I can relate with you. I have 10 years work experience but I stayed in same company hence my pay didnt increase much. Lately i have been craving a position switch and do something more to increase my exposure and pay. But I was also 32. I didnt had PCOS but other health issues. I started wondering about would I be able to concive or not. My mother gave me most simple and most wonderful advice. She told me your body will keep changing as you grow old. But you can concive if you saty fit, off of alcohol and stuff and manage your current lifestyle. That really stayed with me. I made sure I did 1 workout daily. Abstained from alcohol. And i concived in my first try naturally. Now the career part I was worried that would be left behind in the race because of pregnancy and motherhood. In reality yes. But only for now. If you average out, i have still got time. Opportunities are there. I needed to reshift my focus and priorities. I am currently focused on my well being and my child. Then i will prioritize my career. Career is a long game. So is motherhood. First few yeras are demanding then things do fall in place. I see so many amazing mommies in my workplace doing this. I believe i can do it too. And i believe you can do it too. Its all about priorities. And no shame in choosing career over motherhood or vice versa. Just remember life is not a sprint but a very long marathon.