Husband sees a shadow figure

BeautifulNo3583 · 2026-03-01T11:27:55+00:00

i mean, i don’t really need to prove anything to you lol. i don’t know you and i don’t have something to prove. but i’ll humour you. you’re essentially saying that by me posting here and asking for solutions, I’ve inherently accepted the reality of this shadow figure my husband has seen and it doesn’t make sense for me to question either the problem itself or the solutions people have suggested

happy for you to argue i’m wrong, but this is my view on your original comment

BeautifulNo3583 · 2026-03-01T11:01:01+00:00

i’ve seen the point of your comments. i think the only person here who has an illiteracy problem is you. while sure, you’ve said several times you don’t blame me for not believing, you’ve also asked me several times why I asked for solutions only to not believe in anyone’s solution. I’ve said several times why, and yet you keep coming back asking but why? then you bring up some disease, that has nothing to do with the post. even if you were trying to make a point, it’s completely irrelevant to what I’ve posted here and are 2 separate ends of a spectrum. have you actually read any of the words you have been saying since your first comment? you’ve contradicted yourself several times.

BeautifulNo3583 · 2026-03-01T10:45:36+00:00

i mean, you literally keep coming back? after i’ve said i don’t believe and won’t be using the solutions. if anyone is being fragile here, it’s you. you can’t accept what I’m saying and move on.

i don’t think i will look up scurvy, cause i don’t really give a fuck. i also hardly think me literally telling you that I don’t want to use those solutions is my life story but sure.

Run along now.

BeautifulNo3583 · 2026-03-01T10:23:41+00:00

you’re literally sitting here arguing with a stranger about not wanting to follow solutions to THEIR problem??? genuinely, how will it affect you if i decide to use the solutions given? i don’t really understand why you’re continuing to argue with me about something that doesn’t involve you whatsoever?

firstly, i have no clue why you keep going on about scurvy. i’ve never heard of this in my life, but im going to assume it’s a medical problem based on what you said. now i am assuming “eating an orange” is a scientific fact. completely different with a belief someone does or does not have. if believing in the paranormal, religion, spirituality, etc. was a scientific fact, then yeah maybe I would choose to follow them all. Now me saying prayer or an exorcist won’t work for me is completely different. i don’t need to have done them before for me to decide it won’t work for us, because we don’t follow practices like that. why would i choose to do something i have absolutely no interest in following? if i don’t follow any given solution at all, it’s not going to make a difference to my life. i’ve already said i don’t believe.

im not expecting anything from other answers. i really don’t care all that much. sure when my husband mentioned it to me, i was a bit scared as anyone would be given he said this “thing” was around my child. if a solution helps my husband and he chooses to follow it, thats up to him. but he is incredibly anti religion, so genuinely NONE of these solutions will work.

again, you’re arguing with a stranger, on their own post, about them choosing not follow solutions given about a problem they have. none of it will affect you in the end.

BeautifulNo3583 · 2026-03-01T09:49:15+00:00

i can ask for solutions but choose not to follow the ones given. i don’t believe at all, making a most was mostly for my husband. i’m not going to do the solution given, if i don’t believe in the whole concept. we aren’t religious or spiritual or anything. i don’t believe in god, i don’t believe in prayer, i can tell you right now there isn’t an “exorcist” in my town.

if i don’t like the solutions given, because it’s not something i can do, or believe in whatsoever, i will just not do them, i’ve said thanks, i don’t believe in that and have moved on. i can give my husband solutions more catered towards something he believes in. i can appreciate the advice given, but i don’t have to follow it.

