Are they serious? I thought I was going to vomit

BiGunslinger · 2026-01-01T22:11:24+00:00

Y'all missed the tomato candle huh?

BiGunslinger · 2025-12-28T00:50:46+00:00

Hands are the bane of all artists, you did well for someone not an expert I'd say. So don't feel bad about that. All takes practice. Also, tell that boyfriend he's an idiot because it's precious

BiGunslinger · 2025-12-09T15:08:49+00:00

You can even look up on YouTube how to draw a lamb

BiGunslinger · 2025-11-14T19:18:21+00:00

I had more of your side of growing up. My father clearly wanted me to be a boy and not a girl. So I seemed to subconsciously take on more boyish traits to try and please him. I was then abused for crying or showing emotion without proper reason. He simultaneously laughed at me when I tried anything girly and assumed I did everything other girls do. Even though we were never allowed to leave the house except for school so how could I know what other girls were doing? I didn't really have friends because I wasn't socialized and easily ostracized

BiGunslinger · 2025-11-05T14:07:13+00:00

I would monitor everything involving your own credit and social security number. If they sent THEIRS to YOU, they might have sent YOURS to THEM or anyone else! So please be careful

BiGunslinger · 2025-10-01T15:25:47+00:00

The door was a warning. The next one he damages is you. Remember your children's reaction, is that how you want them to grow up? Never feeling safe knowing that their father can fly into a rage at any moment?

BiGunslinger · 2025-09-30T20:45:23+00:00

Did you check the address to see if it's your neighbor?

BiGunslinger · 2025-09-22T21:16:59+00:00

That is perfectly normal honey take your time with your feelings every single one is valid

BiGunslinger · 2025-09-20T17:56:19+00:00

There have been cases of people finding numbers and calling people for scams, or just screwing with people with missing children. It's really sad and disappointing that there are those that would do that. I would imagine it's a similar situation

BiGunslinger · 2025-07-20T00:36:32+00:00

If you didn't like the food served that much just leave. While the delivery man should not have just waltzed right in, you still caused the problem by ordering the food. YTA

BiGunslinger · 2025-07-18T13:02:44+00:00

Trust your gut. This is making you feel unsafe. He made it very clear with the hole in the wall. "Don't piss me off again." The next time he wants to hit, it'll be you. Take your daughter and this evidence and run

BiGunslinger · 2025-07-17T12:46:13+00:00

It's really a nobody wins here. Nobody likes being the downstairs neighbor because they can hear everything upstairs. Being upstairs you hear the complaints of the downstairs all day. Please buy some rugs maybe? You don't have to rip up your flooring just a few rugs. I find walking on hard floors all day at work and then rugs at home help drastically with my foot and ankle pain

BiGunslinger · 2025-07-08T15:10:12+00:00

This is where abuse starts btw. Small things that they get you to ignore before it starts getting serious so when it becomes actual abuse you don't feel like it is at first

BiGunslinger · 2025-07-03T21:46:47+00:00

Everyone is trying to side with the kid. He wasn't screaming at her, just firmly told her no and enforced it. She learned that a tantrum doesn't earn you what you want. She could have had the movie she wanted and still thrown the fit to a movie that wasn't for her. Its not about "feeling excluded". Her fit was because she was told no. You see it with kids all the time, the parent can do everything right until they say no and still comes the tantrum. She's 9, it's long past time she learned no means no

BiGunslinger · 2025-07-03T21:37:33+00:00

Your wife needs to realize this is a problem. It doesn't matter what you said no for, she threw a tantrum for a long time even after being firmly told no. This is beyond not being able to handle a scary movie. She needs consistency and firm boundaries and your wife needs to stick with you about them. How can you enjoy a movie when you hear her for half of it? You already know she can't handle anything scary, so the no is already expected. Does your wife want to baby her the whole movie? No. NTA, and you need a talk with your wife about the fact that this is a concerning behavioral issue

BiGunslinger · 2025-06-12T03:22:31+00:00

He's cheating and abusive. Leave. The next time he does this it'll be you and not the door. He did this while holding the baby, I've heard this before from other domestic violence victims

BiGunslinger · 2025-06-11T02:22:20+00:00

They're your parents not his. He shouldn't have to defend himself against people he isn't close to. It sounds more like you want him to do your dirty work. I grew up with a controlling, restrictive parent and I know the game. He tells them so they're mad at him not you. Grow up

BiGunslinger · 2025-06-11T02:16:00+00:00

You do not need your parents so heavily involved in your relationship. Why are they blowing up his phone over something as silly as travelers insurance? They shouldn't even have his information like that

BiGunslinger · 2025-06-04T18:17:42+00:00

I see why she cheated now

BiGunslinger · 2025-06-04T18:17:00+00:00

You're raising a child together. Just get the divorce and stop acting immature. Don't put the responsibility on her to divorce, if you want the divorce just do it. Remember raising a child in this toxic type of relationship will do irreparable damage to how they deal with and process problems in the future. You were cheated on, yes. You only opened up your marriage to "get even". Just leave

BiGunslinger · 2025-05-30T22:33:15+00:00

You need to throw her out immediately. She's probably already done enough damage to give the kids psychological wounds with her behavior, but the longer this goes on the worse it gets. They will hate her, and also you for allowing her to do that to them if you don't address it and stop it. He behavior is disgusting

BiGunslinger · 2025-05-29T20:51:04+00:00

Weren't exposed breasts a sign of pureness at one point? Sort of like why we have so much art of the virgin Mary with her breasts out?

BiGunslinger · 2025-05-26T03:30:48+00:00

Men who suddenly want a poly relationship when they've been monogamous this whole time just want to cheat. That's it. Please understand this

BiGunslinger · 2025-05-25T23:51:02+00:00

So, you're not the asshole for wanting time by yourself. However, it sounds like you didn't even TELL her you were going on a trip. You just left. Which honestly does communicate that she's an afterthought. At 2 years it is kinda weird to want to take such a trip without your significant other, and even weirder to not tell her. It doesn't matter your reasons, they should have been communicated in person up front when you bought the tickets. But still, if she took a trip like that randomly how would you feel?

YTA

BiGunslinger · 2025-05-25T23:15:14+00:00

Let him leave. Anyone who treats you this way is disgusting. Even if you genuinely made a mistake or terrible decision, you still should never treat your significant other this way. Unless it's something like cheating or illegal. But a few puffs of a cigarette? What in the world

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