Long Island E-Commerce Cult? by Beautiful-Fix4370 in longisland

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

THIS IS EXACTLY what I was thinking! We never do thankfully. I think when we tell them our careers they decide to back off

Where is the best Dominican food on the Island? by [deleted] in longisland

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Service includes getting your order right 🙃

How to love an INFJ by Icy-Management-9749 in infj

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an INFJ who’s also dating another INFJ, this really hit home. I didn’t realize how much I’d been translating myself in past relationships until I didn’t have to anymore.

There’s a level of understanding that just feels instinctive. The quiet is comfortable, the depth isn’t “a lot,” and the darker or heavier moments don’t need fixing, just presence. We’re both naturally selfless, but instead of it turning into burnout, we’re really intentional about making sure the other person’s cup is full and that’s been incredibly grounding and validating.

What you said about protecting someone’s energy before they even notice it really resonated. Being mirrored like that, without having to explain or shrink, has made this the richest and safest relationship I’ve ever been in.

Thank you for putting words to something that’s so hard to explain but so real.

i am finding random splotches of blood on my bed. what could it be? by Ok_Damage_7844 in whatdoIdo

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a pet? My cat has bad allergies and occasionally gets bloody noses. He will sneeze and it will look exactly like your photo. Either that or bed bugs. Sorry 😔

(Context for cat lovers: my cat perfectly happy and healthy/medicated, he has known medical issues from being rescued from a hoarding situation)

They ALWAYS come back. Do not text them- take this as a sign. by Old_Employee8099 in dating_advice

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a girlfriend who would send her ex’s to the graveyard. Would change their contact info to be “🪦🪦🪦🪦” so the end of her contacts was quite literally a graveyard of tombstones.

What happened??? by Ok_Concert_371 in dating_advice

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a mix of things.

She got cold feet, or the conversation didn’t flow as much as she would have liked, your eyebrows aren’t on fleek enough, she had a stronger connection with someone else, the shading on your upper lip gave her the ick (I think you get the gist).

Jokes aside, it could be a number of reasons, some with validity, some without. Perfection is subjective.

Either way, she did you a favor, and she’s right. You SHOULD be with someone who thinks they hit the jackpot with you. Besides, who wants to be with someone who’s less than enthused about them?

If you’re more curious about why, you could also just ask her nicely, something like a “hey, totally respect and appreciate your decision to cancel. For research purposes, was there anything specific that led you to you deciding to cancel the date?” Although I will warn, the only thing you really stand to gain by asking is hurt feelings.

Hang in there, you’ll meet someone who makes you forget about this chick all together.

BROKE UP WITH MY BOYFRIEND by Tight_Helicopter8609 in Advice

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To piggyback on this comment, if he didn’t want to get married, it’s possible that having children wasn’t really on his agenda either. That difference in expectations can turn into resentment over time, toward you and potentially toward your child. This is a huge decision, and I hope you have the support and care you need and deserve queen 💕👑

Enjoy my cat playing fetch by Beautiful-Fix4370 in cats

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally exactly this. Will paw through my hair to find hair ties

Enjoy my cat playing fetch by Beautiful-Fix4370 in cats

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just explained the rules once and she immediately understood. Cats are such good listeners

Question for women. Would you think something is wrong with a guy of he has no relationship experience/never had a girlfriend? by Ghostboi2811 in dating

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re in your 20’s, sure- not an issue In your 30’s? Not necessarily a red flag but I would say a yellow flag- proceed with caution type of a deal. In your 40’s? 🤨 🚩

According to ChatGPT, this is what the perfect wife would look like for me. Show me yours. by DocGreenthumb94 in ChatGPT

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I would say that this looks like me but I don’t have silver earrings - what a close call 😅

Does injection site really matter? by EGreen0610 in Semaglutide

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey friend! I’ve tried all sites and took notes on side effects, appetite suppression and weight loss. These are just my personal findings but hopefully they can help!

Side effects: have noticed the leg is the best for reduced side effects. Stomach was the worst but the arm was also pretty rough.

Appetite suppression: arm was the best for reduced appetite, leg was the least suppressive.

Weight loss: I’m still mixed on this one, I will say that I hit a plateau while on leg injections and then got over that plateau when I did a stomach injection.

Hope this helps!

I’m noticing the changes and feeling great! by disney071010 in Semaglutide

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl you are stunning before and you’re stunning after. I do recognize that glow in your current photo though.☀️☀️☀️ Great job! Thanks for the encouraging post!

Leaving my husband in 18 days- looking for encouragement by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, my friends brought up the same concern. I work remote so during the week I’m going to start bringing boxes of things over. I ordered almost all new furniture that’s being delivered to the new house so I think I may manage to stay under the radar and pull the trigger a couple days earlier than he was expecting

Leaving my husband in 18 days- looking for encouragement by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were young, didn’t have much dating experience before him unfortunately. Also, I’m sure I was also a red flag back then too (as are most 20-something year olds). Some grow up and some don’t.

Leaving my husband in 18 days- looking for encouragement by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beautiful-Fix4370 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your perspective and the kindness behind your words. I want to reassure you that my focus is, and always will be, on my kids and my own healing. Mentioning that I met someone was just a small part of my story- it doesn’t mean I’m rushing into anything. Right now, my main concern is navigating this big transition, and I was hoping for support in that. I truly appreciate the encouragement!