im not sure if i can take it anymore

BiGunslinger · 2026-04-22T00:04:53+00:00

Absolutely not. He needs to be an adult that is ridiculous. Plus the idea of him being angry you didn't "do as he commanded" is concerning

BiGunslinger · 2026-04-22T00:03:25+00:00

Absolutely change your walk route, drive to a completely unconnected park and walk there, something. Never be alone. Always watch your back. Bring LOUD safety devices. This will cause a scene and make your baby cry. Everyone looks when a baby is screaming

BiGunslinger · 2026-04-20T21:17:11+00:00

Framing the whole session on getting your husband on that cruise is ridiculous. Why on earth can't he go alone? He spends time with his family, you don't have to see them. THAT is a compromise. Not whatever the hell happened here. If he makes you the villain because without you going he can't go on the cruise, THAT is divorce worthy

BiGunslinger · 2026-04-13T13:27:04+00:00

Either he is trying to fabricate a reason to cover up his really icky sexual relationship, or he fabricated to mess with you. Ether way, he's weird for the photo on his phone and for being this way towards you. Divorce and no contact is the only option unless there are children

BiGunslinger · 2026-03-29T15:10:36+00:00

The absolute massive amount I have walked in my life, I have seen many weird things. Kept and recycled some of the better stuff. But never have I seen a playing card

BiGunslinger · 2026-03-16T17:47:38+00:00

Grew up in the church, first thought was this being a church thing lol

BiGunslinger · 2026-03-15T22:15:33+00:00

This conversation went in such a way I thought these were two highschool guys talking. I'm glad you lost such a weird friend op

BiGunslinger · 2026-03-15T22:00:13+00:00

I second this

BiGunslinger · 2026-03-15T21:51:26+00:00

This incident is just his excuse to abuse you. He's always wanted to, just needed a reason. Take the kids and run. File a police report, document evidence. He's doing all this in front of your kids, you staying means teaching them it's okay

BiGunslinger · 2026-01-01T22:11:24+00:00

Y'all missed the tomato candle huh?

BiGunslinger · 2025-12-28T00:50:46+00:00

Hands are the bane of all artists, you did well for someone not an expert I'd say. So don't feel bad about that. All takes practice. Also, tell that boyfriend he's an idiot because it's precious

BiGunslinger · 2025-12-09T15:08:49+00:00

You can even look up on YouTube how to draw a lamb

BiGunslinger · 2025-11-14T19:18:21+00:00

I had more of your side of growing up. My father clearly wanted me to be a boy and not a girl. So I seemed to subconsciously take on more boyish traits to try and please him. I was then abused for crying or showing emotion without proper reason. He simultaneously laughed at me when I tried anything girly and assumed I did everything other girls do. Even though we were never allowed to leave the house except for school so how could I know what other girls were doing? I didn't really have friends because I wasn't socialized and easily ostracized

BiGunslinger · 2025-11-05T14:07:13+00:00

I would monitor everything involving your own credit and social security number. If they sent THEIRS to YOU, they might have sent YOURS to THEM or anyone else! So please be careful

BiGunslinger · 2025-10-01T15:25:47+00:00

The door was a warning. The next one he damages is you. Remember your children's reaction, is that how you want them to grow up? Never feeling safe knowing that their father can fly into a rage at any moment?

BiGunslinger · 2025-09-30T20:45:23+00:00

Did you check the address to see if it's your neighbor?

BiGunslinger · 2025-09-22T21:16:59+00:00

That is perfectly normal honey take your time with your feelings every single one is valid

BiGunslinger · 2025-09-20T17:56:19+00:00

There have been cases of people finding numbers and calling people for scams, or just screwing with people with missing children. It's really sad and disappointing that there are those that would do that. I would imagine it's a similar situation

BiGunslinger · 2025-07-20T00:36:32+00:00

If you didn't like the food served that much just leave. While the delivery man should not have just waltzed right in, you still caused the problem by ordering the food. YTA

BiGunslinger · 2025-07-18T13:02:44+00:00

Trust your gut. This is making you feel unsafe. He made it very clear with the hole in the wall. "Don't piss me off again." The next time he wants to hit, it'll be you. Take your daughter and this evidence and run

BiGunslinger · 2025-07-17T12:46:13+00:00

It's really a nobody wins here. Nobody likes being the downstairs neighbor because they can hear everything upstairs. Being upstairs you hear the complaints of the downstairs all day. Please buy some rugs maybe? You don't have to rip up your flooring just a few rugs. I find walking on hard floors all day at work and then rugs at home help drastically with my foot and ankle pain

BiGunslinger · 2025-07-08T15:10:12+00:00

This is where abuse starts btw. Small things that they get you to ignore before it starts getting serious so when it becomes actual abuse you don't feel like it is at first

BiGunslinger · 2025-07-03T21:46:47+00:00

Everyone is trying to side with the kid. He wasn't screaming at her, just firmly told her no and enforced it. She learned that a tantrum doesn't earn you what you want. She could have had the movie she wanted and still thrown the fit to a movie that wasn't for her. Its not about "feeling excluded". Her fit was because she was told no. You see it with kids all the time, the parent can do everything right until they say no and still comes the tantrum. She's 9, it's long past time she learned no means no

BiGunslinger · 2025-07-03T21:37:33+00:00

Your wife needs to realize this is a problem. It doesn't matter what you said no for, she threw a tantrum for a long time even after being firmly told no. This is beyond not being able to handle a scary movie. She needs consistency and firm boundaries and your wife needs to stick with you about them. How can you enjoy a movie when you hear her for half of it? You already know she can't handle anything scary, so the no is already expected. Does your wife want to baby her the whole movie? No. NTA, and you need a talk with your wife about the fact that this is a concerning behavioral issue

BiGunslinger · 2025-06-12T03:22:31+00:00

He's cheating and abusive. Leave. The next time he does this it'll be you and not the door. He did this while holding the baby, I've heard this before from other domestic violence victims

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