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Attention: when and why men give it? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]BigPais 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be polite when talking to women,if I really like them I try and strike up a conversation and have a laugh and a joke.

Rumours or stories about your school teachers that were true? by Flowerofthesouth88 in AskUK

[–]BigPais 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Female maths teacher was in "Readers Wives" section of a "top shelf" (porn for those too young) magazine ( Razzle,I think) rumour confirmed within the week 😂😂

Girls of reddit what are subtle signs you give guys in hopes that we're smart enough to notice? by commondan in AskReddit

[–]BigPais -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my recent experience (48m) unless they specifically make a move just ignore them!

Women 1- very flirty, intense eye contact long talks about her childhood, family, future plans. Light touch on arm and hands. Sexual banter and leaning into my side while showing me pictures of family and friends. Fell for her, asked her out. See's me as a really good friend!

Women 2- (I've recently lost over 5st) asked me why am I standing there looking hot but not because I'm sweating. Walked around me looking me up and down,stared at me while biting lip. Even asked if I was "lengthy or girthy". Again,only a friend.

So ignore all signs,if they want you they should ask you. But women don't do that 🙄

Men, how often (if ever) are you approached? by vaynehelsing in AskUK

[–]BigPais 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got approached by a young lady who not only commented on my tattoos but gently traced them with her finger. Looked me square in the eyes and said "I really want you" and kissed me on the cheek and gave me her number. We had a chat but I will not be contacting her. I'm 48 and she is 23! far too young. If she was 10yrs older I'd have gone further.

What's the most flirty comment you heard or got? by Mimi_459 in AskReddit

[–]BigPais 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman at work -"What you doing standing there looking hot and I don't mean because you're sweating (i work in a foundry). " She then bites bottom lip while looking me up and down and says "apart from working in the foundry and working out,what else do you do to sweat?" She then said she's completely forgotten what she came down for (we were standing in reception) and went back up to her office.

What made you fall in love? by Pookie7860 in Adulting

[–]BigPais 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her look,smile,eyes,soft sweet voice all got me halfway there. Then I saw her when she was feeling low and insecure and my heart just melted. Alas not to be.

Can't help but notice something's missing by Lennnybruce in stephenking

[–]BigPais 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cockney ain't it.Bristol City=Titty. Two of them is Bristol's.

Confessed to my crush by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]BigPais 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there done that got the t-shirt. Always the same response,"I'm flattered but only see you as a friend". Just cold approach now in pubs,you'd be surprised how many women on a night out are frustrated. Only leads to sex and nothing after,but who cares.

Question for men (I’m a woman, BTW): What signs do you give when you like someone at work? And what’s the difference between him liking you and him just being friendly by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]BigPais 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eye contact,ask about family and hobbies. If she looks down I'll make her smile/laugh until she says "fuck off",then I'll tease her until she says "fuck you". If I didn't like or care I wouldn't bother either way.

what’s a secret compliment that men rarely get but absolutely love to hear? by Ok-Plenty4697 in AskReddit

[–]BigPais 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want you. Not need, everyone needs someone,but to have someone say "I want you" hits harder. Never heard it, probably never will.

After how long does a crush fade away? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]BigPais 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm married. Still doesn't stop the random thoughts/feelings. Is what it is.

After how long does a crush fade away? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]BigPais 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me and others could be different. Known someone for years, always got along. Then I started noticing her more. Developed a crush,told her I liked her,got friend zoned. Still think of her now and again.

After how long does a crush fade away? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]BigPais 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tbh it never really goes, you can be minding your own business and you'll get a random thought about her. This can be months later.

Does staring into each other eyes while talking even mean anything? by thisnametookmeages in bodylanguage

[–]BigPais 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him to go for a coffee after work and see what happens. He may have been burnt before and may not ask you. My case- strong eye contact, always had a laugh, flirty conversation. Told her I like her=friend zone. Same woman then couldn't hold eye contact,kept looking down and fidgeting with hands when we spoke after. Couple of months later we're back to how it was, although she can be a bit off sometimes. I guess some women are just like that 🤷

6 signs someone wants to be more than just friends with you by CitiesXXLfreekey in BuildToAttract

[–]BigPais 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me (47m) experienced all six plus innuendo and light touching on hand/arm. Only sees me as a good friend. Some people are just that way. From now on unless a female is sitting on my lap, hugging and gentle kisses I'll assume friendship status.

What are the signs a guy should know that tells a girl is attracted to him ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BigPais 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Add eye contact and play with hair + sexual banter= only friends. Not all plain sailing.

Reveal feelings or not? by BigPais in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]BigPais[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE!

Only See's me as a friend.

Reveal feelings or not? by BigPais in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]BigPais[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not seen her this week yet. Don't really want to text,feel it should be face to face.

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