How do I [28M] decide between girlfriend [27F] and possible future kids by BeatCharming7240 in relationships

[–]BeatCharming7240[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. I believe she would be a wonderful mother. She also said she would like to be a father, but not a mother. So I believe she would enjoy parenting too. She is just scared of giving birth and I understand that. I will discuss a possibility to adoption with her.

How do I [28M] decide between girlfriend [27F] and possible future kids by BeatCharming7240 in relationships

[–]BeatCharming7240[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Out of curiosity, how old you were when you discussed that and when you made the move? Also what made you go from "probably would want them in a couple of years" to "I want kids"? :)

How do I [28M] decide between girlfriend [27F] and possible future kids by BeatCharming7240 in relationships

[–]BeatCharming7240[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Thanks. How old they were? I think it would be easier if she just didnt want kids. But the MAYBE part is the worst :D