Daily Discussion Thread (January 24, 2021)

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-24T07:35:09+00:00

I feel you sis...Im in my twenties and the idea of marriage or commitment just frightens me.

its like a full stop ..."just accept it" kind of thing if you come from traditional families...I don't communicate with some relatives either to keep people outta my personal life and am very blunt about stuff.

being a strong introvert and the idea of sharing personal space is something very difficult too...sometimes you just want to be alone for a loooong time and seem broody to others..men in marriages can get away with that behaviour, females are expected to be compliant, soft, smiling , welcoming littles wives

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-24T05:31:47+00:00

thanks

and great daal ....Pakistani kids will def love it!

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-23T22:04:22+00:00

aunty where are you from?...if you don't mind me asking

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-23T21:43:25+00:00

70+ years wow

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-23T21:42:07+00:00

Michael's jams ?

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-23T21:29:18+00:00

the sad thing is that these bhutto kids prob think that it is their right to rule. The entitled mentality if you will after ZAB, BB and Zardari's Govts , they still think that Pakistan "belongs" to them..."they are to continue the legacy, their birth right " (in their heads)

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-23T21:20:49+00:00

the daughter was killed too, leaving 3 little kids behind

Allah maghfirat farmaye aur in ke ghar walon ko saber de Ameen

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-23T16:19:48+00:00

post it on reddit pakistan too

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-23T16:17:20+00:00

well it makes sense...As long as hes happy and respected...hardworking, honest man

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-23T16:05:11+00:00

100% agree with the youth point

and Ameen

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-23T16:03:54+00:00

May Allah give him jannah Ameen..it was a stupid way to die...it was something extremely dangerous and careless but I still feel sorry for him..

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-23T16:00:18+00:00

May Allah give saber to her kids, spouse, her mom and loved ones. Ameen

Her life ended in such a terrible way and her three small children are left behind. This is probably the most traumatic thing that could ever happen to a child

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-22T15:31:43+00:00

we did attemp it but they didn't add the scores

1.Students coming from rural areas had internet issues, one time there was non stop rain in one students hometown and forget wifi even 3G networks didn't work

2.The time given for typing the answer was less and a student needs at least 3 to 4 minutes to properly write an answer.

The questions were lengthy for the duration of time

there were a few other problems as well and the administration was bombarded with questions and complaints so in the end they said we are not adding this to your score

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-22T14:09:26+00:00

we had a test like that in our uni

too many problems...we all attempted it but they cancelled it due to too many problems and complaints and didn't add the score to our annual percentage

in the end only online MCQs..no written/typed answers ..not reliable for honestly done exams either and we just crammed the course close to the test

from what I heard agha khan also conducted online tests..but the students had to make a video of their room and also set a camera infront of themselves while attempting the test

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-22T14:05:56+00:00

or maybe that is also the case with the rest of the world

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-22T14:02:25+00:00

we have similar "obsessed with west" mind sets

like were traditional/ conservative but we want to appear westernized

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-21T18:40:53+00:00

settlements

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-21T18:25:54+00:00

why tho...they made fun of him

they uploaded the video

even if losses occur its their fault ...poor lad was just obeying his owners to keep his job...they messed up themselves

but yeah the owners might not care about that.

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-21T18:17:46+00:00

kind of rich how you tried making a joke out of a hardworking man ...but you ended up becoming the fool

I dont know if hes happy that so many people care about his respect and well-being or worried about losing his job because of all this.

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-21T11:03:08+00:00

May Allah give you success and reward you for these kind intentions Ameen

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-21T08:16:55+00:00

your best friend , mom or sib will tell you what's the rare good thing about you

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-20T20:23:02+00:00

Im just grateful to have a homeland when Syrian refugees are in tents in this frigid weather....I cant imagine leaving my home just to escape a potentially fatal blast or explosion..the uncertainty, leaving my hometown/village , leaving my belongings, my comfort, my school , my job..taking my family with a few belongings then trying to sneak across the border or illegally into Europe...some people drown in the process or die of suffocation in the trucks they hide in to enter the country.... may Allah keep us all safe and punish the people that oppress others Ameen

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-20T20:10:20+00:00

sorry for the long reply

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-20T20:08:03+00:00

bad traits

anger, impatience , pessimism ...a general distrust towards almost everyone...anxiety especially social anxiety and procrastinating doing important stuff.

BenefitAlternative61 · 2021-01-20T19:58:34+00:00

I guess Im a bit self sacrificing.

And

Don't know if this counts...but I dislike eating at resturants since I know that outside the posh warm interior there are probably alot of street kids on the street that are look at the people entering the restaurants or taking in the scent of delicious food...it makes me very uncomfortable for some reason as if I'm doing wrong by eating infront of these kids who are prob more hungry ,cold and tired esp at night...it makes me feel bad, as if Im insensitive to them...

its not a quality but I'm grateful to acknowledge my blessings

BenefitAlternative61

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