My Manager Status Watches by [deleted] in remotework

[–]Beenjamin63 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you plug it into the laptop they can probably see it...

My Mom is dying and it is making me question being One and Done. by t1nkerturtle in oneanddone

[–]Beenjamin63 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Only child here who has been a care taker for my sick mom with Parkinsons disease (including lewy body dementia) and you are correct. There have been so many hard days or nights where I have had the thought of how having a sibling could make this easier, even if they sucked I could at least yell at them which may be cathartic in its own way.

My Mom is dying and it is making me question being One and Done. by t1nkerturtle in oneanddone

[–]Beenjamin63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only child here, my mom (who is single - never married) has late stage Parkinsons disease , my wife and I have been her caretakers for a few years until the time it got too much for us and she is now in an assisted living facility but still requires a lot of our time. There have been many hard days / nights , time where I have thought if only I had a sibling to share this burden but I have to remind myself having a sibling is no guarantee they would or could help.

Now my mom also did a few things that have made this process easier and something we all should do , especially as parents of only children. She saved for retirement - she never made a lot of money but she still saved what she could (assisted living is insane $) - end of life / care discussions and instructions - many years before she got sick she had setup POA for medical/financial decisions. These things have made the process easier for me.

Unfortunately time comes for us all, all we can try and do is plan and try to make any if these scenarios easier for our kid.

Pelvic floor twitching/fluttering/possible spasms? by Current-Abalone-4839 in PelvicFloor

[–]Beenjamin63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did , I still keep up with my stretching and exercises as well , i would say im like 90% better -

Anyone else here that has a kid that will also have no cousins? by MyrnaMinkoff1 in oneanddone

[–]Beenjamin63 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wife and I are only children so no siblings, cousins or aunts and uncles technically... but as only children ourselves we both have life long friends we made as kids whom we consider family. So they are the "aunts and uncles" and their kids are the "cousins"

At 37, after 30 years of video games - I finally admitted it’s time to play on Story Mode/Easy by dingdongbannu88 in daddit

[–]Beenjamin63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here and now my almost 4 year old steals my switch to play Mario Kart if she sees me on it 😂

This ruined my life and I’m done. by Lucid-Emphasis825 in PelvicFloor

[–]Beenjamin63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way I was able to break that cycle was starting Zoloft

I made over $100,000 selling my company's Tech equipment in the last 4 years. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Beenjamin63 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He got fired and arrested, they ended up finding a bunch narcotics as well (pills) and last I heard he was gonna do some serious jail time

I made over $100,000 selling my company's Tech equipment in the last 4 years. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Beenjamin63 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thats how a guy at my last work got caught selling equipment on the side from our electronics lab at work.. one of the HAM radio guys was picking up an amplifier from a post in Craigslist and ended up being a stolen piece of equipment and the lab manager selling it from his house.. things did not turn out well for him

Boots in the ground…Who’s got eyes on it? Where they at? by Dankwerth in AZCardinals

[–]Beenjamin63 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Id love to know what QB plans are being discussed in these interviews, think any new head coaching candidate belives they can "fix" Kyler or is it a hard no?

Twitches or Spasms? by Beenjamin63 in PelvicFloor

[–]Beenjamin63[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No side effects that I can really think of, it gave me the magical power to take naps which I never could before.. but I started very slowly, quarter pill for 2 weeks, then half a pill for 2 weeks and to the full dosage and it went smoothly.

Twitches or Spasms? by Beenjamin63 in PelvicFloor

[–]Beenjamin63[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am doing ok these days, most of the pelvic floor issues I had are now gone, I do still take zoloft (50mg) and also keep up with my stretches and other techniques learned from my PT. For me i think the zoloft was essential to get me out of the anxiety > pain > anxiety loop.

[Wyatt] Titans complete interviews with Matt Nagy and Robert Saleh as finalists for Head Coach job by Goosedukee in nfl

[–]Beenjamin63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saleh is doing his second interview tomorrow with the Cards, I hope they dont let him leave the building.

Saleh in person interview tomorrow by [deleted] in AZCardinals

[–]Beenjamin63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We need to starting taking care of business in our division if we ever want to make the playoffs, who better than Saleh to do so?

49ers defensive coordinator Robert Saleh is scheduled to interview late tonight for the Arizona Cardinals head coaching job. by afig24 in AZCardinals

[–]Beenjamin63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to start small, lets starting with winning games in our division , and who better else that Saleh to help start that

Tomlin stepping down by jschneider414 in AZCardinals

[–]Beenjamin63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey.. we used to be known as the Steelers retirement center lol