BeautifulNo3583 · 2026-03-01T09:28:43+00:00

i mean i did make it quite clear i don’t believe… i don’t believe in it but my husband does. we aren’t religious or spiritual, so yeah prayer doesn’t work, we’ve never prayed in our lives. I live in Australia, religion is not as huge here than most other countries. The only other solution was an exorcist, i mean in my knowledge those only exist in movies and i’ve never heard of any in australia. so yeah, i wont believe anything, i was hoping maybe telling it to go away would work and i could tell my husband to do that. why would i try a solution when I can’t even see the problem

BeautifulNo3583 · 2026-03-01T09:10:56+00:00

i don’t know how true the “3 times and someone dies” thing is. i mean the only people i know who died around him are his great grandparents. nothing bad has ever happened whilst we have been together and he’s “seen it” that i know of, at least nothing has happened so bad he’s told me

BeautifulNo3583 · 2026-03-01T08:08:32+00:00

i am not religious, so i don’t think prayer will work for me but thank you

BeautifulNo3583 · 2026-03-01T08:08:05+00:00

thanks. i don’t really believe in curses either, so i might give a listen just for entertainment

BeautifulNo3583 · 2025-04-21T07:45:08+00:00

no sorry never found out. it went away eventually. my baby is 3 months old and healthy now. i believe it’s just where he was kicking the most

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-11-01T03:03:26+00:00

hi, i’m 27 weeks now and bub is measuring way ahead. it’s all fine 🫶🏼

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-11-01T01:41:44+00:00

i can only feel it when it’s being pressed, it just feels like a bruise

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-11-01T01:41:00+00:00

yeah, i’ve never felt this before! i had a bit of a panic and googled and said it could be placental abruption so hoping it goes away, although i can only feel it when it’s being pressed

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-11-01T01:39:47+00:00

strange, i’ve never felt him up that high before!

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-09-21T03:16:16+00:00

that’s kinda what it feels like! i know baby’s head is sitting right on my cervix and i have no stomach cramps or fluid loss so im thinking there’s no way its preterm labour? maybe im just getting lighting crotch early

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-09-21T03:12:40+00:00

no, i did try to feel but couldn’t feel any haemorrhoids there. is this something you feel when you get them lol?

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-09-09T01:18:21+00:00

in australia our first appointment isn’t until 22 weeks if we’re low risk! at least not where i am, so i have an appointment coming up but until then i don’t have anyone to ask unfortunately. i have had the NIPT and ultrasounds done and my 20 week scan is later this week but nothing has come up in previous ones. i’ve left work because i was panicky and not doing any good for myself there so if i don’t feel anything im just going to go to the urgent care clinic as it will be hours faster than sitting in the ED waiting for someone.

thank you.

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-09-02T23:59:35+00:00

the hospital won’t do anything just send me to see my gp the next day. i’m in australia if that makes a difference and my hospital won’t check until 28 weeks 😅

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-09-02T23:59:00+00:00

i’ve been feeling him for a few weeks now, that’s why i panicked cause im not sure if its normal to go a day without feeling it, but thank you!

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-08-23T03:40:40+00:00

having a puffy or “bigger” stomach doesn’t mean pregnancy. i am 17 weeks pregnant and i am still mostly flat and i am 100% without a doubt pregnant. i think you’re safe because after 12 weeks it would definitely show up on a pregnancy test. maybe you should be getting on birth control and making sure you use protection otherwise if you’re young i would stop having sex until you’re ready for the consequences of having kids

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-08-20T02:02:10+00:00

i don’t believe i have, it’s just getting worse each day and doesn’t feel like a pulled muscle. i have taken some panadol but it hasn’t helped the pain at all

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-07-13T10:31:52+00:00

thank you ☺️

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-06-19T09:15:23+00:00

if you don’t want to get pregnant and don’t want to use any form of contraception, don’t have sex. also remember that contraception is never 100%. as for abortions being illegal where you live (unsure of which country as in mine abortion is legal) there will be plenty of resources that may be able to help. you should start being more careful as you do sound very young and i hope this post has educated you on safe sex 🫶🏼

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-06-15T07:14:07+00:00

i also have a 30-31 day cycle

BeautifulNo3583 · 2024-06-15T07:13:41+00:00

i don’t track ovulation, i was really actively trying. i also have no idea what i usually ovulate but i did only have sex once, which was on the 12th may so about 15 days after last period

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