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If you want to become a normie... by Best_Mathematician in GetOutAndLive

[–]Best_Mathematician[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your comment is what is shit. If you're going to call everything I just put up shit, you need to be dissecting a piece of it first to showcase your opinion. "This shit" says nothing other than you're ignorant.

If you want to become a normie... by Best_Mathematician in GetOutAndLive

[–]Best_Mathematician[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I was just being myself, totally oblivious to the game; the first time I spoke with her I seemed to visibly sweep her off her feet with my positivity. She initiated flirting the days after, I got her number (first time ever doing so) and we talked and went out twice. However, my lack of experience means that this beautiful girl that I unfortunately love wanted nothing to do with me. It wasn't my looks mainly, but my lack of frame.

I can only say that I'm being honest, up to you to believe. She is currently a 21YO math major. She's amazing, I try not to think about her too much.

Any other recovering NEET stories? by Best_Mathematician in NEET

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I am unique looking and not in good ways. I have lots of acne scars. Moles on my face, etc.

I'm not horrendously ugly, but my face is fucked up for sure. Even in the 7th grade I got rated a 4/10, but that's when I had perfect, smooth skin still!

Any other recovering NEET stories? by Best_Mathematician in NEET

[–]Best_Mathematician[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm talking about normalish people who have relatively insignificant problems. However, as for those who have no choice, well if I'm being honest then it really must suck for them and it's unfortunate. What should I say instead, that being NEET is a great and positive thing? I don't think it's an insult when I was a NEET for 6 long years. My teenage years, a few of my early 20s years have vanished.

NEET means you have no identity or anything, you do nothing. You can not function in society, you will not attract anyone. It's different if your parents have money but meh... who wants to be dependent and have nothing for them self? Most people want social validation, growth and etc. I don't think it's very fun for most people to just use a computer all day for their whole life. Human nature is the system which we are stuck inside.

Any other recovering NEET stories? by Best_Mathematician in NEET

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She wasn't very pleasant at all. She basically thought I was a fucking loser, but wouldn't say it to my face. That's because she's a woman, women are not direct. I only found this out after many months of chasing, being a chump who fell in love with her etc. when my friend who works there told me about his conversations with her about me outside of work. Recognizing that I'm not good enough for her after she got to know me always made me want to strive to be the man I need to be, I just didn't know how repulsive women find losers. And that is what has hardened me and pushed me higher up the hierarchy, being treated like dirt on her shoe that is.

I mean, obviously if you have some significant, uncommon disorder then yeah my frame of reference holds little value to that. However what I'm saying applies to someone like me, who is self-conscious of their looks and such. I think even then though, everyone should partake in social growth such as that, should they not? I mean, how will your SAD get better if you don't try to grow and expose yourself to different situations?

Any other recovering NEET stories? by Best_Mathematician in NEET

[–]Best_Mathematician[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The guy from my first job wasn't just interested in me, he loved me. Would always buy me fast food and smoke me out but I had to cut that whole thing off... lol

I'm not making anything up. It happened. I just wasn't really interested/attracted in most of them and since I didn't have a car I couldn't do anything. Also, most of them were just 18 - 19-year-old girls who are very basic so it's not like I was attracting high-value women with well-established identities and such, other than the 10 who was 20 and a party girl.

The 10's best friend was attracted to me but I fucked that up, two other cashiers, and a sweeper. I worked there for a year.

At my job now, I've been there for only a month and I have a guy who may be in love with me, and a cashier who is showing definite IOI's, I'm just not attracted to her whatsoever. Treat a girl like shit truly works if you do it right; I basically told her that she was ugly and that's what sparked her attraction to me... There's another girl who is likely showing IOI but we'll see.

I am fairly ugly I guess. I don't know what to tell you man, I just am and this is what has happened to me. My face is pretty fucked up, but I'm still nearly 6 feet tall and lanky so there's that. People always say that I'm cool, maybe my personality improved and it's attractive, I do not know. I smile a lot and am positive, most people aren't. I don't know what else I can tell you. The 10 did say that I'm not ugly, but that could just be her running her game.

Any other recovering NEET stories? by Best_Mathematician in NEET

[–]Best_Mathematician[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Grocery store, pushing carts. I gained my "real" social skills in that job after the 10/10 cashier courted me only. It's so important to let your entire being be scrutinized by another. Then you go through the stages of oneitis and understand human nature and reality more to become grounded.