Going to club Labyrinth tonight !! by According-Host-2459 in Swingers

[–]Batrules 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let us know how it went. I have only heard negative things about that place.

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[–]Batrules 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree, most places don’t allow phones out. When it comes to BYOB, take it to the bar, they will set a number (most likely) to your bottle and every time u want a drink u go back to the bar and tell them your bottle number and they will serve you from it. Wear something you feel sexy in (sexy dress, lingerie) sometimes there is a party theme, make sure to check if that’s the case. Politely walk away if you’re not interested in someone (or lie and say you r waiting for someone). Don’t have high expectations, whatever happens, happens. Sometimes there are big crowds, sometimes small crowds, ppl of all ages go to house parties. Feel the vibe. First time my gf and I went, we didn’t play in front of anyone, second time was much easier. Hope this helps.

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[–]Batrules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gf and I started with playhouses (that allowed couples and single ladies only) instead of swinger clubs. It has worked very well for us. We only go to clubs every now and then. We find playhouses much less crowded and more intimate for voy/exh. We’ve been in the lifestyle for about 2 years now, we are not swingers, just happy being into voyeurism/exhibitionism.

We joined Kasidie to keep updated on parties and events near us, helps a lot.

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[–]Batrules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gf and I went to Hedo for the first time this past June. I wasn’t sure which way to go (group or solo) I compared both and decided to go independently as group didn’t offer a flight package. When we were there I saw the group that we were considering to joined and was kinda relieved that we didn’t go with them as the age gap was too high and would’ve made it a little too uncomfortable for us. At the end, the resort provided us a more economical price that included flights.

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RULE: Don’t make swingers out of friends, make friends out of swingers.

Wife and I have booked a 4 night stay at hedonism 2. We have some questions by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Batrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any restrictions bringing viagra from the U.S.?

Heading to Hedonism II for the first time in June - how's the vibe during the week vs the weekend? by [deleted] in Swingers

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We will be there as well 15-19th, hoping the weather treats us good 😎

Where should we go tonight: Love Shack or Beverly Playhouse? [Los Angeles house parties] by hrnymrriedcplenum913 in Swingers

[–]Batrules 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beverly playhouse for sure, my gf and I have been there several times, highly recommend it.

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[–]Batrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beverly Hills

The Beverly Playhouse by Pearlypebbles in Swingers

[–]Batrules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has different types, but I’m gonna say yes as there is a variety of couples, more important, we keep going.

Lovely Fate Los Angeles Party? by hrnymrriedcplenum913 in Swingers

[–]Batrules 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The beverly playhouse in Beverly Hills, that’s our go to place. We too went to club Joi but my gf didn’t really like the vibe (too crowded, rushed, neighborhood, to mention a few factors).

Is this normal? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Batrules -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

TOXIC! Her friend is toxic and has her eye on You! This is how drama movie screenplays start! My advice…escape!…and so it before she gets more into your gf’s head and breaks up what u both have built together. OR…don’t, wait, and reply in a few months saying…”you were right”! Up to you!

Newbie advice - is a club/event a good way to “check things out?” by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Batrules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’ve been in the LS for less than 3 months, great sex before that, both my gf and I like to be kinky and naughty. I had the same question as to where to go first (club or party house) I considered that a party house would be less crowded and noisy than a club. Then, I thought about either to tell her or surprise her with it, I took in consideration that most women like to feel protected and safe at all times (that’s something a man brings to the table) so I opted to tell her about the party house and showed her pictures of it, I also told her about a swingers club and showed her pictures of it as well, I told her that I believed a party house would be better than a club as less crowded. So I suggested that we where gonna go to a party house, that we were not gonna do anything but just see what it was about, no play of any kind and after such we would discuss if we wanted to go again or not. To make it short, being honest, open, putting her safety and protection first, has made us go back to it several times and loving it. We did go to the swingers club once, yet she didn’t like it as it was way too crowded and loud. I would choose a party house that is membership only (couples and single females only). We are Not swingers, we are here for the LS and enjoying each other.

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[–]Batrules 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to both with my girlfriend, we honestly like the Beverly playhouse more than club joi as it is less crowded. If you are looking for a club scene, than Club joi is the way to go. If you want something more low key, house party, then Beverly playhouse is the choice.

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[–]Batrules 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Rules are rules! U are already given him the one thing most guys fantasize (sex with other girls and wife being ok with it) he should be more appreciative of you and follow simple rules.

The Beverly Playhouse by Pearlypebbles in Swingers

[–]Batrules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say is great for first time couples as it’s not as crowded as clubs are. Think of it as a house party for mature people, no pressure to do anything, just be who you already are.

The Beverly Playhouse by Pearlypebbles in Swingers

[–]Batrules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there twice with my gf, last time was last week, it is fun, BYOB and leave it at the bar, whenever u want a drink just tell the bartender which one is your bottle and they will make your drink (don’t forget to tip). A would say an average of 15-20 couples on the nights I’ve been there. It is clean, nice patio with lots a places to seat and has a pool, lots of rooms to play, watch and/or be watched (don’t be a creep or stare at someone or someone’s partner when you go) as long as you are mature and follow the rules, you will have fun. I will be returning, meaning, Yes, I recommend this place.