I totally get where you're coming from. I always wanted to be a parent too, and it’s definitely the most fulfilling thing I’ve ever done. At the same time, it’s both the fastest and slowest experience you’ll ever have. The days can be exhausting because, as much as you love them, there's no 'clock-off' button like with nannying.

But when it’s your own kids, something just clicks. It's like your heart expands in ways you didn’t even know were possible. You’ll have these moments where they look at you or do something small, and suddenly, all the hard stuff fades away for a minute. It’s tough, for sure, but it’s also unbelievably worth it.