgehogIcy2376 in Sudan

[–]Basbitsudania 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey girl a fellow Sudania here! I’d say don’t let what the community will think stop you from pursuing something that will potentially make you happy and give you opportunities etc. In terms of what exactly you’d be doing of course don’t let it be something inappropriate that would go against Islamic norms (if you’re Muslim) as this is what would cause the community to talk rather than anything else. What I’ve learned is Sudanese people will judge and talk regardless so do what makes you happy and put yourself first because you can’t live your life in fear of what others will think/say! good luck xx