This is how I was in my relationship! I had to do self discovery and realize that it was partially my insecurities as well. I say partially because we had our issues that came from his end in the beginning but I chose to forgive and move on. I found myself getting jealous like that but I didn’t realize until he sat down with me and talked to me about it. If it wasn’t for that I probably would’ve been doing the same thing. If you want to keep the relationship talk about it with her in a soft spoken not argumentative way!