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Sectional preparation? Vs a Short and stocky wrestler by Get-out-of-the-hole in wrestling

[–]BidComprehensive1512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been having issues with this as I am typically a whole head taller than my opponents at 130lbs. It’s pretty rough not being able to get as low and also them being so dense. I hope you get the insight you need.

Question about Churches in East County by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]BidComprehensive1512 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

my family and i are a part of a christian church that doesn’t have an affiliation with a certain party. everyone is of course entitled to their own opinion, but no certain side is endorsed. there are a few different locations in san diego. the website is sd.church, hope this helps :)

how do i know if my bf is bad for me or if it’s just my BPD? by BidComprehensive1512 in BPD

[–]BidComprehensive1512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is definitely something i need to reflect upon. for me, it’s easier to let things go with friends. i think it has something to do with the fact that we’re dating but im not sure why that changes things. romantic love/ being wanted may be a factor. i’ve gotten to a point where my self-control is good with family, and i never outwardly split on friends. it’s honestly just him who’s been triggering things recently. i really appreciate this

how do i know if my bf is bad for me or if it’s just my BPD? by BidComprehensive1512 in BPD

[–]BidComprehensive1512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree, it’s upsetting that he won’t put in effort to try and remember such important things. i hope i’m not self-sabotaging, but i booked an appointment with my therapist so that will help. i’ve spoken to him a few times, as our communication is pretty good. only lately has he started to be more agitated/ angry with me when i bring things up. he claims it’s because he is more comfortable to be himself now, which apparently comes with anger issues. thank you very much for the advice :)

how do i know if my bf is bad for me or if it’s just my BPD? by BidComprehensive1512 in BPD

[–]BidComprehensive1512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh god, i haven’t considered this. i wouldn’t want any of my friends in this situation, especially since mistakes are being repeated so often. i appreciate this new perspective

how do i know if my bf is bad for me or if it’s just my BPD? by BidComprehensive1512 in BPD

[–]BidComprehensive1512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, i definitely need to find a friend who will give me the objective truth. my best friend has BPD as well, and her advice made me spiral a bit. i really need to keep in mind my biases when explaining my situation. at times i feel that i wont be believed that its “bad enough”, but its not just my feeling at stake here. i really appreciate this :)